What Causes A Magnetic Pull Or Attraction Between Two People Of The Opposite Sex? I Have This Happening To Me Since I Met This One Female. I Never Had This Happen To Me Before In My Life, Not With Any Other Woman That I Dated Or Met.

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Rob Facey answered
This has often been described as a chemistry between two people and if it occurs the first time you meet it has also been described as love at first sight, though there are many who believe that this is not possible and what you are actually feeling is more like lust at first sight.

It could happen because the person that you are inexplicably attracted to ticks all your boxes without you realizing it. Perhaps, at some subliminal level, you have compiled an image of what your perfect partner would look like and this person fits that picture so perfectly you feel that you have been hit by a thunder bolt.

Another explanation could be good old pheromones. These are naturally occurring chemical compounds that are found in all animals, insect and humans, and when they are secreted through tears, saliva and perspiration they attract the opposite sex and dictate sexual behavior.

Since pheromones have been discovered, and the role that they play, they have been gathered and used in things like perfumes so that they, and the wearer, becomes more attractive. Naturally, some people are attracted to some pheromones more than others, but it explains why some perfumes can be described as being sexy.

Years ago there was an experiment conducted where male pheromones were spilt onto a chair into a waiting room and a secret camera recorded the results. Females would sit either on the chair, or as close to it as possible if someone else was sitting on it, whereas males stayed as far away from it as possible.
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I had it happen to me the other day with a gentleman. One of the strangest things I've ever felt in my life. It was like his smile was radiant and bright and I felt like I wanted to run and kiss him! Ive never seen him before, but I felt weak and light headed. And he kept staring and looking at my smile as well....I don't know if I will ever see him again!
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I don't know how long ago you posted this, but I truly hope you've found your answer by now. Today I heard someone else telling how the same thing had happened to them.   That's how I found your post; I was searching for the answer for myself,  because it has happened to me also.  All I can say is that  IF it ever happens, there is no forgetting it.   Ever.
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I had the weirdest experience ever.  It was almost like an out-of-body experience while with this man.  I didn't realize how attracted I am to him.  I have had to meet with him several times a year for the past couple of years and always thought he was attractive but that was that.  Well this time was so intense that when he was close I felt my heart speed up, my breathing accelerate and felt that it was just me and him in the room even though there was another person fairly close.  When we finally gazed at each other, I actually felt and saw electricity and a bright light and didn't really know how to react.  I just kind of put my hand to my head and said what the hell.  It was a little embarrassing to tell you the truth due to the other person being in the room.  I actually had to glance at her to see if she saw or felt what I did...she just glanced down with a "knowing" look so she definitely sensed something.  He kind of avoided the whole thing as this is a professional relationship and has no choice.  Well since that day (about a month ago) I cannot think of anything else but this man...and it's starting to get me a little crazy....not sleeping, not eating (which is good because I'm losing weight).  I really feel that he's definitely going to be a part of my life because the feelings are so intense.  I have to see him (again professionally...ugh) in another week or so and really don't know how I'm going to react to seeing him.  It's like I can't hide my feelings for him...crazy.....I'm not a teenager...I'm 50 and he's a couple of years younger than me.  I hope it works out okay.  I would really just like to discuss the whole thing with him to see how he feels.  I tell you "life is like a rollercoaster just hold on and take the ride".  Also after that day I was esctatic and sooooooo happy for several weeks.  I wonder if he was?  I'll let you know what happens next week....just want to speak with him alone.  Thanks for letting me vent.....  Feeling Fireworks.
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tina harris answered
It means that one day you two will have a life together..you'll see if not now.but In the near future.. That is what this pull means..   It will happen soon..)
  Good luck..
thanked the writer.
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Lilira Dana
Lilira Dana commented
But be careful, it knows no bounds: Married, too young/old, etc.
Pinkney Barnette
Pinkney Barnette commented
My wife and I were in a Walmart. I had on shorts with a nice summer tan. We were approaching the beverage isle as I noticed a lady on the other end of the isle. She had on black hose with cut out designs. My eyes went from her legs all the way to her eyes. Somehow I knew she had done the same to me. Our eyes and smiles met and it was more than sexy, it was as our souls had locked together. My wifes nudge took my eyes off her. We both had started to speak but passed each other without doing so.
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Anonymous commented
Hormones can get in the way of common sense, morals and ethics. That rush/high can lead some into troubled waters and regret. As irresistibly tempting the opposite sex can be and lead some to stray outside of their marriage, it's irresponsible. It is betraying your spouse and your children if you have any. Some feel regretful and guilty for stepping outside of their lifetime commitments for giving into temptation.
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Today I had the very same feeling. I've been searching for an answer aswell... It was the strangest thing EVER. I saw one of the many guys I find "cute" today, but somehow there is something different about him...I saw him getting on a bus, and I actually went right in line and got on the bus...it was like a "magnetic" attraction...I've never ever ever ever had this feeling. I have had crushes on guys and flirted and so on, but I've never felt like I needed to see them and be next to them..the strangest thing is, I don't know this guy, but I feel like I need to be by his side. I don't even find him very attractive...I'm so confused right now..lol
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Oh my god, yes, this has happened to me 2 times already. I don't know if thats normal. I have never felt or reacted this way to someone before in my life. Its crazy but it was just like the movies when everything round the person goes cloudy and blurred. All you can see is that person. Well, it happened and it was crazy. When every he would come around my when would get ready dry. We work together so I see him everyday. Don't ask how I do it because I don't know.

Then yesterday a guy came into my job and there it was again. I couldn't tell if he felt the same why but we couldn't stop flirting and talking. I told myself that I was going to get his number later after his work there was done and I NEVER EVER do that. Long story short we ended up asking for each others numbers pretty much at the same time. Good lord, I hope I never see him again...... It would make things easier...

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