Oh my god I am going through the exact same thing but I've spent time with him I mean we've been together for 3 months now. But the thing is you love him so much right now because you want to see him so bad its not that you love him so much its just the thought of what you are going to be like when you do see him and you actually get to wrap your arms around him. Being apart can actually make love go stronger. When you get time to see him you will make it worth your time and make sure you have a wonderful time with him.
I miss my boyfriend too, its been a week, and he went on some family trip and its killing me.
What helps me is to be with my friends and have fun doing other stuff to keep my mind off of him.
I have the same problem. My boyfriend lives 2 hours away and I see him once a week if we're lucky. We have been together for two years and we find ways to talk to each other. We use text, phone calls and even Skype to stay in touch. The hardest part is being strong. If you can be strong, and patient, y'all will do great :) have faith!
I'm kind of in the same situation, my boyfriend went away two days ago, and he's not coming home for three weeks! It's really, really killing me. I think everyone that has been through this feels the same, you just don't feel like doing anything anymore, like life isn't worth living anymore, even though he'll be back soon. And I think it's amazing that we can all feel this way about a person, it really proves how strong love actually is.
I havent seen my boyfriend in over 3 weeks and I too miss him like crazy! Luckily me and my friend are planning a get together halfway between mine and my boyfriends houses so we will see each other then. Hopefully he missed me to!!
Its because time away from each other makes your love for each other stronger or weaker and in your case its stronger
I know completely how you feel. My boyfriend lives 2 hours away from me and the only way I can get there is by car and I don't have a license yet and neither does he. We have to get rides from our parents and my parents don't exactly approve of him. I only get to talk to him through emails and instant messaging and the occasional phone call. It's even harder when he has a job and busy with school while I sit online waiting for him. I love him so much but this next year and half is going to be tough for me until I'm going to live with him when he joins the military and we move out of our parents' houses. Be thankful for getting to see him. I don't mean to sound rude but 3 miles isn't that long of a distance. I would walk to see my boyfriend every night if I could but I only get to see him once a month. Sometimes not for 3 months and it only lasts a day. I know it's hard but be strong. You'll be together one day. Just keep holding on to him and never let things go. You'll always be the only one he sees. Good luck and I hope I helped. If not, I'm sorry.
Well my boyfriend lives abroad, I got back yesterday after 4 weeks seeing him after not seeing him for 3 years. I have to wait so long to see him every year because he can't come here to see me. For all the years I've known him we've had a long distance relationship on the computer. How sad is that? And I have got to wait so long to see him again. It breaks my heart. I understand how you feel. It hurts. But surely it's better than having to take two planes and a half hour drive???
You can easily get there by car in 15 minutes.
I wish my boyfriend lived 3 miles away, you're lucky compared to me, my boyfriend lives over 200 miles away! We have been going out a month now and he has come to see me twice, we have spent two days together in that one month and I know it's not much but it meant so much to me just to be able to see him because its not cheap where as 3 miles you could catch a bus or walk if he means that much to you hun, I know for sure if my boyfriend lived only 3 miles away I would walk to see him everyday! It is true distance does make the heart grow fonder but if you're going to let 3 small miles get in your way then it might not last, show him how much you do love him and want to be with him by getting a bus or walking, spend the night together trust me it will be worth it in the end! Hope you find a way of getting something sorted.
Well basically I'm going through the same thing you are. My boyfriend lives like 2 miles away. And what I do is I call and he calls me back if he didnt answer. Well we also text. See our moms work together and we plan a date every Saturday. Maybe if your mom and his mom is off you can go see him. I hope this helped a little bit, if not I'm very sorry. Good luck!
Yeh think how I feel my boyfriend moved abroad not so long ago and that seriously is killing me. He was ment to be moving back next week but an argument stirred up at home so now he isn't allowed to come I miss him like crazy and it wont be a year now till I can see him think yourself's lucky your boyfriends only live a few miles away "/
Over the summer my bf and I lived 3 miles away and he did not have a car either. But we came up with ways to sneak out and see each other. It was exciting every night that we did it. Sometimes he would ride his bike to my place and we would hang out that way. One night he was not feeling well so I ended up biking to his place for once. And I snuck into his place with out waking him. And layed with him for about 10 minutes untill he realized I was there. He was thrilled to see me. If you have what we have it should not be difficult to hang out if you guys only live three miles away.
No offence or anything, but 3 miles really isn't that far. My boyfriend lives 2 and a half miles away and I can easily walk to his in like an hour or so. There must be busses or something you can use to get there. Or meet each other halfway, a mile and a half is really not too far to walk or cycle. I do know how you feel though, my boyfriend is in spain for 2 weeks and I miss him so much that it hurts. Just think about how awesome it will be when you get to see him again and make the most of every second you're together. Have fun :)
Ignore what 'sellshouse' said.. My boyfriends gone away with family for the week and I miss him so much! But he feels exactly the same as I do. Boys will try to create this carefree front but underneath that theyre big softies!
Its ok to miss him but remember there is more to life... Friends and family for example.
Why can't you go see him if his mom works? Or he could walk, cycle, get a cab??
My boyfriend lives an hour away and I have to get a train tube and bus to get into central london but its always worth it :)
Careful thats its love not lust
You need to get a book that is called 'What Smart women know'! Very good book, it can help answer your questions!
3miles away? Girl your lucky my boyfriend lives 1 plane journey +26hours away by coach...he lives in a different coutry very far away, and as I'm now pregnant and working, I don't have the time or money to see him often...see him once every 3-4months and somtimes only for a week. I live in Belfast, Northern Ireland and he lives in Adiyaman, South-East Turkey. Miss him very much!!! Now just keeping my fingers crossed and hoping he gets here for our babies birth x hope you realise how lucky you r having your boyfriend so close. Even if you are young and don't see him every week, count your blessings girl!!! XO
Yes you do love him so much
Because you have nothing to do. Your mind is so empty of other things that his memory occupied most of your brain cells. Do you think he miss you too?I bet you not. Boys are carefree so be carefree too, don't let yourself be so taken of this boy that if he found someone else and forgot that he has you,you will be hurt to bad if you break up the relationship and you will for sure.
Tell him I wont be with you if you don't come to visit.