I have a boyfriend but I still love my ex and he still wants me back, what should I do?

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Fred Hamill Profile
Fred Hamill answered
'I Love My Ex...'
I think you said it all when you said "I love my ex". You didn't say you loved your current boyfriend, you said you had feelings for him. I would think it's kind of unfair to the boyfriend to keep him on the hook when your real feelings of love are for someone else. I mean, you wouldn't want either one of them to do that to you, right? Especially if you felt love for them. I think your best bet is to just tell the boyfriend that you're having a tough time with feelings for the ex, and that maybe it would be a good idea for you to not have anybody special in your life at this point, and then take that time to really sit and think about who you really want. Sometimes you need a clear head for decisions like this.
'Follow Your Heart'
You need to follow your heart. You also need to think of some things. What caused the relationship to end before? Will it happen again? What will make it work this time? What has changed with my ex/me since the breakup? Try not to make the same mistake twice. Don't waste time trying to fight for something that is already lost. And furthermore, if your present lover cares for you, would you want to hurt him by leaving?

Ch-ch-ch-changes
You have to make a list with what you liked and disliked about your ex and what you like and dislike at your boyfriend now. Then try to think about yourself. Were you happy with your ex? Did you feel safe, comfortable and desirable with him? Why did your relationship end? Did he change in the meanwhile? Did you change? What do you expect from your man? What can you receive from these two guys? Sex and good intentions are not enough. You have to think a bit about your future, your life and the direction you wanna go. Your ex can want you now, because this will be a personal victory, to claim you back. But how will it be after? Will he trust you? Will he forget that you came back from another relation?
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Mettaton EX
Mettaton EX commented
coooooooooome, and face the strange, ch-ch-changes! Don't wanna be a richer one! Time, may, chang, me-e! But I can't change time! (Sorry had to, you started it. XD )
Jon Asaviour Profile
Jon Asaviour answered
Listen to your heart , but don't run away from logic , logic is always true , your ex-maybe jealous and he is trying to break your current relationship , better be careful 
Summer Cumins Profile
Summer Cumins answered
These last 6 months all I can think about my ex and what we shared. Even when I'm with my boyfriend. I believe I was in love with my ex and didn't realize it then but I realize it now I just don't know what to do I mean I haven't talked to my ex in a year and how do I tell the guy I'm with now that  I'm not in love with him, I'm in love with my ex?
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dana de leeuw answered
You have to make a list with what you liked and disliked at your ex and what you like and dislike at your bf, now. Than try to think about yourself. Were you happy with your ex? Did you felt safe, comfortable and desirable with him? Why did your relation end? Did he changed in the meanwhile? Did you changed? What do you expect from your man? What can you receive from these 2 guys? Sex and good intentions are not enough. Just following your heart, mostly in a confuse situation is not such a good advice. You have to think a bit about your future, your life and the direction you want to go.
Your ex can want you now, coz this will be a personal victory, to claim you back. But how it will be after? Will he trust you? Will he forget that you came back from another relation?
catherine Profile
catherine answered
I can't make up your mind for you but if I was you....Id go back to your ex providing you still love him! I had a guy I was with for seven months and as soon as the guy I loved for six years came back into my life, I was back to him!! There is nothing like old flame love!!!!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

I, since i too am a girl will tell you this.  If I were you, I'd choose the guy that actually treats you right and know wont hurt you.  An ex, is an ex. Something had to happen that you guys have broken up in the first place.

larissa kowlessar Profile

Well answer yourself: do you still like him? Did you like it when you were in your last relationship? Do you wanna get back??? I think you should give yourself time  to think.

AshleeVague DanaHafer Profile

Just break it off with your current boyfriend. 

Chances are he deserves better than you. Youre obviously going behind his back, maybe not physically cheating but emotionally cheating for sure which is worse. Let him get on with his life and you do the same.

Remember. He was an ex in the first place, theres reasons for that.

Sara Mohammed Profile
Sara Mohammed answered

Nobody can help you with this. Nobody knows how you truly feel, and we don't know how they are. So just go for the one who's better. Who treats you good, who loves you more, who'd take care of you more. Cuz if you do the wrong decision, you'll regret it and feel sorry. Just do what u feel is right. Goodluck

Sebyala Derrick Profile
Sebyala Derrick answered
Hearts make choices and love dose not ask why it comes from above so do what your heart tell you to do dear ,the bible say when jacob went to a foreign land he met the woman he had never seen in life but he work for her however he fast married her fast sister but later he married her so sun shine do what your heart tell you to do dear .
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

It's too late to go back now. Someone who changes his mind this frequently is no good for you and can't be trusted.  What's to say you go back and he changes his mind for a third time? If it was true love and it was meant to be, he wouldn't be your ex. Forget about him and move on!!! Good luck and god bless

Red Love Profile
Red Love answered
You can't ride 2 horses with 1 rear end. A quote from Sweet Home Alabama. I would ask for some time from your current man and think about it. Don't go back to your ex if you are feeling bad. You will kick yourself later

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