How Can I Show My Boyfriend That I Love Him?

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Kathryn Wright Profile
Kathryn Wright answered
How to show my boyfriend I love him if we live apart?
As you have said that you have a long distance relationship, I have thought of a few ways of how to show your boyfriend that you love him.

1. You could take a picture of yourself in various places throughout the day, and save them up to send him and say that it can be like he was with you the whole day.

2. If you go to see him and then have to leave him for some time, whilst you're there you can leave notes all over his house or in his books so that every day he finds a different note. On each you could write a nice memory that you have of something you did together, or something you particularly love about him. Even if you don't live far away, this is a nice way to show your boyfriend you really love him.

3. You could get small gifts and compile them all in a box for when you do see him, just to show that you have been thinking of him the whole time you were apart. Then he can take these gifts back and remember how lovely you are every time he looks at them.

what can I do for my boyfriend to show him I love him when I see him every day?
If you see your boyfriend everyday, it might be difficult to think of ways to surprise him or convince him that you love him.  Men do appreciate gifts and gestures as much as women, but maybe be cautious that you don't go over the top too much.  Small gift that show you were listening to something he said or something he really likes, like a particular soccer team etc would be a nice little gift.

Anything that you feel you would like someone to do for you, would be perfectly acceptable for you to do for someone else, I would just suggest listening out for something he has always wanted to do, or maybe if there is a film he really likes, you could buy it on DVD, cook a lovely dinner and have a great movie night in together...all his favourite things in one evening. :)

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You could do a lot of things actually ;) it depends on what sort of relationship you are in, how long you have been together ect.  When boys ask you to prove your love to them, they might mean different things. Some boys could be thinking of sex, which I wouldn't advice you on doing if you're 13 and if he asked you to, because if he did, he's a bit of a jerk (not to be mean). Well some boys on the other hand, could mean sweet things, like writing them a love letter, saying what you feel  - which is what I did, and it worked, I could tell he was really happy about it, he wouldn't stop smiling :D but I did it because I love him and I wanted to let him know how I feel, not because he asked me to . So  you should only prove him your love if you do really love him and if you actually want to ;)  By the way, I'm 13 too, and my boyfriend is 14. X
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saima jabeen answered
There are many ways to tell your boy friend that you love him.Love is the most beautiful feeling which can be felt by a person who ever fall in love with some one. When a person loves some one it give him extra care and attention. A person tries to change himself. He would always do what his lover wants. He would try to make himself according to his lover.

Love is like a sweet fragrance which can not be bound. So when a person falls in love with some one there is no need to tell him he can surely feel love.
But if you really want to tell your boy friend that you are in love with him. Then give him extra attention and love. Try to spend more and more time with him. Go outside with him and when you think it's the right time to say him that you love him then don't hesitate to say "I Love You".

Your boyfriend will pay attention to your extra care and love. If he would ask the reason of care simply tell him about your feelings about him.
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Sweetheart you're too young to deal with that. There really is only 2 reasons why hes saying that. 1. Hes very insecure 2. He wants sex. And things will not change unless you actually talk to him about it.  If hes the type of guy whos going to flip out when you say something, then things will never work out because he has growing up to do. My sons father is 23 and I'm 20 we've been on and off since I was 17.  Being a father has made him grow up, but hes still this insecure little boy hes always been and until he realizes it, its not going to work between us.  Like you, I love him very much and no matter what I say he doesnt beleive me.  Trust me "showing him" doesnt make things better either, well it will until the next fight you have.  My advice...sit down and actually talk to him, but the moment he starts to get angry (if he does) stop him and tell him your not trying to argue and walk away.  If he doesnt try to talk out things then hes not willing to grow up and not play games, thats all this is. Its a game.
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Lim Tze Yang answered
Well, the easiest way is to tell him !! Guys are a bit simple, unlike girls. Tell him you love him, and if he feels the same, he is yours!! There's no need in buying gifts or doing anything unnecessary. Plus, giving yourself up is not an option. If he agrees in making love with you, he's probably using you to fulfill his desire for lust. The best way is to tell him or reflect it in your actions, for example caring about him.
Jb Gomez Profile
Jb Gomez answered
 direct contact to his eyes and try to let him read what's in your mind...if he reads it then you know than he felt it the way you do....
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Alex Morgan answered
If your boyfriend loves you whenever he has done something wrong he will apologize even if there is no need when my boyfriend tells me something he always asks me how do you feel bout that i.e. Are you mad? You know he loves you if he cares bout your feelings
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Tbh I think hes looking for sex of even just something a bit more than kissing which I seriously don't advise, if you have sex with his boy not only are you putting yourself at risk but do you really want to be known as " the underage whore"?
If you love him and he loves you then it should work out but if all he wants is sex then frankly tell him to piss off (: Everyone is telling you to talk to him, I'm thirteen to and I know tha a relationship at thirteen isn't seriously enough to "talk it through" and it also might be quite embarrassing if thats not what he means,
just tell him that you love him and if thats not enough for him then hes not enough for you
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I'm having the same problems with my boyfriend I'm 13 and hes 13 but he is really insecure about me talking to my my guy friends he is always accusing me of liking them and I don't they are just my friends but my boyfriend does not understand that and I'm always being accused of flirting with them
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Try by being honest. Hold his hand, look into his eyes and just speak from your heart. It will get easier once you start
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Hey, I'm 13 also and my boyfriend in 15 also. We just got in a fight because people have been telling him I like other people. So he wants me to prove to him that I love him. He ran away last night and I walked to try and find him for 3 hours in pouring rain and lightning and ended up finding him. He was really upset and he didnt even noticed me. All I said was " I walked in this for 3 hours trying to find you, believe me now?"
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D best way I feel 2 do that don't try 2 speak a lot jst speak wid your eyes n say that how much you luv him dn you can hear his reply by his eyes that 'I Love you to' realy its true coz I had try this. So what r you waiting for??
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These people are all stupid!

Don't LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY!
If  love him and if you think he genuinely loves you he wouldnt just be wanting sex.
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Tbh, I think he's thinkin of sweet things, like what the person up there sed, like a love letter or like someone else sed, about the sign on college. Gosh, if he reali cared bout you, he wudnt be wantin sex, don't listen to them, I'm havin this problem too, n I'm going to do a love letter to him. But he only sed it because we were in a love you more fight, n I sed prove it, n he seys he going to be I got to think of summit to get him bk with ;) So honest don't worry, just think of sumthin reeeali romantic n sweet, it will cum to you. Make it summit tht he'll rememberr for years to come ;) Hope it hellpps! Xx
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Sit down and write down all the things you love about him and why he's the best thing that ever happened to you and just send it to him.  Thats what I always do and it works!
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Give him something that he really likes say football tickets and kiss him.  Tell him you love him and will never leave him.
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Show him you trust him with your heart by telling him personal things. Personal feelings you have never shared with anyone and let him know it's the first time you shared these feelings with anyone.
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Remain him that his your only one, tell him how you feel everyday. Prove him that you wont cheat on him and that his your only one. Do whatever you can to make him feel appreciated. And loved.
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I would write a list of all his wonderful qualities, and some examples of things he has done for you, that you really appreciated. I would write how I felt on the list, and then I would put it somewhere he is sure to find it!
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Do you have some reason to believe he doesn't know this?  You've been together 3 years, that says a lot.  If you really believe he doesn't know, then your age would help determine the appropriate way to let him know.  One good way is if there is something you know he wants to do that you do not especially like (such as going to Nascar races or some other sport you might find boring) you could get him tickets.  Tickets for both of you to go, and do not say one even slightly negative thing while you're there.  This is something that is good for any age, from teens to senior citizens.  Cooking a favorite meal for him is another good way that age doesn't matter.  A romantic card that states your feelings, mailed to his home, not handed to him, makes a really nice surprise - if you're sure he wants to hear these things.  Some men even like getting flowers at work with a sweet card "Because I love you."  But they will get teased about it, so take that into consideration.  Hope some of these ideas sound good to you.
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emily matlock answered
Do what I do. Try to tell them you love them as much as you can. I try to do everything I can for him and make him happy. I would make many sacrifices for him. I haven't really met him yet but we love eacthother. Try not to fight and just show him you love him by whatever you feel would show him that.
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Johnny D answered
Send him a pillow cover with your scent on it and a refill bottle so he can smell it fresh every night.. Then get him a gift card to his favorite restaurant so it would be like your still bein mama and makin sure your strong growin boy is fed. If you did that for me id know you loved me....
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I can't answer this...actually I hv sem pblm...infact I ditched my boyfriend....n he want to do me smthng vry rediculous that I can't write here.....to prove I love him...bt I knw I really love him..bt I don understand what to do to convince him...I'm jst nothing widout him....jst tel me guys...I can't live widout him...he is the best...I don wana loose him...I want him back in my life...
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April Victorine answered
Any guy that tells you to prove your love to them, is only looking for one thing, SEX, you should dump him...and move on, you shouldn't be treated like that...good luck
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When you are in a relationship with him 3 years I don't think you need to prove your love to him . Moreover love not something that needs to be proved. You be sincere to him support him  during his tough times  and grab every opportunity to be with him and above him love him to the fullest ,make him feel special. Wear your perfect outfit, select a nice gift and cook his favourite dish and invite him for a lunch or dinner as you know a way to man's heart is through his stomach and don't forget to say I love you .so BEST OF LUCK 
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Maybe you should go visit him and have a romantic evening for two. Then when he kisses you you tell him you love him and hope for the best.
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Give him a cute nick-name. Like, well I can't say because it has to come out of your heart.
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Aisha answered
If he already knows that, then there is no point in telling him again and again. He will rather get annoyed. True love needs no explaination and description. It is just a pure feeling of love and sincerity.
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What I did was get all the pictures that we   have of us and put them all together and send it to him with a little message saying I love you more. ;D
Ive just recently fallen out with him I'm hoping it will all get better :'(
I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!
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Louise Joy answered
Just try a little romance, often the little things help people realise just how amazing their other half is. Give him little presents out of the blue, cook romantic dinners eg that type of thing and just generally be a good girlfriend, be there for him, stand by him. With blokes its kind of hard for them to see the little things so its often hard to realise if they really appreciate you that much but I think they do they just don't think its important to say so, but they do appreciate things.
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tyler Haworth answered

US blokes like anything especially when people notice us, so tell them that you love them if they look shocked say it's true and if they laugh or ignore you, give them a while that'll know or cry then you can prove your feelings are true to them...

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I personally think you are too young to be worrying about that kind of a problem you should live your life and be happy if your boyfriend is asking you to prove it to him by in other words to prove it and give it up to him then he doesn't really love you.I been with my boyfriend since I was 15 and know I'm 18 he never really questioned my love for him or doubt that I meant I loved him if he doesn't believe you can't do nothing about it...and stop stressing out if he believes you or not that's his problem as long as you mean it when you tell him maybe his the one that doesn't love you not to be mean I just hate jerks that ask a girl to prove it to them....
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Simply tell him that you love him so much..and always say the word I love you whenever you'll be apart or saying goodbye..
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Have you cheated in the pass if so that will be hard for him to be convinced but if you have god in your life or at least acknowledge him and pray about he truly see that you love him
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Toast Master answered
A framed photo of you giving him oral love is always nice.

By the way could you send me one too.
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I will send my favorite love songs I choose for him... Dedicated live in radio or youtube...or even better sing karaoke for him in a private party..lol and then tease him by giving him lap dance...Yuu la la la
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Wel hey I'm havn da same problome 2....im12 nd mi nd mi boyfriend been 2gether 4 a long time...we startd out been friends nd no we lov each other....wel he tells mi he rly lovs me nd will do anythin 4 mi....I feel da same way but I don't know how 2 rly show him da....ok wel 4 you I don't know what 2 do because wel diz what ill do...ok mabi he does just what sex because he 15 nd yah but if he rly lovs you as he says he dose dn he should b askin you 2 do it or provie it 2 him....like mabi he just think da because of sometin da haplen 2 him in da past nd don't want da 2 happen 2 him again wel you nvr no so I guess just tell him you rly lov em in face 2 face nd kiz em nd if he don't believe you dn I don't know grl...I need help 2 so can yhll help me (:(
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No it doesnt mean sex it means like doing a tattoo of his name in your arm or something else.I know because I'm having the same problem and I'm 13 and he is 15 and my bf said that too and I don't know what to do so plz help me too

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