Why Does My Boyfriend Sometimes Act Like He Doesnt Like Me?

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Ok girls let me put this secret out. Guys act like they don't care because it creates a game. Women start to think about theyre special guy when theyre mysterious. Why does he act like he doesnt care? Because he wants you to think about him. It causes an attraction towards him. Do you like him more than he likes you? Probably not! You told him that you noticed his game of "I don't care" and it scared him that he might lose you, so he started calling. He is trying to show that, yea, he seems like not care, which is when youre thinking of him, and then the time where he shows hes actually interested in you. Its what makes love, love. Just imagine if he was on your ass all the time. I'm sure it wouldnt be as fun huh? Its all a game and it can get very interesting.
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Probably just needs some personal space or he may have a lot on his mind about you guys relationship. Like most women, men can tend to be secretive or want let reveal too much of their feelings b/c if they do then it's like showing their soft side and most men try to be macho and show tough love. But if he's acting very reserved and doesn't want to be bothered, talk to him and try to see what's going on. If he doesn't tell you and still acts that way. Then maybe you should end the relationship because life is too short and there are other men out there that'll make you happy and keep you accommodated. So don't waste your time since we all have one life to live
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When ever my boyfriend get into an argument weather it is his fault or mine he tries to turn it into my fault and gets mad and wants to leave I always try to stop him and talk things threw, and when I try to leave I don't have to try he lets me go like nothing. Another thing is if I don't call him he wont call me. Why does he do that?
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He doesnt care i have the same type of bf we dated for 3 years broke up for 8 months and then we went back out( p.s it took him 8 months to text me after we broke up)we dated for 2 or 3 months after and he does exactly wat ur bf does i left him yesturday even thow within those 3 months we broke up and went back out that same day JUST LEAVE HIM you deserve someone that could treat you right and actually care for you ... You live in this world only once
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You don't say that to a girl idiots.

I get that feeling all the time with my boyfriend, but I think we're just being over-sensitive. Stop stressing about it, and let what happens happen, if he wants to talk or tell you something then let him work that out. Eventually it will all be sorted but don't let yourself get caught up in it.
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He or its like the last guest said we don't want to be on your ass all the time. I remember my first time after having sex I was 14 as soon as I did I followed this girl around like a little puppy and thought I was madly in love and she was the person I would marry. But I didn't know that you wasn't supposed to do that and I had my little itty bitty heart broken ROFL! Now when I'm with a girl I treat her as if I don't like her about 60% of the time but the other 40% pffttt watch out romeo lol.
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Relationships break due to lack of communication. So I will suggest that ask him directly. But there could be another reason may be your perception to his reactions is different, may be he is in some disturbing situation that he wants you to understand but sharing could be hurting for him or embarrassing. So I suggest give your relationship time. Stand back and watch neutrally whats going on. Do not make abrupt or haphazard decision.
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My boyfriend just told me he didnt want to talk or see me again because I kept texting his phone telling him how I feel about not being wanted only for sex and  that I am only looking for someone to like me for me. I said these things to him because I felt that everytime I would call him or text one thing to him...like hey or what are you doing..he never responds unil I say something smart then he would say I'm tripping. Yesterday he told me that he wanted to be appart of my life for ever but after those texts..he told me goodbye its over and everytime I tried to talk to him..he would just ignore me and keep saying bye...he said he would still help me but nothing else more. Can somebody tell me wats really going on here because I'm confussed..not to mention...we were together for a month.
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I'm in a relationship where my boyfriend says that he likes me but I feel like I like him more than he likes me. He told me that his past girlfriends had suited him for that time and spot in his life and so tomorrow I'm going to tell him how I feel, I don't want to be a random fling of his cause he's my first. I'm going to tell him directly how I feel.
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He might like someone else or maybe he just needs time to think bout stuff and maybe he doesnt want to date you anymore
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years but I know he doesnt like me anymore because he tells he, am I just hanging onto a love thats gone?
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Is he around people that miight not like you so he might not say nothing or he just because he might don't want to talk at that time
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He might not know how to show his love to you, but I'm sure he does :) maybe you should talk to him about it! X
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Well Lady let me tell you why....in a nutshell HE IS SLEEPING WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. Or worst case scenerio he is sleeping with his best friend :-p
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My boyfriend don't allow me to discuss anything to do with our relationship.he is 38yrs,very rude to me and I feel I luv him him so much that I can't let him go.
I have a distance relationship that I don't want and when I asked him to save me from this he didnt even got concerned.
I asked him some money when I was in hospital and honestly he didnt bother to know even as to why I was in hospital and I had lend him this money.
Does this guy really luvs me

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