My Boyfriend Wants To Try Oral Sex... ?


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markeith jackson Profile
First ask your boyfriend to do you first. If he acts like he doesn't trust you or he doesn't want to do it, ask if you guys can do a 69. That way he'll be pleasing you as you please him. I'm saying this because most men try to use women for their own satisfaction. It's in most of their nature. You see how they act about sex, but giving them head really increases their ego. It's about power and they feel they they have power over you when you do this. Anyway, if you are uncomfortable about this, then you need to tell him that and ask him if you were going to do it, would he do you. If he says no, then don't do it because you don't owe him anything. Don't force yourself to give him head if you're not into it. I am a guy and I'm not into eating girls out and I don't want them giving me head. I'm into the old fashion sex and if you are then he has to respect that. You do what's best for you.
Renee Collins Profile
Renee Collins answered
I for 1 really enjoy oral sex. (Giving AND recieving :) But if you are not ready to do that, then you need to be honest with him and he should respect that. And remember just because you may decide to please him in that way, doesn't mean you have to COMPLETELY "finish" if you know what I mean. I do not swallow, that is the only part that grosses me out. But he still really enjoys it. :) And make sure he knows that if you are willing to be open-minded and try pleasing him then he needs to be willing to do the same for you!! Good luck!!!
shara BOYES Profile
shara BOYES answered
Dear SweetCandy,
It is not gross to give a man oral sex. Although some women do not like the way it smells or tastes. I happen to be one of those women. For you incase you feel this way I would suggest using a oral delight gel called 'Good Head'. I use it in strawberry. This gel takes away all scent and taste of man juice and tastes like a candy.
Tonya Anderson Profile
Tonya Anderson answered
It isn't gross to give him oral sex. Whipping cream gets rid of that smell and taste really good.
Mrs Ellis Profile
Mrs Ellis answered
Oral sex is a big step in a relationship. Ask yourself several questions. For example, where do I see this relationship going? Can I trust my mate or love my mate enough to engage in such sexual activity? Can I communicate openly to my partner? You should evaluate how you feel about the subject as well as your partner. This is done through communication. Make a deal that if you chose to do this sexual act and feel it is not for you will it be a problem if you decide not to anymore. Ask your partner how he feels about performing oral sex on you. If there is hesitation on either parties part then you should consider just sticking to traditional sex. Communication is the key when making such an important decision in a relationship. Good luck.
kay Profile
kay answered
It is natural and like any another woman you are pleasing your man. I personally call it special treatment and you don't give any and everybody "special treatment"
Render Blender Profile
Render Blender answered
I love giving oral sex to boys, specially if they reward me with a happy ending.  Lol
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I love pleasing my boyfriend orally, and it's fine for the two of us. But if you do not feel comfortable, then don't do it. However, you should give it a try if you're curious. Only this way you can find it out if you like it or not.
j t Profile
j t answered
Oral sex is very fun if you really like them or love it gets even better. It shows how much you care about them and I might add you do it right you will get tired of him following you around everywhere
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
It is awesome you know but if your not ready to have a sex that has to use your mouth then DON'T DO IT OK.
Rissy Anne Profile
Rissy Anne answered
It's great if it is something you want to do. I will tell you this. Men love it as much or more than regular sex.

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