Most people would say that actions speak louder than words. So, maybe he want you to show it.
There is a suggestion that we all understand love in different ways, maybe from how we have been bought up, we have all developed our own 'love language'.
Bling Bling...it's for you
Some people value bought gifts, huge diamond rings, or expensive clothes and this goes for guys and girls.
Squeaky clean.
Others prefer 'gifts of service' this can be having dinner cooked, or cleaning their car, any task that they might seem as arduous, but that you are happy to undertake for them - these people will value this more than just something that you can easily pay for, so in effect, they would be insulted by a big gift because you haven't had to put any real effort into it.
Tell me more.
For other people, verbal affirmation such as telling them how much they mean to you, praising them in front of family and friends, fills them with pride and they can then feel more confident that you love what they do and who they are.
Squeeze me, squeeze me, squeeze me baby!
The last type of person values good old hugs and kisses and anything tactile to show that you are physically attracted. For these people, you could tidy the whole house, buy them a big gift, text them all day to say how much you love them, and if you don't hug and kiss them when they get in from work, it could all be for nothing.
How to make your boyfriend believe you.
It might be that you love gifts and he loves a massage...The best thing to do is watch what he does for you, take note of what he says and does to show you he loves you, and then use the same actions to show him you love him. Effectively you are then speaking the same 'love language'.
