I Love This Boy But He Doesn't Love Me Back. How Can I Make Him Love Me?

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Lucy Burroughs Profile
Lucy Burroughs answered
Unfortunately, you can't make somebody love you. If you try, you're more likely to push them away than bring them closer. It's called 'falling in love' for a reason; if you could control it, it would probably be called 'jumping in love.'

How well do you know this boy? By getting to know each other, it's possible he could grow to like you, but there's no way of making him love you. The harder you try, the less likely it is to happen, and if you've ever had someone do it to you, you'll know how annoying it can get.

So What Should I Do?

You've got several choices:
  • Flirt with him, talk to him more and find out what he likes - however, if he's not interested in you, he'll probably find this very irritating.
  • Tell him you like him. If he isn't interested, accept it and move on.
  • Get to know him, if you don't already. If you get along well you might be able to get a date.
  • Forget about him, move on, and find somebody who appreciates you just as you are.
Charlotte Nunn Profile
Charlotte Nunn answered
Well, I know how you feel because I'm in the same situation. These things take time, become really close friends with him slowly and let him fall in love with your personality.

Alternatively, I know that it may seem impossible at the moment but you could just move on, find someone new, what's the use of waiting for a guy if its a waste of time? You can find love basically anywhere but it's about waiting for the right one :)

Hope this helped x
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Sammantha Bilgere
We've been friends for over a year now. He knows me so well and can read me like an open book. I've tried and tried to move on but i just can't. I actually love him and can't picture myself with anyone else. How can i move on?
Charlotte Nunn
Charlotte Nunn commented
Well, you can try to get another boyfriend, I know you say that you can't picture yourself with someone else but people can surprise you and you'll soon loose feelings for whoever your other friend is, this worked for me a year ago :) but now I'm in the same situation, it's tough but you'll get through :) isn't there anyone else that you like?x
Hugh Farrell Profile
Hugh Farrell answered
What age are you? It depends for different ages.

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