I Like A Boy But He Doesn't Like Me To Well What Do I Do?

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Connor Sephton Profile
Connor Sephton answered
It depends what you mean by him not liking you 'too well'. If you mean he doesn't like you in the same way but is already a friend, then it might be a good idea to tell him how you feel. He might not know about your feelings and might feel the same but be too shy to tell you, just as you are now. Look at how he acts around you; does he laugh at your jokes? Is he affectionate without being awkward? Does he make effort in how he looks around you? Does he regularly call, text and Facebook you first? If so you might be onto a winner, but at the same time, friendship is just as important if not more so than love and relationships. Boyfriends come and go, while friends stay forever. Take things slowly and think carefully about whether to tell him how you feel and whether you feel seriously enough to change the relationship. Maybe talk to a friend who knows him and who can offer a different perspective on the situation, from the outside. Why not ask him out to the cinema or for dinner? If you're already friends this might not be out of the ordinary for you both and you could try to build on the relationship by becoming closer to him and spending more time alone with him. If you're not already friends, then I'd suggest getting to know him, make an effort starting conversations and don't become flustered or try too hard around him. Be yourself, be confident and happy in yourself, and you'll be much more likely to get his attention. If you're shy and awkward he might not take much notice of you.
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Anonymous answered
Just be yourself and I'm sure he will like you if you make friends with him as quick as possible
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Ughh , I Know How you Feel Hun ! I REALLY Likee This Boy But He Thinks I'm Ugly . But I Really Like Him A Lot ! Thee Thinq I Do Is TRY To Act Like I'm Over Him Even If I'm Not , Look Cute Always And Act All Crazy And Fun And Awesomee In Front Of Him Becausee That Way He Ends Up Lookin At Me , If You Catch My Drift ;) . And I'm Trying To Get Over Him , Even If I Can't , Then Whatever . A Second I Spend Sad Over A Guy Is A Second I'll Never Get Back . Life Is Short , So We got to Love Like We're Dying . And Lovee Is Just The Beginning , You Just got to Live Life To The Fullest , And You Know What? That Doesn't Sound Too Bad ... :)
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Allana Mathilde answered
Well, that sucks. I've already been there (and, to be honest, I still am, I think I'll never be over this guy.) You want to know what I did? I cried over and over and over again. I read his texts, had flashbacks of moments we spent together over and over again. It was horrible. I thought I'd never stop feeling that way. I started feeling bad about my looks and became insecure. Of course, this was all in vain. Now, he has a girlfriend and, although I believe he has feelings for me, I never think about it. The best way to overcome a heartbreak is to free your mind. Don't think about that person, and, if you can't, occupy yourself with a hobby or something. The worst thing you can do is break your own heart when it's already broken. Just keep smiling even if you feel like giving up, believe that better things will come and that your life is more than this person. Maybe to surround yourself with people who don't know that you're suffering from a heartbreak would be good, this way you won't get to talk about him to anyone and, with time, everything will turn out alright.
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Britt bb answered
You don't have to get over him just yet. Now that you told him your feelings, he may see you in a different light now, and change his mind. If he doesn't make an effort to get closer to you, or get to know you better within a month or so, move on. He has no intentions of liking you. I know it's really hard to get over a guy (trust me, it took me months to get over a guy that didn't like me back), but if you open up your heart and options a little more, you WILL find someone else to love! :D
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Anonymous answered
Try flirting and sitting next to him at lunch if possible.Also, try becoming friends with him and having small conversations sometimes.When you see him in the hall give him a small smile.When hes near you at recess or lunch or in the hall or something like that flirt with another good-looking guy to get him jealous. Don't let him figure out that your desperate if you are.You need to control this game not him.
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Taylor Miller answered
Well just talk to him, and if he says he honestly doesnt like you like that then just try not to like him as much, like ppl say "there are many more fish in the sea!" don't waste all your time on this one guy, I bet its not worth it!, I've been in the same possition as you and I can understand where your coming from so just ask if it would ever work out between you two, and if he says no just move on(:
-so just live your life and don't worry about one boy, theres better out there probably.
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Brenda gill answered
Honestly it hurts bad, I've been there but the best thing to do is to talk to other guys, try and flirt with them, see what interests you share. Just remember that life is too short for you to mope around about a guy, if he doesn't like you then it's best to move on if you can. Would you rather him like you as a friend, or lie to you and say he loves you?
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Anonymous answered
I like this guy but I don't think he likes me, but I will move on, because like some one else said, in the end you will end up getting your feelings hurt.
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Anonymous answered
Just keep trying but don't let him no how much you like him but just go near him a lot but don't make it too obvious trust me I am trying it myself
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Arthur Wright answered
Now if he doesn't like you at all then thats a different story as no one on earth can make another person feel the same way about us as we do them, it just can't be done so we plant a seed of interest and pray it takes hold and then with some patience and TLC, it grows into something beautiful and long lasting but we have no guarantee that the seed will take hold but we try and if the seed doesn't then we plant another somewhere else and start all over til a seed takes hold. There are no guarantees in life anyway so all we can do is try and hope and believe.
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Anonymous answered
If you think you are a victim then let me ask you a Queation. Imagine that one boy likes you but you don't. What do you think if he tries to do anything where as all his attempts will be wasted. What do you think which one should stop trying & which one should stop rejecting.
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I know how you feel I'm 16 and I like this boy at college and my friend asked him my friend likes you do you like he ane he said no  and I know its hard to forget your feelings but  we all got to do it. Xxx
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I am a christian I am 19 n I like this minister that is 28 bt he has a finacee he acts as if he likes me n he said that he likes me as a friend but yet still he is asking me if I like him n because I don't want to tell him he got upset n left but he alreadi made it clear he don't like me onli as a friend and it realliy hurts what should I do??
thanked the writer.
Patrice Roach
Patrice Roach commented
He is a minister right with a to be wfe he should not be worried about anybody liking him hes a fraud and she will regret marrying him stay out of that crap how would you like if you were the wife to be and someone else was interested in him and he was feeding into it.Do unto others as you would have others do unto you I am sure u have heard that one before.
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Lynn Perie answered
It's ok to like a guy who isn't as fond of you, however, you should be finding a guy who has the same fondness for you. Don't waste your time and energy on trying to find something that isn't there. Keep looking until you find a suitable match. Somehow I don't think you really want to be in a relationship where the other person isn't as fond of you as you are as him.
Good luck and be happy my dear.
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Anonymous answered
Well,some boys can be a real jerk,they know you  like them but yet they pretend they don't, but if you know for a fact that this boy doesn't like you I think you should get over him, o.k, I know it might not be easy but trust sometime its the best thing to do.
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Its not going to work if your 2 years infront you are too old for him move on ! Bk to the real question: Make friends with him then tell you how I feel if he says he feels the same as you ask him out while he still means it !
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I really like this guy too, and iv already been out with him, but I dumped him becausee I thought he liked me best friend. But he then made it clear a couple of weeks after that he didnt.And I'm like head of heels in love with him now again, but he doesnt like me anymoree.Were still good friends but I can't helps but act really shy around himm.And I don't know what to do anymoree.
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Anonymous answered
Don't waste your time because in the end you may end up hurt. Just move on & look for a guy who seem interested in you.
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tazeen fatma answered
Don't worry just ask him to be your friend and hangout with him and help him in many ways and think positive
I'm sure he likes you
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Anonymous answered
Forget about him if he has a girlfriend but if he doesn't then just try to annoy him and I bet he'll like you!!!!
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Anonymous answered
Roll in your  misery and hope he will soon like you I guess what da hell do I kno what ever
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Anonymous answered
I think you should slowly become friends.If that doesnt work then yeah.I'm in the same situation.don't feel bad
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You should also don't need to bother about such a person who don't have any respect for your feelings.
islandersfan Guy Profile
Aww you have a crush!

Now to answering the question...

You have to become his friend and soon enough he will like you then you can ask him out
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Anonymous answered
I have the same situation with ben but I got him to like me as a friend HE HUGGED ME and now we might go out I ask him out tomoa
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Anonymous answered
You can't live your life hoping this boy will like you, when there are other boys that would do anything for you. Although it may be hard, you should realize that maybe you guys will never be together, and start looking for someone that actually wants to be with you.
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demi lovato answered
I lick this guy that does not talk to me  but when I'm outside he looks at so does that mean that he likes me!!!

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