I Like This Boy But I Don't Know If He Likes Me Back, What Should I Do?

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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
If he looks at you a lot that's a sign and if he trys to hang out with you more that's another good sign.
Thomas Retterbush Profile
I assume you are a preteen or teenager. Take a look at your other possibilities, other guys and what you really want. You may just like him because he is playing hard to get. Often people only want what they can't have. But if he is who you really want, I recommend you check out, 5 Signs that Tell if a Guy Likes You, an article subtitled, How to Tell if a Guy Likes You. Good luck, but remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Anna Myers answered
Ask him if he would like to go out for a soda. Make small talk with him.
See how he talks to you, if he makes a lot of eye contact when talking
it is a good sign. If he keeps looking off, he has other things on his mind.
GOOD LUCK!
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Anonymous answered
Hang out with him. Just act normal but flirt a little. When you talk to him look him in the eyes.
Talk to him about stuff you both like eg  a movie or a sport
If none of this works ignore him for a day or two ( but don't be rude )
And if he keeps trying to talk to you and you catch him looking at you he will probably like you back
He might c a difference with you not talking to him and not being around
It worked for me so good luck
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moodie madd answered
Well if he likes you likes you, he will probably get more touchy, and hang out in private or just hang out with you more. But if he just likes you like a friend he will act more conservatively than your girl friends!
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Anonymous answered
Well, If I knew some of the things he says to you or how he acts it would help. But I would say go for it, if he's single and you've talked to him before and you guys have things in common, then I would just ask him, or maybe give him your number. The best things I can tell you is that if you don't do it and you let him get away you'll always regret it and wonder 'what if'.
So go for it girl!
 
Hope this helps!
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Anonymous answered
I really likes this boy but I'm not sure if he still likes me any more because sometimes when he around his friends he ats like I'm not even there but when its just me,him, my friend, and  his bro he is sometimes nice so I don't I if he does so should I ask him or not
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Anonymous answered
If he likes you and people have told you, ask him out! If he doesnt like you, your just going to have to get over him, thats life.if you are shy like me and don't like to approach guys, ask some of your friends to see if he likes you.
Jessica Blackman Profile
Just try and tell him think about it first though. Are you making the right decision? But its worth trying because life is about taking chances and meeting people and going through different emotions so just try and speak and see if he likes you back because it might surprise you :) x
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I like this boy n ive told him I like him but he just told one of his m8s n after that acted like nothing had happened!
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MALEKAH MALEKAH answered
If You Two Like Each Other Then Go For It And REMEMBER To ALWAYS Love Yourself First And BTW! Yes I Do Remember You How Are You :)
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Jon answered
My 11 year old step son has one of his friends talk to the girl and see if she fancies him, I suppose you could do the same.  That is a tricky age (hopefully he is about the same age) as you are just really discovering the opposite sex.  Try flirting with him, see if he will help you with things, play games with him or put yourself around him to see how he acts towards you.  Chances are good, at that age, that if he really acts like he doesn't like (like pushing you away and being mean) he likes you quite a bit.
 
Unfortunately the best answer really is talk to him.  But if you want to spare your feelings be around him and see how he acts.  If it is just the two of you he will likely act a lot different than he will if he is around friends.  If that is the case then you know he does, if he acts the same all of the time, then he may not.
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Anonymous answered
You just talk to him and tell him what you like and forget you told him you like him and if you think you are talking to much to him just don't talk to him one day or week and then he'll maybe think you're not fine and he'll talk to you and you to him, maybe can start something ,if it doesn't work read the other idea
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Be yourself  ! I like this boy tanner harris too  and  I  am  going  to ask  him  out tomorrow! Do the  same and  ask out the  boy you like!
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Daisy Cwavaltzi answered
I have the sameeee problem every 1 tells me that he likes me and I REALLY REALLY like him back and I want to ask him out but I'm scared he might say no because were really really good friends so I don't want it to be awkward between us if he says no what should I do plz help:(
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I like this boy who lives in the street and hes class is next door to me I keep on looking at me.
Today hes family was riding there bmx and I had no won to go on with he said I good go on with him but it was fun
alys alys Profile
alys alys answered
Don't be afraid just go up and ask. Then you make your move like you know kiss kiss.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Just be nice to him and see how he reacts to you starting out as friends is comfortable and then you can find out all you need for the answer to your own question
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Paula Null answered
Be yourself and strike up a conversation with him one day. Mention going to get a sandwich or soda together. Let things happen naturally. Most importantly, don't put on a front, just be yourself around him.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
If you are brave enough ask him straight out. But a easier way is to have a talk with him, than slowly bring the subject up with him and see how he reacts. Or just go and ask his mates to see what they say
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Talk to him and ask him if he wants to hang out. Also play the game questions with him. Ask him different things like who he likes. Or just go for it. You will never know if you don't try!!
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Xavier Arauz answered
And to add to that, flirt with him! If he likes you and he's just shy, then he'll get over his shyness once he finds out you like him.
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meliane unknown answered
Flirt with him, make him know your interested. Talk to him. Make up a subject. But don't go stalk him or anything. Just talk about like what hes a football player or what kinda computer games he likes. Just make sure its something that can keep the conversation going.
Anonymous Profile
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The easiest thing to do is see how he react around you or everytime you him or her if he stare or smile back at you he definitely like you and be your self never copy someone who he likes.
Anonymous Profile
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Well you can ether ask one of his friend if he has a girlfriend if you don't wana ask him or ask him!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Well there's this boy I like but we don't talk  but he stares at me in the school hall's and at school but he hangs around with other pretty girl but never talks to
Anonymous Profile
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Try to flirt with him... Talk about something random.. And say how good he is at something x
Anonymous Profile
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Just be your self and if you have a dance or something coming up ask him if he wants to go
Anonymous Profile
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I tell you I have been their its not that easy so I suggest you just take it easy flirt and if he smiles at you than your in his mind!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
What you should do is hang out with him fore a while and when you AND him feel comfortable just ask him out when your are alone.
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lindsay swavely answered
I don't know I have the same problem but read his body language and flirt a little bit but don't push it


GOOD LUCK!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Ask him if he wants 2 hang out or something but make sure its just you 2 no 1 else then when the time is right then ask him if he likes you thats how my friend got her BF
Anonymous Profile
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I like this boy but I don't know if he like me back he calls me horrible names and all my friends think that he does but I don't know what to think ?
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I think that you should get like a friend to ask him if you like him or not and then you can make your move.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I have a similar problem to this but I have told the boy I like him an he said he just wants to be mates but I can't let it go I honestly don't no what to do can anyone help me please?
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Just get a friend to ask him if he likes anyone there at your school and if not then you make your move tell him how you fell about him ^_^
Anonymous Profile
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Just be your self be funny ask him questions smile when he looks your way do what ever you can to make him notice you
Anonymous Profile
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I like a boy and he likes me back in total silence ... But he thinks I'm taken but I'm actually not so he made a girlfriend out of the blue
what should I do he's really cute , athletic and apparently a bad boy just my type ....
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You should tell him that you like him. Maybe it would be okay if he doesnt like you. Thats okay and all. Rejection is better than not knowing. :)

-Unknown Expert :)
Anonymous Profile
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I like this boy > but so shy around him>and I can't talk how do I tell him I like him?
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Hi I like this boy and I go to see him every thursday and I make an excuse to why am there all the time when he is....I don't no if he likes me back tho...how can I find out PLEASE help me I really like him... =/
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Get to know him for an example you could invite him to your birthday party or ask him to go out with you and your mates. He'll get so confident around you he'll probably ask you out!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I fancy a boy at confirmation he is really cute.I don't know what to do I really like him and he my friends cousins best friend so I don't know what to do.I'm 12 and he is to so what do I do?
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Moo C. answered
It's best to just ask the guy something like "I like you do you like me?" but think of a more serious way to ask
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Emma Waite answered
Well, he will stare, Try to show off/ flaunt, be funny, and his pupils will get bigger while he looks at you. Good Luck<3
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Kaitlin Bleh answered
The only way to find out is ask. Just go for it. I don't know how old you are, but you could maybe ask him out. And I mean if he likes you he will probably say yes.
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Mandy Clark answered
Just ask him out!!!!!! If he rejects then he's got issues because he hugs you and talks to you and stuff. Good luck:)
Anonymous Profile
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I have a brother who is on a base-ball team and there is a boy on the team who I think is really cute. But the problem is that we go to sepperate schools and I don't think he knows I exist.
thanked the writer.
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Maybe if your brother has a birhtday party he might or ask him to invite the boy who you like over and maybe you can talk to him but dont shy around if he looks at you actually smile back at him.
Anonymous Profile
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Turtor him  make him laugh one sign you know he likes you is when he smiles when you look at him and then turns red
Buzz ross Profile
Buzz ross answered
You know if he likes to hang with you than most likey trust me it happened to me be 4
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SIMON MATLESHE answered
One measure of friendship consists not in the number of words that friends can discuss, but in the number of words they need to mention.

You believe me the very same person you are having a crash on he is just like you,he does not want to ruin your friendship..so just take a small risk by one of the good days take his hand and kiss him.(then after tell him to K-Keep I-it S-Straight and S-Simple ).
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My method usually is to watch the person very closely in case you notice some changes in behavior which look unusual and relate to you...It very much depend on a person, but is he is a close friend I suppose you could talk to him about anything.. One thing could be that you've met someone but not sure and need his advice...some guys crack when you start talking about love ie what it is, poetry, very romantic stories etc Hope some of this is helpful
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Well if you like a boy then first start out like friends get to know what he likes or if not be your self its better he might like your character and he might tell you himself he likes you if not if not continue your friendship and become best friends then when you think the time is right just close your eyes and tell him start out cool and slow and then tell him the main point simple!!!
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Theres this boy at my school I had a crush on him sense 6th grade then he stared staring at all the time and get closer then when we got to 7th grade he started staring at me and trying to kiss when I walked in the hall but we never talked and do any thing every time he would stare at me he would do eye contact then when it was the last day of school he wanted to stare at
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Hi umm I like this boy in my class he seems he likes me like when I tell him something he looks at me and talks back to me . Some  of my friends asked him out for me and he said no but he was around his friends the next time they asked him out all he said was no  and my friends asked him why all he could say was because  the next day he was still talking to me dose this mean he likes me ???? I really like him !!!!
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Personally things go can go wrong wen you go straight out...

*you got to make him want you...n if you just go for it all easily then your not a real challenge to him.....

* make it a lil more complicated..

*talk longer...

*I don't know go to a party fake that your drunk n totally kiss him.

*its ok to ask around n see what he's saying to other people..


**I once told my friends that I liked someone n I knew they would tell him but once he knew my feelings all I had to do is wait for his reaction..

*if he wants to be with you n he knows you like him then he'll come around...


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I wouldn't ask him. But at my school I had the same problem but I knew he liked me.What happened to me was he found out I liked him so I gave up on him because if he is going to tell people a lie that he dose not like me then I shouldn't go with him. You see everyone has boy trouble's just not the same.It's complicated but it's just what happens.

Love,
a girl name Alyssa
  (pronounced Alisa)
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I really like this guy but I'm afraid to ask him him out and don't know if he likes me back we do talk but he keeps looking away he is quite shy around me and I'm 2 scared 2 get my friends 2 ask him out for me what should I do!!!
Theres a disco coming up should I ask him 2 cum 2 it wit me

HELP
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Kitty Grant answered
You should tell him. When I ask a guy who sits next to me in class if he liked me or not, he said he did (and he actually did) and then I didn't really like him... But ( I have no idea why) but I started liking him.  Maybe that will occur with you guys, too.. Maybe he'll start liking you when you confess you like him.   Good luck! <3
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I really fancy a boy my age just around 11 coming to 12 and he is very cute he is in secondary skool and so am I are schools are opposite each other and I really want to tell him that I fancy him but I don't no when and I don't no how I'm really nervous and I don't no if he likes me 2 what should I do and say ?
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You should start a conversation with him, but about what he likes. If your friends ask him out for you and he tell your friend to tell  he wants to change you, DON'T change for him just say wow if he doesn't like me for who I am he isn't worth changing for.
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Well I have  HUGE crush on some guy and we r getting' closer... This is how you do it... If you see him in the halls then drop your books as if it fell. Then ask him if he can pick it up,... If he does, then he likes you sum what... But if he doesn't then.. Sorry you just got rejected... :(
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Umm I really like this guy I have liked him for one year already and he knows I like him and he kinda flirts with me between classes and when I text him we have nothing to talk about I'm always binging up the conversation an me an him have gone out but it only lasted a day so we are just best friends now and I don't know if he still likes me or not I want to ask him out but I'm afraid he will say no then it will be very awkward between us so I just think I shud leave it alone....
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Well first you talk to him get to know him. Try to hang out with him an flirt a little bt don't go all out with it Just kp it on a minimum if you try to hard he will think your a little weird. Ask him if he wants to go skating or whatever he likes or something you both are interested in an talk an still try to get to know him an when he looks into your eyes smile a little not a koolaid smile. An you both might unite an get each others numbers talk over da phone an maybe by that time y'all will be that match Because I did all of that an know me an him talk every nite an we are uniting
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I would say just to start getting to know him better. Invite a few friends over, and include him. This way, it won;t seem as awkward. Keep hanging out with him in a group. After a while, if it seems like the two of you get along, and you both enjoy spending time with each other, maybe you two could hang out by yourselves. Invite him to go to a game or a show that you both will enjoy. He will begin to realize that the two of you have a lot in common, and how cool it is to be around you. Whatever you do, don't try to pressure him into saying whether or not he likes you. This will only be extremely awkward for both of you. Just let it evolve naturally.

One other way to gauge his interest would be to try reading his body language. Though it isn't an exact science, it can give you some pretty good clues. Here is a good website that I found- love.ivillage.com

I hope this helps! Good luck!

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Hi theres this really cool funny hilliouris boy in one of my classis I don't know if he likes me I don't know what to do help me I asked my friend to ask him out for me she hasnt done it yet but he has a girlfriend should I ask him out or wait till him and her break up what should I do
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Just talk to him more like if he is stanging alone go make convosation with him ! Let him no your intrested but don't make it to obvious when he is alone on a table at lunch go sit NEAR him but not on the same table sit by yourself and he will think somethings wrong and he'll sit with you and talk
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Emma Mcculloch answered
Rite my advice wood be go for it and if he says no don't be all upset because it's not worth it as I am writing this I am in a weird mood because I asked a boy out via my xbox and he replied maybe or yes and I put back well what is it and my dad came upstairs and sed it's late get the xbox off soo I don't know what he has sed so I have to wait till I go to skl 2moro I will either be single or not I'm not sure
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Ronnie Maye answered
Well, just start a conversation with him and ask if he has a girl friend or not. If he says no then tell him you like him and would like to have a soda or go to a movie with him and see what happens.
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The first thing you do is keep a close eye on him. See if he notices things that are not easy it see then he likes you. But if there is nothing then just try to be friends with him and try to be his closest friend.
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I've being in your shoes and I've learnt that the one thing not to do is make a complete fool of yourself by say, tripping and dropping your books or by walking into him because then he just thinks your clumsy. Also if you find out what he likes don't just say you like them too because then that looks like obsession! What you need to do is start to chat to him by making polite conversation and see what his reaction is if he seems interested than leave it a few days and then chat some more, slowly building it up so that you don't seem too in his face! If it doesn't seem interested than I'm really sorry but no he doesn't like you. I did this and now I've being with him for eight months. But most importantly enjoy love and be yourself!!
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I'm a girl and I like this boy but I think he like a person in my block and its a b o y I think hes g a y
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If your of legal age, why don't you break the ice and ask him if he wants to go out and have a couple drinks? Since you guys are already friends, that shouldn't feel uncomfortable. Maybe that would loosen you both up a little and you could open up to him about your feelings. If your not of legal age, suggest going to grab a bite to eat or something. He is never going to find out your feelings unless you tell him. You could be letting a good thing pass you by. If he is a true friend, you expressing your personal feelings for him should not get in the way.
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I was wondering if anyone could help me because I fancy a guy but hes one year older than me and when my friend asked him out 4 me he sed no but only because he doesn't know me. So does that mean if he knew me that I'd have a chance?
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Flirt with him a little ans see if he stares at you I don't like this boy he stares away and like this other guy hes soo hot I actually love him but I don't know if he even likes me but he stares at  me and laughs when I am around. I have a weird feeling inside my belly every time I think about him.???

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