I have the same problem ! I am staying away and distancing myself from now on .. If he loves me he wil know what a good opportunity he has let walk. If he come running back I will gradually speak to him again but I wont run at him! Need to keep some pride and not look to available because if you run back to him straight away he will know that he can get you at the click of a finger. Make him wait..
I Really Really Like This Guy But Hes Got A Girlfriend And He Likes Me But How Can I Still Like Him Without Making His Girlfriend Mad?!?!?!
I'm having the same dilemma....what I did was I told him upfront that we should stop communicating with each other...even though I like him so much, I don't want to be part of the reason why he and his girlfriend would break up...it's so hard to not txt him, but I'm resisting the urge, although I still want his friendship, I told him that it'd be okay if we hang out w/ groups of people cause my friends are his friends, and that avoiding each other is not what I want to happen.
Go to him tell him you like him a whole lot, and you're prepared to wait for him (Assuming you are) but remind him that good things never stay around long enough. Don't ask him to choose, cause he might choose wrong, and you'll loose. Help him to see what he can get from being with you.
You should do the right thing and stay away from them. He has chosen her so let them get on with it. I know this wont be easy for you, but have you heard the saying(absence makes the heart grow fonder) . If you are not around then if he has feelings for you he will miss you. Then if he makes contact with you you can then tell him that you only want to be with him when he has finished with her. If you hang around , she can blame you for getting in the way and he could resent you for it. Let him know how you feel but make it clear that you are not interested in just being friends, and for that reason you are distancing yourself. This would show him that you are dignified and thoughtful. How would you like it if you were with him and another girl was hanging around him. Love hurts.
I Know how hard it is when you like them that much but Just take him aside and say I know you have a girlfriend but I really like you and I don't want to ruin our relationship but I think you should know then when he knows how you feel he may feel the same way and realise he can have you ;)
Flirt with the guy and don't let the girl know
If you really like him and madly in love with him,then you will have to ask that guy straight forward to choose between you and his girl friend.If he loves you too and cares for you then he will choose you.
I have this problem right now... Don't get envolved... It will just earn you a bad reputation. And he will just get an even bigger ego :-/