How Do I Make A Boy Fall Madly In Love With Me?

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Anonymous answered
You cannot make anyone fall in love with you in the same way that you cannot make people dislike each other. This is something that you can work on in getting to know him but you cannot really make this happen.

If this is someone that you do not already know well, why not try to spend more time around him. You will not be making him fall in love with you but by spending time around him, love may blossom and this will not be down to anything you have made happen, this will be down to him liking your personality and falling in love with you for real. 

By getting to know him better, you can decide if the two of you are really compatible and you never know, you may change your mind. You cannot fall in love with someone if you do not know them well so make sure there are plenty of opportunities for the two of you to get to know each other.

Is this boy is someone you know well and you want him to fall madly in love with you? Have a think about why it is that you want this to happen. Could it be because of time you have already shared together? Do you know each other well and do both of you enjoy being around the other one? If this is the case, why not test the water? Go out a couple of times and see how things go. You never know what will happen, but remember, love is a big thing and it may take time for him to feel 'love', don't push him away if he says and acts like he likes you but doesn't love you. Tell him how you feel, you never know, if you have know this boy for a while, he may feel the same about you.
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Anonymous answered
- Be indipendant.
Guys like girls who isn't texting or calling them 24/7.
Clingy and annoying isn't something a guy would want.
Act hard to get.
And be mysterious..
He'll go crazy over you ;)
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Just be cool, don't be so dramatic, and stay away from drama... Be his best friend, but be cute at the same time, make him think oh well... Without her my life would suck... I would have no one, and no one understands me as good as she does!!
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yuri retsel answered
Boys can easily fall in love with you!,just be you're self.don't pretend to be someone else, be sincere and honest with you're feeling.make him feel that he's really important to you!But the most important thing, is that both of  you should have understanding, respect each other and lastly love unconditionally and by that, both of you will fall in love all over again.
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I think you need to show him that he'll have so much fun when he is with you. Just as long as he finds out that he is happy while spending time with you it becomes like routines to him and after a while he's going to tell you about his feelings. That's one of my experiences and it worked for me. Never argue and make him feel bad about you. When you talk to him never talk behind anyones back.>>>guys hate that a lot.
I hope you get wt you want:D
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Well I don't think you should tell him just yet, don't scare him off if he is a boy that isn't completely comfortable with talking about emotions. You need to find out the things he likes in girls and don't act like someone your not because he wont fall in love with YOU he will fall in love with this fake. Let him know you are always there for him. KEEP HIS TRUST its all about the TRUST! When your around each other make him feel special and try not to argue, so he generally likes your company then when your sure he likes you. Let him know and then leave it to him to decide what to do with it. X
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I really dont think this answer is very effective, so if you are reading this you should go somewhere else for your advice
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I really agree with you when it comes to the trust part and the be yourself part. Good job
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Just do what that boy like. Behave very nicely, try to show him that you r always there for him & also talk to him
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I also fell in love with this guy and I don't know if I should, We always argue for fun and we always laugh together.I don't know if he also like me back but I'm scared that if I ask jim, we might not even become friends.I think that if you really want a guy to fall in love with you, you just need to be with him more and have fun.Make him think that when he's with you, he'll be very happy and he'll always remember you.I hope this helps ^^
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Arwa A answered
you must to tell him that you Love him !!
The life is short baby don't but any thing in your heart :"( !!

Good luck ;)
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I'm n love wit this guy I been tlking to for about a semister of skoo. Hes amazing but iont no if he rely loves me back.. He tells me he does but wen I express my feelings to him like tell him how happy he makes me all he says is like awwe baby I do too or aww.. He doesnt rly say much back.. Iont no if I shuld keep ths relationship going I'm so confused??
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I really like this boy and ive been talking to him for a couple of months now and he sed I was nice and then he stop talking to me for at least 4 days and then he got his girlfriend me to go away andi did not get it. But I really really like him and I need to no what to do and how to make him fall in love with me ,, :( xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Don't change ! Ever ! I learnt my lesson when a boy I like kinda liked me however in school he does seem bothered ?? And talk more to this other girl however out side school he always asks me not to go or stay longer ? So I decided to make myself like this other girl and now he wants me to go home and moved seats away from me ? X just do your hair nice and SMILE.!x
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Carmen-I think you must tell him if you love him from your heart or you can ask your friend to ask him if he does like you if he doesn't you have to know who he loves then become her friend then ask her what does she do to make herself nice then do it
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Be yourself maybe sing him a song you got to be yourself and you got to talk to him Do not bug him he will be mad very mad if you bug him all you have too do is be urself and me cool :) go by my avice I bet it works
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I'm fourteen
and I feel biscally the same way
I might not no much but I find it easy to get into a convosation on the topic of "realtionships" first
yous lines like?  So are you liking anyone at the moment?

I know this guy who I'm reallie into and he told me he was reallie into me aswel
"I need to know do you like me? :"
made me just open up completley
and that has got me where I am now :)
I know its not much
but I hope it helps
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I Love some one sometimes he told me that he loves me too but other times I feel that he like his girlfriend he has a girlfriend in the begining when I first talk to him he told me that she's his hole life and that she loves her a lot but yesterday his talking was about loving another one which I noticed its mee and when I asked about her he told me that it was a fake love and not true and he loves me more but today he makes me call her and he want to call her but he can't because of her mother I agree and I called her she told me to tell him that everything is over I told him so .. I though that he will be happy but he become sad and I felt guilty even if I didnt do anything but I really love and I can't get away tell me what to dooo please :(
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Hi,
Actually, I like someone where I am working earlier we were talking togeather and we love each other but last one month we were not talk and still we are in same office. I want to our past relation that we were close with each other. PLZ HELP ME OUT...
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I love a guy, but he gone somewhere... I miss him a lot... What shall I do to get him back to me, I don't have any details of him
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You can't make him fall in love with you. It will just happen, you cannot force love.
Always remember that....
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Johnny D answered
Show him the real you right up in his face.. If he doesnt fall in love with your personality then maybe he's just one of those guys that doesnt know what he's missin..
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Look then in the I say do you love me? I am 11 with a massive crush but he has a girlfriends! All I do is hang out with him I love him! He even said I would go out with you. If you like a boy say so hey what you doing today want to go shopping or something. If you had a fab time keep in touch, if you didnt leave them and go for someone else. It always works for me.
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If you love that boy, you have to wait until he fall in love with you
it has choice if like someone but not you then leave this boy and go to another boy and make him that you love make this boy jealous of him and he will love you back very much
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Hi I'm 20years old . I don't know whether my crush loves me or not . I think he love me because of the way he treat me here are some of them we met from a coffee shop this place is in, In front of where my crush works. I was with my friends. In front of me  his younger brother . He told me that my crush was staring at me from his office and then he came first he were standing near his brother and looking at me but when I looked at him he turned his face but later on he came to me and introduce himself and gave his number he invited me to have dinner with him next night . Sum times by the phone he talk his clothes which he where at the bed time
he forced me to go with him and meet his best In front he gets angry when other boys look at me when I where short dress he gave me surprise in a coffee he never lied me  he gets angry when he sees me with other boys he wants me to take care of my self one night he told me that “LOVE you “. But after 2 weeks he took a gf but after one week he stopped talking her and ended that relation but now again he told he is having a gf he told me that .he always try to proof me that he says truth he take lots of pictures of mine whenever  he sees me he keep looking  at me all the time lot when I call his number I feel that he is happy when I don’t call him he gets sad what is this pls help me
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Get away! This guy is messing with your mind and he wants you when he's in the mood for you. Move ond and find a decent guy. You deserve better.
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He seems a bit controlling if he wants to control what you wear and if guys simply look at you ....... I would steer clear of this guy because he seems controlling, and controlling behavior might lead into physical and emotional abuse...... You deserve better!!!!!!!! Remember, there's another guy who is out there for you, and who will treat you with the unlimited respect you so greatly deserve!!!!!!!! Stay positive and strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Gurl he's cheating on u and tht bitch is not for real she probably doesnt even know what's wrong and the guy is jus playing the shittin hell outt of you
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Have you talked to him to let him know this? I think that if he knows what you are looking for, he would be able to give it to you. You can't force anybody to do the things that you want. You can only help them know what it is you want and see if they are willing to give it. Just like the old saying, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. The only one you really have control of is yourself. You can try to lead people into what you want but you can't force them to do it.
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You can't make her love you, but, if you are just starting to know each other then maybe you have a chance. Be really nice to her, hold her hand gently , make her feel protected, take her to special places that she likes, be a gentleman, kiss her with passion but go slow so you do not scare her. You will know if she likes you, I f she does, you have a chance she will love you too. Once she falls in love with you, never cheat, be honest and loyal to her, treat her always like a lady and most important always make her feel that she is the most important person in your life. She will always love you. Good luck.
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I also fell in love with this guy, we met each other last year, and we always talk to each other, play with each other... But he met some new girls this year, and is getting distant from me, yet I still love him. I do not know if he even like me!! In the past, we always argue for fun, and we always act like brothers and  sisters.... And I think the girls he is hanging out with like him.. What should I do?? I do not dare to tell him I like him, and I'm scared once I tell him that, he might even avoid me, which will make things worse

I think just spend some time with him, and try to act casually, but if he still show no interest in you, maybe there's no more hope then...
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I love my brother I am studying 8th and my brother is 9th I love him but I doesnt know he loves me or not even in my age one girl is there I doesnt know he loves her or me I and he wil talk to him nicely but they both wil not talk that much my brother is shy to talk with her is anything between them
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I like a guy and people say he likes me too he shows sum of the sighns he does but I don't now weather he thinks of them like that I like him but he thinks I'm the only girl that dosnt like him and hes my friend I don't know what to do because I don't want to ruin our friendship but if he likes me too then I wud go out wid him but hes 1 of them that coz a girls tuld him hes fit he goes round finkin hes fit but he still likes his ex and all my mates like him too so I don't want them 2 fall out wid me either

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