I'm A Lesbian. How Do I Get A Straight Girl To Fall In Love With Me?


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Pippa Corbett Profile
Pippa Corbett answered
There's two things you can do:

  • Either you can try and talk to her, tell her how you feel about her, and see whether she harbors similar feelings for you,
  • Spend time together, enjoy each other's company, and see whether things progress naturally.
How to get a straight girl to fall in love with you
Working out what 'move' to make can be difficult. My advice would be to examine her personality, dating history, and look for any signs of bisexual or homosexual behavior. Just be careful not to read into things too much!

Some girls enjoy very intimate relationships with their friends, even though they don't have sexual feelings towards them.

If you're close friends, perhaps the best option would be to talk to her openly about it. If your friendship is strong, she'll totally understand your sexuality and your feelings towards her (even if she doesn't reciprocate them).

If she's a close friend, there's a good chance she already has an inkling that you might be a lesbian (close friends are very observant).

If you don't feel as if the bond between you is strong enough to handle such a 'bombshell', then it's best to take the 'softly-softly' approach.

Drop hints, get a bit more 'tactile', spend personal time together, and probe her personality by asking her questions like "If you were a lesbian - what celebrity would you want to date?".
kirsty wardle Profile
kirsty wardle answered
I really don't think that it is possible because everybody has their own sexuality, and it is very hard to change somebody's sexuality.

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