Is It Wrong To Fall In Love With A Gay Guy When Your A Girl?


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Kathryn Wright Profile
Kathryn Wright answered
Is it wrong to be in love with a gay guy?

NO NOT ALL and don't listen to people who say that there is. In fact, as many gay men have many female friends, you might find that they are easy to talk to and make for a great friend. The physical nature of beings means nothing except in a few instances and this is not one of those times. You are a being of spirit, energy and mind who is attracted to another being of spirit, energy and mind and the term 'love is blind' is completely true. If you feel a type of attraction or connection to this person then you shouldn't worry about what the world thinks you should just enjoy spending time with this person and if it leads anywhere then thats what happens.

Why do women fall in love with gay men?

There aren't really any strict rules regarding sexuality Homosexual men can be attracted to women, homosexual women can be attracted to men, heterosexual men can be attracted to other men (doesn't make them homosexuals), heterosexual women can be attracted to other women (doesn't make them homosexuals), heterosexual men can be attracted to homosexual women and heterosexual women can be attracted to homosexual men.  We don't choose who we fall in love with and who we have feeling for.  Just because someone has declared their interest in  their same sex, that doesn't stop the opposite sex liking them; that filter only works one way!

So, to answer your question of if you like a gay guy and you are a girl does that make you gay or still straight the answer is in truth neither! It makes you a person who is attracted to another person. A "spirit" who has found another "spirit" and share something with and that is special for not all people have that with other people. You should meet and just live and not worry about what other people want to label it as cause their wrong. Don't worry about it just live life and see where it takes you.

Life's an adventure and it doesn't have to be constrained by rules. Many youngsters experiment with their sexuality, and try out kissing their friends etc, and that is because there are lot of chemical changes taking place, which can be confusing, but experimenting can be good because it can tell you what is and isn't what you want. I would never assume that you can turn a gay man straight, but he might be in a stage of experimenting, so you could just choose to stay close friends with him for now, especially if you find he makes a good friend :)
Kyoko Katayama Profile
Kyoko Katayama answered
No, there's nothing wrong or sick about falling in love with a gay guy.  But if he IS gay, you're in for some sad times.
The Instigator Profile
The Instigator answered
Wrong, maybe not. Sick, definitely yes.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
The gay could be bi-sexual.  There is nothing wrong in being his friend but think seriously about any long term relationship.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You should ask him if he is bi if he is maybe then you could start getting into that relationship.
Bailey Zuniga Profile
Bailey Zuniga answered
There is nothing wrong with that I have a lot of gay friends and I have been through the same thing my best friend is gay and I fell in love with him and he did not have the same feelings as I did so I just was like you know what I rather have you as a friend then to lose you but no its not wrong its your feelings its your life and you don't need to listen to anyone who says its a bad thing cause that means there taking over your life and its just not right.
Amelia Smith Profile
Amelia Smith answered

Love doesn't come with rule books of who to fall in love with.
If you have doubt about your feelings take time and respect the guys decision as well so you don't land into the dark forest of pain.

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