Is it okay to fall in love with a gay?I mean he's formal. i used to teased him like i want him to be my bf and whenever he say back off, it sounds like do it. I don't know how to explain the feeling but, when he say's no makes me feel like its a yes.

John Doe answered

Fall in love with a gay? Ya lost me....but if he tells you to back off, I doubt he wants you to hang out.....stalkerish much?

Cookie Roma answered

As simplistic as it sounds, no means no. When you hear yes, that's because that's what you want it to be.

Barb Cala answered

"A gay"? Sounds like you just want what you can't have. Respect his wishes and move on. Think of him as a human being instead of "a gay".

Michael Poland answered

There is all kinds of love.

Love does not know gender, age, or National

origin. Love only knows its not a lie,

All You Need Is Love / John Lennon.

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