A guy at my school keeps asking when we'll get together and watch a movie. The thing is he's been sending me flirty messages and I don't want him to think I like him that way. But somehow he already decided we'll get together for this movie, which would be fine if it was a friendly thing. I don't want to just say 'no' and be rude, but I also don't want to watch a movie alone with him at his place.. How do I make this clear in a friendly way?

Well, he's got ideas besides watching a movie. If he is young than he's got bigger ideas, no offense. You got to set the guy straight and if it hurts well he will get over it..I could never imagine me asking a girl (woman) to watch a movie with me alone cause even to me that sounds kind of creepy.

Now to take a girl into public like a restaurant full of people that is little different..If you keep accepting flirty messages you're giving the guy wrong ideas. You need tell him look I don't mind being your friend but I am not into the dating scene and not looking for any guy at this time..The guy definitely has other ideas - so you need to really be on your guard.

Bring friends, tell him you're not comfortable outside group settings yet.