Understand that people do fall in and out of love even though fairy tales say otherwise. Love is a matter of perception and it takes work to keep a relationship going. A crucial point to keep in mind is to never take anything or anyone for granted. If you want to get that spark back in your marriage ask yourself what made your husband fall for you in the first place.
A serious and frank discussion with him may be in order. Prepare yourself for what he may say. Resist the urge to immediately get defensive or strike back. Listen and decide if the root of the problem can be fixed.
Whatever you decide, don't immediately go in for a separation or a divorce. The two of you were once in love and you might just fall in love again; but only if both parties are willing. Treat him with love and respect and try and discover why you first feel in love. You might want to try dating again or if it is very serious, couples counselling. At the end of it all if nothing works, remember that it might be best to exit gracefully.
A serious and frank discussion with him may be in order. Prepare yourself for what he may say. Resist the urge to immediately get defensive or strike back. Listen and decide if the root of the problem can be fixed.
Whatever you decide, don't immediately go in for a separation or a divorce. The two of you were once in love and you might just fall in love again; but only if both parties are willing. Treat him with love and respect and try and discover why you first feel in love. You might want to try dating again or if it is very serious, couples counselling. At the end of it all if nothing works, remember that it might be best to exit gracefully.
