How Do I Know If My Husband Loves Me Or Not?

This question is totally subjective as everyone’s definition and interpretation of love varies. However, there are a few common threads acknowledged by society that tend to be relevant. Generally speaking these are; affection and attention, changes over time, companionship and trust.

It is generally a bad sign if your husband pays you little or no attention, or if that which he does is negative in some way. While some may disagree, it goes without saying that any form of physical or psychological abuse absolutely rules out the possibility of love. However, if you love someone you care about how and what they think, how they act and how they feel and a failure to pay attention to you in any of these respects is not a good sign.

There is also such an idea as ‘falling out of love’ and this means that people that were once ‘in love’ no longer are. This change is often imperceptible but very noticeable when compared to behaviour at one point compared to the present. If your husband seems like he cared for you more at an earlier time, this does not necessarily mean showering you with gifts but taking a genuine interest in every aspect of you as a person, than he does now then again this is not good. When chatting with a friend you would listen and so ‘love’ is a further heightened form of companionship, so he should treat you with care, respect and interest now.

Love is also about sacrifice, so if you feel you can always rely on him to help you in any given situation then he probably loves you, however if you feel you cannot trust him to do this then maybe he does not. Being able to trust someone implicitly is another key factor in determining love.

As mentioned earlier, this question is subjective but hopefully the indicators above should provide some help.

If your husband loved you he will not upset you and he will not do that things you don't want him to do. Or he will always listen to you about the bad things you don't want him to be involve in. As a true loved you will always have a big great smile on your face because of him.

What I know.. Some people just don't know how to express their love. Maybe they love you, they just don't know how to be romantic. However, I think you should find an appropriate time and have a relax sharing and having a good communication between both of you.
Some couples's love stories changed after marriage. I don't know why...

You better ask him if he loves you......and surely you will get the answersome men don't express their feeling saying I love you and stuff but they still love you in heart..being romantic is very important and if he doesnt start you start it...hold his hand say that you love him...take him alone to some place like movie...enjoys both of you..tell him to have some time with you..as time goes on it will be fine he will love you more than anything don't worry....now all you have to do is concentrate on him completely

Well he could love you, maybe its just that his priorities are in the wrong place. Meaning you should come first! And apprently he isn't doing that. The only way to find out is to ask him. Its no harm in asking. Let him know that you feel like your second on his list. No one is that busy with work! He can take some time out of his schedule to tell you that he loves you, or maybe even take you out and devote some of his time to you. If he doesn't do that now then yes, his priorites are all over the place and he needs to put them in the right place.

You got married a year and a half back. You have not mentioned, whether it was arranged or love marriage. In either case, you have to understand that marriage is a totally different ball game than courtship. You have not mentioned if he was romantic before marriage. I am assuming that he was because if he was not, you would not have felt a difference now.

It is not wise to jump to the wrong conclusions with this change in your husband's behavior. Marriage brings with it a lot of responsibilities. He may be stressed out over something at work or something someone said. Try to talk to him. Be supportive. As his wife, you should be his biggest strength. Do not make your own assumptions. Men think and function very differently from us women.

You need to decide if you want to make this marriage work. I am assuming that you do. Do not fret over whether he loves you or not, as I see you have already started to doubt it. Focus on your feelings for him. If they are strong enough, trust me, you can work miracles. I know it, because faith in my feeling worked a miracle in my life. Remember it is a woman who makes a home.

Something to add :
A friend told me that she was the one who initiated to rekindle the lost romantic feelings in her marriage. How about you start showing some loving concern to your husband, reassure him by saying you love him. You may find that it's difficult to do so especially when you are in doubt. You may set baby-step target, say, talking about his day at work, or just to send him greeting messages mid-day like "how's things, have prepared your favourite food, waiting to enjoy it together with you" etc. I always find messaging is the way bond, when you can't bring yourself to say the words face-to-face.

Well sometimes guys don't  really like to talk about love or they had been hurt in the other relationships.. So they don't know how to express themselves really well.. See when I met my husband he wasent so roamntic and sometimes he still not ..not the way I want him to be.. But you know he loves me in his own way and I learn that from him.. What you can so is teach him how to shopw you his love .. Tell him I love you baby and tell him you supose to say I love you too.. Ask him questions like I love when you call me sweet names like sweety cutie and stuff like that.. And he will learn

I was married six years ago but I am not sure if my husband loves me or not. He never says "I love you" or anything. He is never romantic with me. So you tell me whether he loves me or not. Please tell me as soon as possible