How Do I Know If He Loves Me Or Not?


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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
How can I tell if he loves me? The first way to know is if your boyfriend loves you is if he's really proud of you. A man in love with a woman will want to show off his love to his friends and family and introduce her to as many people as he can. He will take his woman everywhere that the goes, and will want you to be with him all the time. He will miss you when you're gone and be overjoyed when you're not.
Another sign that a man really loves you if he takes time to do the things that you want to do, and makes sure he can be with you whenever you need him. It's easy for a man to just do what he wants to do, but being spontaneous, romantic and wanting to do what you enjoy is a perfect example of the behavior of a man who is madly in love with his woman.

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You don't want to believe everything that you see in the movies, but maybe there's some truth to them where romance is concerned. Whilst gifts don't always mean he loves you, spontaneous and thoughtful gifts are often a sign that he cares about you and thinks about you when you're not there.

Of course, your man may just have a lot of money to spend and maybe that's why you shouldn't rely on this as a sign - but if the gifts he buys you are genuinely sentimental and thoughtful, then it's a fantastic indication that he is in love with you. The best gifts don't even have to cost anything - a heartfelt song or poem can be much more indicative of his feelings for you.

Whispering sweet nothings...
When your man tells you that he loves you a lot, then this can be quite the indicator that he cares for you. It's natural to suspect that it's not true if your loved one only says it in response to you telling him that you love him - but if your boyfriend says it first then you can be sure that he isn't lying and genuinely does have these incredible feelings for you.
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Penny Kay answered
From my experience, a guy loves you, when he respects you tenderly. He enjoys having conversations with you, and about you. He doesn't trample your boundaries, and is sensitive to your feelings. Your entire welfare is a priority with him. You should be comfortable with him. He knows and respects your interests, and he supports you in your personal life, choices, values, interests, friends and family. You should be like best friends, but with a deeper connection.
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Cara B answered
I he listens to you when you have something to say. When he makes it a point to make sure you know he loves you. When he talks to you about the good and the bad things in his life/relationship. When he can't leave the house with out atleast saying bye.... With a kiss. When he looks all over the house for you when he gets home. When he wants you to be happy, and proves it all the time by getting you things that you want, no matter how big or small. When he gets up in the middle of the night to get you breathe right strips and orange juice because your sick and can't breathe. When he watches the dumbest shows on tv because you like them. When he is bothered if you don't get yours and he does (lol)! And sometimes you just know.
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I am Life..... answered
First of all if you are asking this question then simply it means that you don't love him truly. And if you do then its not required to testify that. Just imagine your boyfriend asking you the same thing. How would you feel. Its not necessary in a relationship to testify things over and over again, it hampers the essence of love that you two share. And if you thing that there's something going on then approach him directly, and then put a question on how he reacts. Cause we strangers can't judge the man you love, and at least I don't want to judge anyone here. Confront him with the things that you know, only if there is something going on.

No offence here dear. Its just that I'm sick and tired of seeing these kind of questions over and over again. You are the best person to make out and find out the answer to your own question.
Take Care....
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Deborah Wacker answered
First off a women has a gut feeling about these things. The second best way to know for sure is for him to tell you he loves you. The one thing you don't want to do is push him in ways that just might turn him away. He will tell you in time if he truly loves you. Give him the time to make that decision and then let you know. You don't want to rush it because you could get real hurt in the end. Now if has already told you he loves you, look for the subtle clues. For instance, telling you everyday he loves you without you having to say it first, lots of body contact like holding hands or having his arm around you. The biggest and most important is he will show you trust. Without that you have nothing. Anyway you get the idea.
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Anonymous answered

When my husband just asked me did I feel like I trusted him, he worded it this way, "I know you don't trust me, but don't I show you trust?"

Akshaya Kumar Jena Profile
From his fine touch, from your nice feel; from the earnestness in his eyes, from the beat of your heart; from the lilt in his voice, from the sweetness in your ear; from his roaring craze, from your soaring conviction...etc.
Pixie Moore Profile
Pixie Moore answered
Try reading I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper - a book for anyone who needs help and advice dealing with their partner's past relationship(s) - brilliant read! Available on Amazon or most bookstores - Kindle or paperback!
Richard Himmeler Profile
Well all the above stuff is just too much technical, but what about the simple and dependable classic dandelion flower test, he loves me , he loves me not again and again untill the last petal and the word out of your mouth gives a good indication. Have a nice day

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