Ive read all the posts above and some make sense, some just don't. I can
speak from experience in saying that I have been in a relationship with
a married woman for nearly 2 years. It all started at work, and
blossomed from there. She talks about the things he doesn't give her,
and some of the issues they have, but she still is right there with him.
Here what I think is the bottom line. If she loves you or claims to
love you, then she will show that in and out of work. She will do the
things necessary to be with you. I do realize that when kids are
involved, that makes things different. But again, things could be done
if you both are serious about having a real open relationship. My advice
would be, if it happens, go with it for the short term and be honest
and open about your wants and needs. If she is resistant to making
changes or stay with him, then its time to see the big picture and
realize she just isn't leaving her comfort zone, or perhaps she really
is still in love with her husband and you have become the odd man out.
Sometimes the writing on the wall is right in front of you, and all you
have to do is stop and read it.
I have this kind of relationship as well. She's now working overseas with her husband and I am left here in our country. Everyday you will you are always threatened. Everyday you are frustrated esp when she is not talking or chatting with you. Whenever her husband is around, there are lots of things that popped up into your mind. But still you have to assess yourself if it still worth hurting for,
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