Ive had the same problem, actually its my ex fiance that has had several new girlfriends. I'm still in love with him but I give him space, we try and stay friends and text occasionally (a small conversation once a month or every other month) Whats meant to happen will happen, you can't control it. Its what I have come to live by and now a year and a half since we have been broken up I have met many nice guys. If your meant to be together it will happen just have faith, just spend this time with girlfriends and doing what makes you happy! Don't try and win him back or look for another guy.
Just remember: Good things happen to those who are patient and Whats meant to happen will happen!
My answer to you is to leave this person alone,if you can't be just friends remember what goes around comes around, so allow this mans relationship to grow, your day will come,wait awhile...best to you....
I am in the same situation. My boyfriend broke up with me less than a week ago and now he's already with somebody else! After he said he'd be single for a long time! She asked him out though. I really hope it doesn't last long she's all wrong for him. I truly do think I love him. He's always on my mind and ever since the break-up I've been crying and can barely sleep or eat. I want to find somebody new, but there's nobody besides him I want to be with. I can't even stand the THOUGHT of him being with another girl much less him actually being with her. I talked to him all up to last night, when he finally told me he had found somebody else. Maybe its a rebound. Maybe they won't last long, I thought we would last like forever. I'm going to try to be friends with him in case they do break-up so then he'll have a shoulder to cry on. I'll always be there for him, until he tells me not to be. I see him practically everyday and every time I see his face I want to cry though. I'm going to try my best just to stay strong and hope for the best. Thank you for sharing all of your stories. I think they've helped me a lot today. I'll be back to tell you all what happens.
~Thank you, Rachel.
Me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago and I'm still in love with him and it hurts me so bad to see him walking down the hall way with his new girlfriend who was my best friend. I miss him so much and I'm trying to be his friend but I want to be more than friends with him. : (
I'm in the same situation, me and my ex broke up and now hes got a new gf. I'm happy for him but at the same time I want him back, he said that he liked me, and that if I was the girl that he fell in love with that I would very hard to resist, so only time will tell. If its meant to be he will come back just be patient, that's what I'm doing.
I am going through the exact same thing. My ex and I broke up and he got a new gf right after.. But we still talk everyday and even hook up every now and then. I'm just going to stay friends with him and see how long him and this girl go on.... And when times are bad, hes going to realize I've been here the whole time.
My boyfriend of 4 and half years broke up with me 8 months ago got with his girlfriend exactly a week after we were still talking and stuff and then one night a few weeks ago we ended up together he said he had to think if he wanted to be with his gf or not then he told me he wasnt going to tell her and that he still wanted us to be friends and I said no he was crying and upset saying would I not think about it that he had no1 else to talk to
In that situation, that the guy whom you love has a girlfriend what you will do is let him know that you are always there for him, support him, in that way he'll know that you love him...It is not necessarily to get in directly into a relationship with the guy or flirt with the guy because we know that you can't because he has already a girlfriend...
I'm the same way and the only advise I have is either make him change his mind about the other girl and get back with you or tell him whats up and if he has a problem with that hurt him
Simple.. You too should a new boyfriend n move on..even if he will come back ,the relation wouldnt be same as before as he has moved on..and you'll wont b happy together...so gal move on and have a lovely life ahead..
I have a similar issue because me and my boyfriend were in love and were always together but then I listened to my friend who at the time I didn't know liked him and I broke up with him. He cryer for 6 days because I went away and he didn't have a phone but I wanted to get back together. On the Monday I returned he was dating my bff but she thought I didn't like him!!!! Then they broke up and I was going to ask him out but then he dated another girl. After that we had slot of off amd on dating for 2 years but when I stopped hanging out with my old friends I stopped being popular and now I hang out with dancers (like me). I also have a very large nose and so there are a lot of jokes around school about it. I just had my 5th boyfriend since him and even though I liked the first guy in the summer I thought I was over him. While I was dating number 5 I re fell in love with guy number 1 and knew that I should be greatful to have someone instead of no one but guy number 5 dumped me cause of my nose. Now guy number 1 laughs at me when he sees me in the halls and there is no way to get over him!!!!!
My ex did the same thing my bff and I will be in the lunch line and his new girlfriend came up and hugged him and when we where together he did not want to hug me or kiss me or nothing I want him back he broke up with me and we where going out for about 3 weeks.