Lucy Burroughs answered
In itself, not seeing your partner very often is not a very good reason to break up with them.
However, if not seeing each other enough is a symptom of a lack of interest from either party, you might want to reconsider your relationship.
However, if not seeing each other enough is a symptom of a lack of interest from either party, you might want to reconsider your relationship.
If you're both busy people, or if you live far apart, then it can be difficult to find the time and money needed to spend time together. If this is the case, then there are plenty of other ways that you can keep in contact: Talking on the phone or on Skype can be a great way of feeling closer to each other, even if you're far apart.
If you care about each other and the relationship, try making time for each other, even if it isn't face-to-face.
Things to Consider Before Deciding to Break Up
- If you don't see much of each other because of things outside of your control (distance or school/work commitments), you can work around this if the relationship means enough to you.
- Is your girlfriend making excuses not to see you? Maybe the relationship isn't working out.
- Talk to her about it! This is the best thing you can do. Tell her how you feel, and ask her what she thinks.
- Make sure you're being reasonable - everybody needs time to themselves. You don't want to seem clingy, so make sure you're giving her enough time to spend with family and friends (without constantly checking up on her by text!)
