My Girlfriend Is Forcing Me To Have Sex With Her And I've Never Had It - Should I Leave Her?


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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I don't believe in sex until love and this may be a very corny thing to say but just know that you are not alone. If she really cares she should be able to understand that you are not ready. You have to make yourself clean to her and let her know how you feel. If she is really the horny, which some women are, you should TRY doing other stuff for her. You may enjoy it ;) You can try heavy make out sessions and try touching her down there. If you can't cut it maybe you should buy her a toy. Explore!
hmm... Some guys might like going down on a girl. A friend of mine once told me that when a guy fingers her she thinks "with lets just have sex already" so that might not be the best approach but whatever you are willing to try.
Ayesha Griffiths Profile
No one should ever force you to do something you are uncomfortable with.
I think you should talk to her, explain to her how you feel and if she still carries on like this you should leave her.
Kristin Smith Profile
Kristin Smith answered
My bf did the same thing... I talked to him...and we worked it out... I'm still a virgin.... But yeah talk to her girls are usual understanding.. But if she's not then leave her she is using you... Probably to make someone else jealous...
Amber Dean Profile
Amber Dean answered
I think you need to leave her if she is forcing you to have sex with her then she obviously doesn't care about you that much...if she cared she would listen when you say that you want to wait...with some girls its all about just getting laid and some have a thing for virgins...if you stay in this relationship I think you will end up being badly hurt
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I would anyone who doesn't take no for an answer has no respect for you or your well being. Besides no matter who forces who it is still rape... You can try talking about it, but if no still isn't good enough then I would leave and not look back.
mai Vang Profile
mai Vang answered
You know the first thing to a relationship is "Respect". If she don't respect your feeling towards sex, maybe you shouldn't be with her at all. If you're not ready, then you're not ready. Make sure she understand your feelings before you get yourself emotionally hurt. Take care.
Michelle New Zealand Profile
You must never let anyone force you to do anything that you don't want to do.  Why is she so set on forcing you to have sex with her.  Talk to her and tell her that you don't want to do it if she loves you then she will understand if she don't then she will leave you.  She ether wants to prove a point to someone or worse .....
Hello Boss Profile
Hello Boss answered
Just how is she FORCING you to have sex? Does she have a gun or knife to threaten you with ? If you don't want to have sex with her, then don't.
Tamalika Mukherjee Profile
Hey man,if you don't want to have sex with her then don't and if she can't live without having sex well then you'll just have to leave her.
christian ndumu Profile
christian ndumu answered
This is a very dangerous issue especially if you are a christian, because the Bible says the two shall be one flesh, the Bible also says that don't you know if you have sex with a prostitute you are equally a prostitute because you've been unequally yoked; and what ever thing she had within her is  transfer to you and blessings stolen, so if she is not your wife I advice you not to go into adventure because you will lament  and will find it difficult to break any sole-ties.
Cara Marks Profile
Cara Marks answered
If she is forcing you to have sex and you don't feel right doing it then tell her nicely that you don't want to be together!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Usually, it is the other way around.  I don't think men can be forced to have sex if they don't want to.  However, understand that relationships eventually go to that direction.  Maybe you should ask yourself the reasons you feel that way about sex.

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