As the saying goes, "Drop that zero, and get you a hero!" If she isn't going to be understanding of you, but expects you to be for her, then you aren't suited for each other.
I have a big heart, and the patience of an elephant. This is my downfall, because no matter how much I love, am patient, and willing to change, it won't work, because HE isn't willing to do the same thing to make things work.
I'm in too deep, and can't just walk away, but you are young enough that you can get out of a relationship that is going to hinder the greatness in you as a person, parent, and guide for your children.
It sounds like she might not really want to be in a relationship right now, and this is her way of getting out. Find someone else, you'll be happier that way. Good luck.
I have a big heart, and the patience of an elephant. This is my downfall, because no matter how much I love, am patient, and willing to change, it won't work, because HE isn't willing to do the same thing to make things work.
I'm in too deep, and can't just walk away, but you are young enough that you can get out of a relationship that is going to hinder the greatness in you as a person, parent, and guide for your children.
It sounds like she might not really want to be in a relationship right now, and this is her way of getting out. Find someone else, you'll be happier that way. Good luck.