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What Should I Do My Girlfriend Is Mad At Me She Doesn't Want To See Me Or Talk To Me?

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Yun Wan Profile
Yun Wan answered
In most social situations, it is considered common courtesy to allow people privacy, if desired. If her wish is to not see or speak to someone then that wish should be respected and time alone should be granted.

If the objective is to regain social interaction with the person in question, one possible means is to allow her time by herself before attempting to establish communications with her.

If you feel that her reasons for being angry at yourself are fair, it may be worth finding a resolution for the problem. This could be done by simply talking about the matter and making compensations between one another until you both feel happy with the situation.

Apologies given in person show much more sincerity than those given over the phone, via email, instant messaging, social networking websites, etc. They show that you are willing to take responsibility face to face and that you aren't afraid to accept the consequences of you own actions.

Simple romantic gestures are a good way of backing up given apologies and showing your sincere attempt at resolving the person's negative emotions about the situation. This could include simple, traditional methods such as taking her out for a dinner or to see a film, giving her flowers, etc.

If you feel that a quick fix between the two of you is necessary, whether you feel she's fair for being angry at you or not, one method of resolving the issue may be to take full responsibility for the occurring events, however this isn't the most honest and sincere method for resolving the dispute.

There are many methods for regaining social interactions with people after disagreements and arguments, however after resolving the issue both people should feel happy with the situation.
Mrs Ellis Profile
Mrs Ellis answered
You should ride out the storm and stop communication for a while. She will think something is wrong and call you and talk. Just be patient and understanding women can be just as harsh as men but we do not like not getting attention.
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Arnel Llaguno answered
Well there are a lot of ways to attract back her attention, but most of all what did you do for this kind of a thing to happen? Seriously man I can't help you if I don't even know what you did. My advice only comes from knowledge, the knowledge of knowing what on earth just happened. Honestly man, but try and give her a call and ask her to have just a small talk and take things from there. If that doesn't work try and figure out why she doesn't want to talk with you, obviously if she loves you too then there's no way she wouldn't want to talk with you. But I would also have to say give her some time and space, do something that would make her wish she was with you right now. And most of all don't give up! Good luck man! If you still want to talk about this then just write me back.
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Anonymous answered
Man I'm in the same situation we bump heads to much ....man girls need to much attention ...I say you just apologias if you did something wrong or if not let her cool apologias and try talking to her again later she might call you back if you don't call her or text
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Anonymous answered
I have dealt with a similar situation.  My ex gf is absolutely crazy when she drinks and got me arrested as well.  I did not hit her but I restrained her and she called the cops.  I however was not trying to hurt her so the case was dropped the next day.  I have not talked to her in over a month and I honestly think that if it's meant to be she will comeback. I do love her and apologized to her for my actions through a letter. I say apologize and give her plenty of space.  Maybe a month or two. Work on yourself and give plenty of time for healing. If it's meant to be she will come back. Smothering her will only make it worse.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Love is Love you can't change it...and you can't remove it away from your heart...
May be that God will...pray to hear his will, and I think you will find the peace at least when you know that God talking to you....I don't mean to talk about God a lot which is not wrong, but I think everything happens in our lifes happens because. Of him....so talk to him..
Beatrice Armstrong Profile
Give her some space, she will come around.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Go to her house and bring her some special gift that shows you really love her and can't live without her...... A poem and flowers might do, good luck~  ;P
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You must did or said some thing that hurt her feeling. I am in the same situation, I ignored my bf for almost a week . I didn't call him neither answer his call because he told me: I like you but I don't love even I didn't ask him if he loves me or not.... I got so angry and he tried to convince me that  he didn't mean it but I took it seriously .... You guy don't know how to talk sometimes...give her a space and after few days try to call her again and deeply apologize to her... If she loves you, she will forgive you...good luck
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Anonymous answered
Well if you havent already apologized to her yet,do that. Shes obviously not going to come around easily, give her a couple days,then bring up the subject again.If shes saying she needs a 'Break' or 'Time Off'.Give it to her, don't be to agressive. Explain to her what you did,that you know it was wrong, and ensure to her that you will never ever dream of making that mistake again. If you two are right for eachother, if she truely cares for you, she'll respond, forgive you and it'll be okay. Just as long as you DO NOT ever do it again.
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travis lovell answered
I have been with this girl for a month and a half, well we work together. That's how we met. So we tarted dating and then got into an argument and she says she wants to be single right now. She still texts me but she doesn't want to see me for some reason. I had been under a lot of stress from college, work, and now this. So I went up to see her and give her a hug which she hugged back and for some reason I went in for a kiss and she backed away and made her really mad, it has been one day since that happened and I haven't heard from her since, this girl means a lot to me and really want this to work. Is there anything I can do?
tristen partridge Profile
Tell her that you love her and you want her back. That you'll go to the end of the Earth just for her. Bring her her favorite flowers and you'll do anything for her.
kay Profile
kay answered
Make her no you care. Send her flowers. Tell her you love her and your sorry. She will take you back I promise. Show her you care and really mean it tho.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You shouldnt ignore her that's for sure... I speak out of experience...

If you have a close common friend, let him talk to her and arrange a date where you both can talk

if you don't have that, let it cool of for a week... But not any longer than a week... Than try again to retain contact...

This advice is also good for girls if they want to get back with there boys...  A year ago I broke up with my girl... Don't remember why... And I didn't want to speak to her.... A friend talked me over and made me talk to her... Me and my girl are 2 years together now... And I still love her with all my heart... Xxx
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Try giving her a little space and a little time to think, I say give her a couple of days and once you feel like she is ok ask her to dinner . If you keep pushing yourself to her she wont want to see you at all cause that would just remind her of the fight and it will therefore add more.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Aww srry but yea when a girl is mad don't get close if you do you get her more mad then what. After she not very mad try to talk to her see whats rong and see if you did anything to make her mad?

   I hope that helped you love you l8er +no I don't realy love you it is jk ok
danee Profile
danee answered
Well I'm a girl and normally when I get mad at a guy or a guy gets mad at me I think you should start with an apology! Then move from there work out the problem!~!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
The person who says stop calling, its going to make things worse is totally right, I'm not new to this stuff but I tend to let history repeat itself, I'm stupid for calling but in my mind I wonder why they don't want to work a problem out, but I guess calling to much is the problem, so makes sense, my girl loves me, I love her , its just I'm trying to imporve my calling and what not, I just have this thing in my head that I must know what she is doing all the time, but I'm working on it very slowly, its starting to go away but still hard to resist, I tend on marrying this women, since she is my fiance so yeah ... Work of advice, give the women space if they want it because it will blow up in your face if you don't, just go out and find somethign to do on your own, don't worri what she is doing , just try calling her the next day or wait for her call if she doesnt pick up , or even a text saying call me when you have some free time, its simple but for some people its hard like my self, but its a mind game, you will be so much happier and have a much healthier relationship if you just listen to her, like they say a woman likes a man that listens to her.....so DO IT!!!
Robyn Rothman Profile
Robyn Rothman answered
Do you know what happened to make her react that way towards you? If you don't know, you certainly have a right to be told what you did to make her angry, presuming that you did something. If you know why she's angry with you, step back, and let her cool off. Then you can talk about it.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Ask her why she feels this way. I'm having the same problem with my boyfriend, who dumped me but I still love him. You will probably be able to sort it out better than me, I can't even talk to him.
Tell her how you feel and go from there. Build up your relationship from scratch.
Hope This Helps!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I have the exact same problem, she just said that she has mixed feelings about me, but I love her so much, she wants us to keep distance for a while, its killing me theres no covering it up no technique I can use I'm just dying. I hope to god and all that is sacred that she cares about me, and I hope it works out for you 2 m8, I feel you
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
If she really means the world to you, and the one who completes you.
Then I would suggest win her heart back !
Never let go if you have a chance !
Share your life with the one you love !
christopher easy Profile
My girlfreind we been going out for a week I kissed her but she don't talk to I have to talk to her friend so I could know?
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Well, communication is the key to a healthy relationship, and well if there isn't any then. There is nothing you can really do. Move on with your life, being stressful in any relationship isn't worth the punishment of not being able to talk to each other. Maybe, you need to find a way that you can ask her what's going on? Or are you mad at me? Something like that, she'll understand that you are confused and Maybe tell you. Or my friend, she has moved on and not yet is ready to tell you. Have faith in her, Mabie she is having some personal issues and can't discuss it with anyone but herself.
JUST GIVE HER SOME SPACE

peace- good luck ;)
Catherine Camp Profile
Catherine Camp answered
We are lesbians, we have been together for 2 years now, my partner has always not been able to open up to me much, but I have told her how much I love her & am always here for her, but when she don't like something she always goes quiet on me, then I start thinking what have I done wrong, I do ask her whats wrong but she stays quiet & is strange towards me,this has been happening a lot recently.

About a couple of months ago she said she didnt always want to do what I did..ie..go to see my parents or if we did see them not to always take them out, we have a car & we can both drive it, so I said ok no problem I will go more on my own. I love my family & we live about an hour away from them & they are elderly, my dad has been very poorly with phewmonia a few times so obviously we have been going over a lot. Which is important to me.

Her mum died just over a year ago, & I was always there for her & supported her all the way through, so I hoped she would do the same for me, once my dad had only been in hospital a day so I said I am going over & I said will you come with me, she said yes, that day I was very upset, we went to see my dad in afternoon & we took my mum, after we got back to my mums she said she wanted to go home, my daughter was also travelling the hour down to see him that night, so she said I would be ok & I would be able to get a lift home with my daughter, I sais yes I could but I want you to stay with me, she said she was tired & then she just went, I could not bring myself to give her a kiss goodbye I was gobsmacked. We nearly split up 8 weeks ago cause she said she can't communicate with me & feels our relationship has took a back seat, yes it has but I keep telling her how much I love her, but she can't tell me & will not show her love & care for me much anymore & I really do need that, I feel sad that this is happening when she knows how much I care & love her, I can't take much more of it & we are now taking a break, but still living together, as I don't want us to split up & she has said the same. Its been 4 days now & she still wont talk to me & tell me anything.
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Chaka Ingram answered
You should ask her. I, being a girl, have stopped talking to my boyfriend before but it was because Ii was dealing with a lot and didn't know if I could or should talk to him about what was going on. But he asked me and he told me that I could tell him anything. You should always let your girl know that you care about her; that you will be there for her always if and when she needs it. But if it is not this, then you should still ask her what is going on.
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Fiona Yaung answered
What's happen between you and her ? But anyway , don't worry so much , anyway let she feel come down after you can try again to speak with her face to face , when girl angry or mad never try to close to her , this just will get more bad for all love,
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
How would I know I just reviewed all the comment left by guest and they all suck nun of them  will help cause they either made up a lie or they don't have a life! But 2 get good advise you should a therapist or a counselor they will help you a lot. Trust me they help me with my relationship  with my girlfriend!!!
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Anonymous answered
To everyone out there that needs help with this kind of problem
just give her a day or two to think
she need to realize (depending on what you did) that you're either right for her, everyone makes mistakes, or that she can find someone better
let her do whats right for her and maybe you can benefit from her decisions
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You might have done a mean thing with out you noticing? She might like another guy?(that is SO mean) she might have another BF and has not told you?I really hope that this advise helps! The best thing is 2 be honest and ask her why she wont talk to you?maybe she is sad?
HOPE IT HELPS!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Well mate, you could try meeting her and telling her face to face what you feel and tat you really want to work things out and make things up to her. Or you could buy her a present - nothing expensive, just something material like a card saying " I'm Sorry " or something that would mean something to her and make sure it's special.    Hope everything work's out for you!
Hope I helped. Jordan T
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I'm not lying, my girl loves me but we r both dominate. We bump heads a lot. But I'm sure ill get through cause I just know we will. If your not sure she loves you back..... You have a problem, ladies have just enough responsibility as us guys to show some love. (I love my girlfriend by the way) I do
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Man I just started dating my girlfriend 2 weeks ago and she already won't talk to me. I mean all I do is tell her I love her because I have known her for a year and I have strong feelings for her but I really just want her to open up to me is it that hard really I mean its easy for me and everybody else I have dated but is it really that hard for her I love this girl and I really want to be with her a long time but she has to talk to me.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
My girlfriend lives anther country .She always send for me litter every day. Right now
never send to me any more I don't know why but I stop  wirte to her because she told
me I love you so much. If she loves me same told to me she tried to ask me why didn't
send for me any litter
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
What exactly is her mental problem? And tell me the whole story I would love to help you it would make my day if I could get you two connected again.....Sincerely I've been there when she has basically said"Leet out of my life, I hate you, I don't want to be with you" or however it may have went down if you want help then I believe in the comment "Amelo15" made and you have to open up and let the structure and background of yor relationship be known!!! Lay it all down and I will be more than welcome to lay down the basics you need to possibly win her back/ or it may not be meant to be?
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Man she might like a differnt guy thats what my girl did to me now were back 2 gether and its not the same for me she says it brought us closer I think it took us further apart I love her I would give my life for her but I don't know if I can trust her can any one help me out tell me how to fix are trust
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Write her a series of good old fasioned love lettrers afther asking her ( from a sfe distnce) as to
what is it you can do that could put things right.My woman is verbally abusive it is like being with
a tiger cub sometimes.I hope you can find this useful.
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karl goodwin answered

Ignore her and better  yourself in some way, such as increase your annual income or better your education. Men are the providers, make yourself a better provider in her mind. Women know which side their bread is buttered on. Make you the natural choice for her.

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

Just give your relationship a brake for a while and date other people orjust give her some flowers and chocolate or give her some space.

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nicola mctinyre answered
Depends what have you done ? Listen if you havent done anything just tell her *well its your choice I said sorry (say sorry) and you wont forgive me I will leave you alone *

bye bye a pleasure trying to help you
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Why would want to go back to a schizophrenic who destroyed your ear drum and why would she want to go back to an abusive boyfriend? Move on and learn from this.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Try to find other one more pretty more lovable believe me you will love  the second more than the first see you dear
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Personally ,to part from her some days.yes that is a good way to make you be serious.
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Anonymous answered
Well I would advise you to get out of her thoughts now. It is useless for you to waste your time for her. Just continue your routine as a long live stretches itself before you. You will find many girls in future.
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Gaurav Rawat answered
If she is your girlfriend then ignore him if you ignore him she is become mad .. Its real I tried it... And it works.....
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Dude your girl friend probly wont talk to you cause ummm dude she don't like you tht is a sign she is cheating on you dump her be for you be come the dumpe you don't want tht so be the dumper not the dumpe
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Chloe Thomas answered
If you love her, let her go. Maybe in the end she'll come back, maybe you two just arent meant for each other. Hope this helps.
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Mark Westbrook answered
I don't know why she won't talk to you any more, but it's not a particularly good sign. Has she been banned from seeing you by her parents? Has she fallen out with you? Did you say or do something silly or stupid that might jeopardise the relationship?

If she has decided to halt communication with you, there is not much that you can do. You should instead consider moving on with your life, you can't make her do something, and you may need to simply accept the situation the way it is unfortunately my friend.

Last chance might be to write her a very simple note, saying, Hi, you haven't been talking to me for a while now, if there is a problem, I would like you to tell me, if its over, I can accept that if you will let me know what's going on'.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Hey I have a girl that she is mine girlfriend for me but she is a hoe she with a lot of me at the same time she say she is not see them but I think she is lia to because I say to call me and she say she is busy wow I am so piff when she say that
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Luis Ramirez answered
My girlfriend got mad at me because I brought my parents to school and her friends grabbed her and she told me to help her and if I didnt she was going to brake up with me then I left and came back and she siad she was mad at me I left again and she came the I left again and I don't know what to do I can't see here for 2 days because of the weekend someone help me
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Anonymous answered
I had the same problem.. My gf wont want to see me any more I break to many promises.. I mean about the same thing(promise) but now I really have change into a better person I had throw away all the bad habits I use to have.. I quit smoking I quit from being addict to games.. I go for healthy life.. Owh man I just cannot live my life without her.. Every night I feel pain.. I missed her so much..
I miss you so much suwitheart hope you miss me too like I do... I want us to be together again.. God pls make me into a better person so I can prove to her that I am the man for her..
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Anonymous answered
Man my girlfriend is very upset with me and I don't know why. We got into an arguement about me hanging out with my friends and not her one weekend when she had dibbs on me. We resolved it but that next monday shes mad again and she doesn't have anything to say to me. She just keeps saying that she doesn't care anymore. I stuck because that weekend I went to VCU with her best friend so I'm thinking it's because of that but I'm not sure..... She's not telling me.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Chill .. Find yourself while she don't want to be bothered .. Then after time ask her 2 go out somewhere .. Tell her how you feel, and ask her how she feels .. ;)
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Did something wrong, now she's mad. Probably will lead to a break up, unless you get better.
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Ella Rifenberg answered
Well its not a good relationship then if she doesn't want to see or talk to you so you should just break up with her
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Hi this should be you final answer look no further for an answer if you left her an text for her to call you and its been more than two days don't wait any longer move on $
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Anonymous answered
You need to grow up and be responsible man and respect her needs and show her that love and respect comes has a pair, because you can not have one without the other. Real man knows how to treat his girlfriend because he understand the true meaning of love. Love doesnt bring pain in a relationship, so if it hurts she has made the right decision. You have a very smart woman so go ahead and be dum ass and lose her. Grow up and buy a dictionary and look up the words love and respect.

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