I Love Someone Who Doesn't Feel The Same Way. Everyone Tells Me To Move On But That's Just Not Working, Any Suggestions ?

I know the exact feeling, unrequited love hurts it really does, except in my situation, I never even spent one moment with him, or talked to him in person it was only ever on face book and he told me he is sorry but didn't feel the same way and that there were better guys out there. It was worse because he lived in my neighbourhood so moving on was tough because I would always see him as a reminder, obviously there goes the saying "Many fish in the sea" but no matter how many guys you meet there is only one who will ever be your true love and it sucks when they don't feel the same but it is life and you have to appreciate and be grateful that you actually met this person, that you found your true love. They say move on, time heals the pain, to be honest and I know time doesn't heal the pain, it will never fade, yeh eventually you get on with your life but when you love someone you don't forget them, you can't and you wouldn't want to, if someone impacted your life in a way no one else could that is the memory you take on, we can't blame them for not reciprocating the feelings, I mean as much as we want to deep down, you, I and all the others in this position know you can't control how you feel for someone and it is just unlucky for us they don't feel the same, believe me if life was perfect it would be different and I wish I didn't fall for the love of my life, cuz it hurts too much but I did; I wish i heard the words i feel the same I love you, your the only one i want to be with, but if it ain't like the movies it ain't, reality hurts but i always say it is better to know the truth then be comforted by a lie and everything happens for a reason, you were meant to fall hard for them and the feelings unreturned, be grateful you got to experience this feeling, go on knowing you knew some one very special, you touched your heart in a way no one else ever could replace. Some people come in our lives as a blessing and others a lesson. Not many meet the love of their life so consider yourself lucky. So what I did is divide my brain into the left and right, the left brain was the one telling me all these negative things, like you will never be with him etc, but every time that part takes over, learn to fight it, switch to the right, be positive and say, nothing in life is guaranteed so i may be with him, it really does help. Gotta stop letting your left side be fuelled with doubts and negativity, fight it win it over with the right side, thinking differently helps! It really does, have hope. If you are really meant to be it will happen one way you will meet again and it will be, you never know what is on e other side of the mountain, but don't have false hope, have hope but keep it like that not that your situation definitely will change as you don't know, it may it may not, that is the beauty of life, make the most of it, if people change, feelings may change, they may see something different in you in the future again who knows, no one does. When the left side of your brain kicks in again and goes the thought that I will never be with him ever, kills me, automatically use your right side and say I may have a chance, who knows and you will notice you will feel better; never say never. I actually made a choice, a promise to my heart it is right, sounds sad but really i learnt to be ok with it and I accepted it too, that I will never be with anyone else, I will stay single forever, if I can't have him I won't have no one, I don't believe you can love anyone the same as your first true love, I can honour the memory of him easier by not being with anyone else, you never really cared for them that much if your with someone else, i did have a dream like any other girl, meet the love of my life, get married, have kids and grow old together but when i experienced this i found my prince charming but everything else i don't want to happen if i'm not with him. Trust your instincts, the universe is guiding your life if you feel they were made for you and your mean't to be you are probably right even if isn't that way but sometimes it just works out like that, i sm happier than i have ever been staying single. Just think it could have been the other way around so put yourself in their shoes and understand life just doesn't work the way you want it sometimes. And of course we all wonder why the one we love couldn't just feel the same, but what keeps me going is the memory of him, keeps me alive and I didn't even share any moments with him, it was love at first sight and it seems like when you fall for someone cuz you fell for them they should feel it too, but obviously it isn't the case, all the best