Lara Hanes on Blurtit

Lara Hanes thanked Noah Green's answer 9/16/2013

Are there any guys at all who have genuine feelings for a girl, like they really really like her but for whatever reason will never do anything about those feelings?

Us guys often get intimidated not only by those whom we have feelings for, but even by our feelings themselves. This alone renders us frozen in time with contradicting emotions. We don't always necessarily intend to hurt women, yet our own contradictions lead us to do so. It leaves the woman broken-hearted, and the male … Read more

Lara Hanes asked 9/13/2013

He hasn't messaged for about a week now and we are just starting to get to know each other on face book should I be worried?

Lara Hanes asked 9/12/2013

When a guy uses blushing smiley emoticons after every question he asks me, what does this mean? He also uses exclamation marks and asterisks with everything but especially the blushing faces

Lara Hanes commented on Lia Tan's answer 9/8/2013

If a guy likes you, will he copy what you say, like the guy I like always copies what I say, especially in text?

Cool thnx awesome feedback, appreciate it. Although he did say to me he didn't like me before this started and then all of a sudden started doing this and messaging me more, well see

Lara Hanes thanked Lia Tan's answer 8/28/2013

I told this guy how i felt and he said this: "I do know what you mean and I have felt like that about someone in the past, but I didn't tell them because I didn't want to ruin the friendship." Is he trying to tell me something?

It appears as if he is saying that what you said is ruining the friendship between you and that guy. At least that's what I'm getting. If he gives you an example of when he felt the way you do but held back from it, he is most likely trying to say that you should've … Read more

Lara Hanes commented on Lia Tan's answer 8/28/2013

I told this guy how i felt and he said this: "I do know what you mean and I have felt like that about someone in the past, but I didn't tell them because I didn't want to ruin the friendship." Is he trying to tell me something?

Yeh true, but the thing is one thing I know is he isn't a player and he always showed signs of interest until I confessed how I feel to him, which confuses, I thought there was something there, I just wish he could forgive and forget what I said, go back to being good friends, … Read more

Lara Hanes asked 8/27/2013

How to make someone who doesn't like you, want you so bad?

Lara Hanes voted up Alexus Deese's answer 8/26/2013

I Like A Boy And He Likes Me Too. He Just Wants To Be Friends Though. What Should I Do?

Just tell him how you feel sweetheart; that will make it better.

Lara Hanes commented on Anonymous' answer 8/26/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

That is what I thought but he is such a genuine, nice guy and from what people tell me, so it is tough, I am happy to have a friendship but if you saw what happened up in the other comments etc, when I told him how I feel and he said too much has … Read more

Lara Hanes answered taylor confused's question 8/25/2013

I Love Someone Who Doesn't Feel The Same Way. Everyone Tells Me To Move On But That's Just Not Working, Any Suggestions ?

I know the exact feeling, unrequited love hurts it really does, except in my situation, I never even spent one moment with him, or talked to him in person it was only ever on face book and he told me he is sorry but didn't feel the same way and that there were better guys … Read more

Lara Hanes voted up Yo Kass' answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

To be honest, there's not going to be a way of knowing for sure unless one of you makes the first move.

What is it he does that makes you think he likes you? You mentioned that he acts differently around you... This can be a pretty big sign that he has feelings for you - … Read more

Lara Hanes voted up Arthur Wright's answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

First never ever put anyone on the spot and expect a truthful or even an answer because it wont happen. You need to know the answer you seek is in his actions more than his words and actions do really speak a whole lot louder than words ever can. So watch his actions around you … Read more

Lara Hanes voted up angie zhang's answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

haha gurl u got a chance , he may just be shy and nto know how to take this relationship further , you can always still talk to him and hang around with him , then if u see some signs you can be more flirty

Lara Hanes commented on Anonymous' answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

That's what I thought i wish, but now if you see other comments what has happened I guess what I thought was signs was all a lie, although your right he does seem shy, or maybe he isn't ready now, he doesn't even want to get to know me hurts so much but don't get … Read more

Lara Hanes thanked Anonymous' answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

haha gurl u got a chance , he may just be shy and nto know how to take this relationship further , you can always still talk to him and hang around with him , then if u see some signs you can be more flirty

Lara Hanes answered 8/24/2013

What Does It Mean When A Guy You Like Ignores You Because He Knows You Like Him?

He probably likes you too but the only way to know for sure is to ask him as tough as that may be otherwise you'll go Insane jumping to conclusions, thinking too much about what he does, but one thing is if a guy is willing to make an effort to ignore you then he … Read more

Lara Hanes answered Anonymous' question 8/24/2013

This girl seems to like me, but when i show affection - she flirts with other guys to make me jealous. First I thought she was playing hard to get, but then she slept with someone else. We're not together,but she seemed interested... what should I do?

If you feel she likes you or you just can tell listen to your gut, your probably right, if she is trying to make you jealous then she could be interested, oh really she slept with someone else, my advice is if you really like this girl, don't give up, if she seemed interested she … Read more

Lara Hanes commented on Yo Kass' answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

Yeh i know but i just really love this guy and i may have ruined it, probably sounded full on but honestly i believed he felt the same, if i didn't send this msg and backed off for a while do you think he may have one day got the courage to ask me out? … Read more

Lara Hanes commented on Yo Kass' answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

he always stuck up for me when people being rude and listened to me I thought these were genuine signs, I guess me feeling he liked me back and all these signs were wrong, I still believe his Interested, at least was, but I am so sad because I know there's other guys out there … Read more

Lara Hanes commented on Yo Kass' answer 8/24/2013

Does he like me? He knows I like him and despite me saying let me know if you don't he has never said he doesn't like me but never said he does either. He acts different around me than other girls too

I know I should have asked to hang out but it has been too long and he hasn't made his feelings obvious. I wish there was still hope but clearly he doesn't want to get to know me or forgive me as the part where he said we could have been friends but too much … Read more