My boyfriend and I are 14, and he wants me to send him a naked picture of myself. I normally don't do stuff like this, but I really like him. I just don't know if I should. What do you guys think?

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Lucy Burroughs Profile
Lucy Burroughs answered

Sending your boyfriend naked pictures of yourself is a very bad idea, especially at your age.

The Risks of Sending Naked Pictures

- You can't take them back. If you have an argument, or break up, he'll still have those pictures. Relationships at that age very rarely last forever; that doesn't mean you like him any less, it just means that you need to think about your future self, too.

- Other people could see. He could show his friends, or even upload them to the Internet. You might think that your boyfriend would never do this, but think about all the other people who have had their naked photos leaked. They probably didn't think that their boyfriend would, either. There's also the possibility of his phone being lost or stolen.

- You're underage. Not only would this count as child pornography, but it's bound to lead to other sexual acts that you're almost certainly not ready for.

- You could get a bad reputation if other people hear about it. All it takes is for one person to hear about it, and then the entire school could know. You might end up being shunned and disrespected for it; it could even lead to bullying.

How Should I Tell My Boyfriend That I Don't Want to Send Naked Pictures?

- Just tell him that you're not comfortable doing it. He should respect your wishes, and if he doesn't, he's not a very good boyfriend.

- If he really cares about you, he won't pressure or pester you into doing it. Don't let him make you do anything that you're not comfortable with. It's definitely best to say no if you're in doubt.

yousra Profile
yousra answered
No trust me boys can be stupid.  You can end up spoiling your life. Did you
know it’s illegal, it’s called sexting? Your mobile network will also have that
picture of you. Think about when you argue and split up?  Don’t you think he’s going to say or do something?
It’s your choice.
Forest Lone Profile
Forest Lone answered
Your 14 year bf is letting you know he is already comfortable being naked and your entering territory that he expects you to enter back. Set your presidence now or forever enter a world you will be forever regretting if he posts what you send back for the world to see. Remember....the world is cyber linked.
Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
When in doubt don’t do it or you could end up in some really
hot water or even have your pictures posted on the Internet. A Guy should ever
ask this of any girl for any reason unless he’s a pervert or worse so don’t do
it and he should respect your answer.
Dickie Allen Profile
Dickie Allen answered
Many young people today are doing this. Personally I believe this is your business. However, if you send him and he you sexually explicit photos via your cell phone there are laws on the books now making it a felony you could go to juvie until your 18 then have a record and may have to registrar as a sex offender. I know of no laws yet for computers. Know this also, when you and he break up, he may publish the photos of you on line. This will be of great embarrassment to you for many years as those photos travel around the world time after time.
If you are ready for this then continue. Just realize what can happen.
Ray Dart Profile
Ray Dart answered
Never do this. Sorry, it is wrong, and your boyfriend (if he really likes you) will understand when you say no.
Mandy Clark Profile
Mandy Clark answered
Uh...yah as much as you like him this isn't a good idea...the police could track these types of things down if something bad were to happen
kayla dodd Profile
kayla dodd answered
It's probably not the best idea on your part. After you send that text you don't know who will see it. He could be showing it off to his friends and after you start small like that it could lead to more things. You should tell him how you feel and if he doesn't like it he's only after your body hun (I'm sorry if that sounds mean)
Jasmine Haha Profile
Jasmine Haha answered
Of course not ! Just because you like a boy does not mean he should see you naked. He will most definitely show his friends and people WILL see it eventually. It's illegal and I would break up wit him. If someone asked for a picture of myself naked I would be offended because that is disrespectful and it's child pornography.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

All I can say is the consequences of giving him the picture could be
very bad, and the consequences of SENDING it could be 1000 times worse.
Don't do it to yourself because you will regret it. Trust me!

jessica Adams Profile
jessica Adams answered
Well its illegal to send naked pictures and also if you do not want to do it then don't! If he likes you then if you refuse then he wont mind.
Alexis Egan Profile
Alexis Egan answered
NO NO NO!!!!!! He could show it to other people, and you're too young to.... Expose yourself. Your naked photo could end up in ANYBODY'S hands.... ANYBODYS
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

I work in a photo lab. If you pull that little memory card out of your phone and stick it into the machine it will pull the picture. If your boyfriend tries to print a copy it will be reported to law enforcement and he could be arrested. Just tell him you love him too much to put him in jail.

Xal Xal Innes Profile
Xal Xal Innes answered

Ugh, I wouldn't dream of doing it, even if you like him loads, just leave it till you're MUCH older, okay?

Regina Navarro Profile
Regina Navarro answered

If you like him then don't do it.  He could get into some serious trouble with the authorities if this happens.  You could get into some serious trouble if this happens.  Anyone seeing a picture of this can get into some serious trouble if this happens.  Your good name can be tarnished and people will not forget this.  Keep your morale and don't do it for yourself most of all.  You deserve more respect than this.

okwir walter Profile
okwir walter answered

NEVER try to do that ,the best thing you can do is pay visit to him and let him look at you physically and do all sort of thing he wants .                  "WE MAKE DECISIONS " "NOT PEOPLE MAKING FOR US"

Asdaa Asdd Profile
Asdaa Asdd answered

Don't talk with him again. Don't send picture. He will want more and more... He can threaten (Thanks google translate) you with that. Maybe he will touch your boobs, your butt or whatever. Don't. Just don't.
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karl goodwin Profile
karl goodwin answered

Never, never, never send a digital image of your naked body anywhere or to anyone.  Do not deviate from this for the rest of your life. It is your life rule.

Charles Ruiz Profile
Charles Ruiz answered

love  is a very intimate thing and must be treasured......you ......standing naked before him is worth more than a 1,000 PICTURES of you naked....

larissa kowlessar Profile

Look, trust me hun, yeah I know you love him but you don't have to express your love in that way... you can talk to him and even if you don't take my advice and you still wanna do it, at least don't show your face!!

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

You should be thinking more towards your education than being in a relationship, and especially at this age!

If you have to ask this question to strangers, then you must know it is wrong, otherwise you would ask your mother!

jessie cuellar Profile
jessie cuellar answered

This is entirely a personal choice. It is illegal, and there are risks if you break up or if he's an ass, but it is up to you. If you don't want to, don't. If you are willing to take the chance, if you think it's worth it, the decision is yours but do not be surprised if you get burnt. You knew it could happen before you did it.

Maxine Chan Profile
Maxine Chan answered
Nope, never do that because he may post it online for all to see and once it hits the internet, it stays there forever.

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