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How Can I Get A Girlfriend?

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Kathryn Wright answered
Be confident, bold, but respectful and simply approach the girl you like and ask her if she'd like to either go out with you or at least hang out with you. The worst case scenario is that you get declined, but the act of bravery in the approach shows that you are capable of making a move, and can do so again in the future should another girl be of interest. It might even boost your credibility in the eyes of others and impress other girls.

The wish for a girlfriend is either for status and reputation or for companionship. Social groups and stature even exists for younger people and having a girlfriend could be the difference between being a geek or cool in their minds. This isn't really the way it works, but if it helps them learn; so be it. It could also be that they are a bit lonely. Perhaps they don't have too many friends or they don't see their parents much or are an only child. It isn't something to discourage, but a parent should educate their son that he should only want a girlfriend if he genuinely finds her attractive and interesting.
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Go up to her say something nice like "your shoes look good'. Get them to notice you.
Be funny. Girls love it when you're funny.
Another thing is just be yourself. Flirt with another girl at the table and make her notice how nice you are.

Or do the 'foot space game' where you put your foot near the girls foot and she doesnt move it shes comfortable with it I did it she put her foot on mine then took off her sandals and did it again then we both got up left the room cause it was the end of college I was walkin home then she peeks out of the woods and she told me to follow her so I did. We went behind a tree then she started making out with me for so long. It felt great
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If your in class and your sitting next to the girl you like, put your foot about 1 inch away to her foot if she doesn't move her foot away she let you in her personal space! Which means she likes you!!
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TO ALL YOU GUYS WHO ARE AROUND 16-9 YRS OLD: If there's a girl you like. A girl that likes you but you don't feel the same way. Or a girl has no idea you exist introduce yourself to the girl. Whether you like her or not just say something. Give her a compliment and don't use ANY punchline or chessy  punchlines. Doing that will just get you slapped or the girl will no longer be into you. If you know she hates you and she knows you like her you have to sound desperate but you have to use that as a last resort. With a girl you know that likes you and you don't like her the same way and you REALLY WANT A GIRLFRIEND just go for her.tell her how you feel about her and just say "I know you like me but I don't feel the same way. I'm sorry" or if you want her "I know you like me and I like you too. :)" now if the girl has no idea you exist just pretend to trip nearby her. When this happens she will most likely realize you got hurt. You know the rest from here. Although if the girl goes back to ignoring you or ignored you when you "fell" just say "ow... I just fell and that was an attempt to get your attention... I really like you and..." if you get cut off there just catch up with her later. Don't show her you're desperate for a girlfriend. Just get her something semi-expensive that she would like. Just follow her 12% of your day or even an hour a day in separate segments of the day. Maybe 5 mins every hour especially if she's in your school. You can find out her likes and dislikes doing this. Then get her a gift prices $10-$50 depending on your age. Now if you're 16 just get her something homemade. My 17yr old brother got his girlfriend a plushy of neku from "the world ends with you" and saix from "Kingdom Hearts: 358/2 Days" because she really liked those things. Though if you're just friends with the girl and you like her tell her by taking her to a scenic place. It will give the effect of raising your girlfriend purposal chances by 15%-50%. Chances are you'll get her. I hope this has helped
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Well stay cool. Give her somthing that she would remember you by.complement her about every day'example Like your hair beautiful.
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Be yourself. You are a bit young for this, but don't worry. I'm 14 and I have a girlfriend. I've liked her from a while back, so here are some tips:
-Wait until your special someone grows a bit, to see how she both emotionally and socially develops
-In the meantime, become her best friend
- Monitor the changes
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Send them a valentine heart card and write about how much you like them.
I did that and I was kind of afraid.All I did was take a deep breath and put it right
right in the girl's bag and ran outside.
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Hang out with her friends but also hang out with her at the same time make sure that her friends talk cool about you then play with her a bit more wait for the right moment and the ask her out
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I am a girl and if you want to go out with a girl then be nice, cute, athletic and funny :D that's the main things girls look 4 in boys xD hope that helped!
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I'm In Love Whit A Girl In My School She Is 10 Me Too, I'm One Of The Coolest Guys In My Class She WAS In Love Whit Me Too But Now She Likes Another Boy That Is Son Of A Famous Actor I don't Know What To Do Help!
I Will Give You Just 3 Advices
1: Buy Her Things Like Desserts.
2:Talk Whit Her! Tell Stories, And Be Funny And Sociable.
3: When You Think Is The Moment To Ask Her Do It While Class (Studing)
Sorry If My English Is Bad, Good Luck Guys!
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Hi I think you should ask her out, I know you're scared to but thats just an obstacle that you have to overcome as a boy. If you just don't ask  her out it will just get tougher and tougher to ask her out.
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Kitty Grant answered
Hang out with girls, but don't forget about your guy friends. Get to know a single girl, rather than many, and the more you get to know her, the more you might like/dislike her... Give a girl a chance... You could always ask a girl out that likes you and you like her.  Good luck! <3
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BE NICE! Invite affection to him/her. Once they warm up to you, tell them you love them. They will probably love you back.
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Well I'm 11 and I had a girlfriend when I was 10, because our school has a disco every year I ask all the girls my age to dance with me and this girl named Naomi accepted so we danced and then we went on an excursion and I hugged her people asked me if I liked her and   I said yes so did she
so now I've got her phone number and asked her what highschool shes going to so we can go together
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Well be nicer to this girl try to make her fell special and then one day when your alone ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend
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Don't tell a girl you like everything they do. That will creep them out. Never ever call them ugly while you date them. Ok so these are the steps.
1.Get to know them.
2.See if they have a boyfriend.
3.Wait about 5 months.
4.Be there for them. This should get you in the friend zone.
5.Ask people/her what they like, and match some and only some of their excitements.
6.Make sure she is not mean to you and then, ask her the Frick out, but don't look nervous, act chill, like ordinary. And always act not nervous around them. This should help many dudes.
7.Take my advice.

P.S.I'm a 10 years old and a boy with a crush. I had 4 girl friend and this crap works. Thanks!
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Be like you look good and ask someone you know and she knows to tell her what you have to say.
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Tell her how you fell. Then you start to be friends. Ask her what her phone #.Then when the time is right you kiss her. THEN RUN!
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I've had around 14 gf's,if had 5 phone numbers and 2 emails,I'm pretty good. The trick that will win her over is,don't show that you like her, don't talk to her, don't touch her, then she'll start getting worried and like you even more! Then wait for her to come to you saying "Hey,You want to Go Out?"Then You Say"you,sure"Thats the trick. Now if she does'nt do anything never talks to you or doesn't even look at you that means PICK ANOTHER GIRL! She's not into you
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Look ive tried but its hard. Try to find out if they like you then write on a sticky note or ask them in private.do it infront of a mirror if you ask them if they say yes awesome... If they say no sucks for you
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samer najjar answered
Its tricky but if you like her go out side with her and play and you should try to be alone but if you want be with her friends and maybe your friends and ask her if   she likes you if she says yes your good if she says no leave her or try better good luck!
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Just be your self and make sure you ask her out befor anyonez of your friends do. Play with her invite her out get her phone number and call her a bit. See I'm good at telling how to get a girlfriend but I haven't got one I did have on but she left me.
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Make sure you always are talking to each other and not talking about short dumb stuff make sure your talking about stuff you both like
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Ellie Brister answered
The best thing to do is be yourself not matter the situation. Girls hate a guy who is fake and not honest, that's a major turn off. Just "hang out" with the girl but don't invade her space, that will freak her out a tad. Be a nice guy, and be there for a girl when she needs it the most.
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Meanwhile ive been a friend of julia ( my crush/ best friend) for 5 years so that makes it easy.
Plus I'm one of the cool kids two great things to help but I still need advice whenever I am going to ask her out I get nervous and run away right when I'm walking up. Help?
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Make her laugh then after skool or something when you r alone just ask her if she wants to be your girlfiriend if she says no then ask if you can be friends and then work you way up to being her boyfriend I did that and now I have a girlfriend and she is awsome enjoy!!!
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Hang around her friends get to know them a bit then tell her you like her if she doesn,t like you
just say not if she likes you back smile and walk away!
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Gab Peltier answered
Well you don't want to act cool. Just be yourself talk to them. If you have to take it slow and be there friend
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Be rich, stable that's all you need. however, it doesn't mean you can have a GOOD girlfriend. it needs more than that. 

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First you need to be friends with her and then you will know when you should ask her out I once tryed asking a girl out without us being friends and she said no and when that happend I lost all my reputation and it didnt help when I was hagging out with the geeks but 2 years later I'm hagin out with all the kool kids and I'm realy popular you got the girl of my dreams as my friend and I'm gona ask her out!!!!!!
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Theres this girl that I absolutely love and she says she doesnt like me but I know she likes me cause shes always flirting with me and jumping on my back and she told three of her friends she does and they told me what do I do cause I like her a lot
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Get to be friends take her out to a movie and a romantic one and say "opps" and when its the romantic part kiss her then run to the nearest ihop then get something there and when you go home send her a email saying am I your boyfriend? Then she will say yes or what the heck no!
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Z Girl answered
Try to find out what she likes, and start a conversation with her, maybe she watches hannah montana talk about shows on the disney channel. I'm 20 yrs old and I still watch that channel and cartoon network. Lol. I enjoy phineas and fern. May she would too. Talk about the jonahs brothers.
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You have to come up to the girl and be friends wit her for 5 days up to 2 weeks and if more that mens she doesnt like you if she doesnt then keep trying it works!
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Jack walmsley answered
You're young. You have no patience for commitment which will lead to getting hurt, live your life while your young and commit when you are older.

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