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What Do You Say To The Boy That You Like?

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The best thing to do is to be yourself no matter what...strut your whole personality when he sees you...don't over do it...be friendly, polite, be busy but always act in a way for him to realise that you will always have time for him....if you like the guy and you don't want anyone to know because your shy....act mature, sensible, reliable and respectable...act in a way so when he needs someone to lean on or look for mature advice he'd turn to you...you also don't want to be too mature try to reflect his behaviour; if he demonstrates childishness be sponataneous if he's very mature be cute and responsible, don't let him take charge be independent and strong make him drool for your maturity only when he shows maturity then you let him feel like his in charge he will love it...and also know when he needs to lay off
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Just start a conversation with him as a friend and just go from there really, you will know if he likes you unless hes shy then it will be harder for you to be sure that he does. But after a few weeks or months of getting to know him and getting good friends just tell him you like him or drop him a few hints, he should get the message and if he likes you, it will happen. Just don't leave it and expect the guy to do all the work, hes not a mind reader, he can't tell if you like him.
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Guys r major idiots if they like you they'll want to play hard to get . So if you want to ask him out just do the following:

"hi,hows it going"says you "hey,I'm fine what r you up to "says him keep it completely casual "Nothin much you know" says you this time you get a lil bit closer lookin him in the eye don't make your nervousness show that will make him think/know your falling head over heels  him and that   bad "SO r you doing anything later" saying this MITE lower him into saying this "No nothing maybe we should hang out later , You know where I live you can come over at seven my parents won't be home " says him "sure I'll come over at seven." says you , but that is d best case senario if he says he is going out you don't give up just say cool and move on to a next subject get that acquired feeling out of the air . I think thats all just keep it casual and try taking baby steps.
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Sometimes, boys can be scared off when girls are too confronting, and it can be awkward if he doesnt feel the same way back, so hold out for ab-it..get to know him really well and become close before you spring your feelings on him. There would be nothing worse than a random guy you have said hello to twice in your life asking you out and you rejecting him..so think about the guys feelings. Yeah you need to tell them sometime...but it depends on the situation..every one is different.
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If you like him and he doesnt like you back then its ok to cry a little but don't let that one guy take up your whole life and don't get to excited about him think its going to the perfect love story. I just had my heart broken but he didnt like me so got I got over it. Just think "he doesnt deserve something as good as this and can have someone else" but don't loose all feelings for him so fast Casa it could take time for him to like you back wait like 3 weeks
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I think that you should get to know him better go up to him and say hi ask him about his interests maybe youll have something in common. If you do know him tell him how you feel it will be easier for him to know your feelings then ask him if he feels the same way. If he does ask him out if he doesnt its ok there are hundreds of boys out there. So just go for it before its too late.
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Tell the boy you want to speak to them in private then ask the boy out if they say no just tell them you told your friend what you think of them and then they might change there mind!!
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Jannel Fellanto answered
Tell one of your friends to tell him I did that it worked they will still treat you the same after that one day and get his number before you do that thats what I did and he has mine now his text's me heyy every couple of days and he wants to start over as friends which means he likes me if that happenes to you they like you good luck!
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If you like a boy don't get  shy juust tell him how you feel about him.just take my advice.but take your time if you are shy,cause it is ok to  be shy.
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Boys hurt girls very badly
but girls are very trustworthy
in situations like that,boys always find a better girl than you
so they just give hurts and pains
sometimes its a crush and sometimes  its even more than a crush
seriously be safe and think wht is right before you do ask
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Just tell him you like him. I mean I did it. And it turned out he liked my best friend. But that was a plus for me. Cause now I can talk to him even more than before. SO tell him. Whatever happens happens. But if he doesnt like you, don't start crying about whats wrong in life. Take it like the woman you are and say ok. THats fine. We can be friends. Hope this was helpful. Bye
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Its the same for mee!!!
Why the best friend?
She thinks hes annoying..
And hes madley in love with her..
Im really cutt
but im not giving up..
I just want to know how to win him over..
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Umm well what if every1 knows including him and now it doesnt seem like he likes you and doesnt even talk 2 u now but some of his friends say he likes me
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Annie McManus answered
What you want to say to some guy that you like would be just a simple hello, cause in there world it shows a much that they really do like them. I mean no one says a simple hello any more. If you want to ask him out then do it. Don't be afraid cause your a girl and it breaks the laws of love.

I did it and look at me the star blurter on a national cheering champion, with a boyfriend on the same team that plays football, I mean don't that sound like a romantic love story?
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I Think The best thing to do is go up to him talk to him on the phone text him see if he Ripley's and then talk wait for a month and see how things go if its not going good don't think about asking him out
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I like a boy and I really want to tell him I want to go out with him but the last time I did it I got hurt and then he might tell everyone
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Well, get good with him. Then sometime, you should call him. The next time you do, tell him that you like him and ask if he feels the same way.
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Well, try asking one of your friends that is also friends with him to ask or hint about liking you. If he does then ask him out, if your shy then maybe get somebody else to. Trust me doesnt wait forever. Whenever you get your next chance, do it. -Ema
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First, do you know him? Do you know him a lot? If you don't, you really need to before you go to far! If your friend knows him, ask her if she could introduce you too. If you do know him a lot, it should be easy to know what he would say to you.
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You should just be yourself around him, never be different, and when you think the time is right then tell him how you really feel, if he felt the same then theres no worries to be shy or anything, but if he don't like you in that way, don't think you can't hang around with him and still be his mate casue you can, and keep trying to impress him:)
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Just be who you are... Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Get him to like you ;) I dont mean you to be manipulative but you need to do some things to grab his attention and to be 'unique' and 'attractive; in his eyes. If I were you, I'd enhance my appearance for him to notice me. I'd also do something that would help me grab his attention. One surefire way to get any guy like you is to make yourself popular among your friends or classmates or in your circle. He'll definitely start noticing you... Also, be nice and kind with others when he's around. Do something that would make him to start a  conversation with you. Once you get him to talk to you try to find out more about him like what he likes doing and show your interest in the same things. I suggest you to check this website, it has everything you need to know about getting a guy to like you

Best of luck!

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Well if you like him too just let him know. If you do not like him try and avoid him or tell him you think the best thing for the two of you is to just be friends.
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Today I went up to this boy and asked him out but I think now he wants to go out with me but this morning he said no.So girls I think you should just go for it.Good Luck Girls Hope this is god advice
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SAP B?
Me you and a bottle of wine? ;)

x-oh come on, you all know this would work! (:
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What if people say ewe to him but .... But almost all my friends like him what should I do. What should I say to him.
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Well I have told the boy that I like that I like him, his response was, "it doesnt bother me". What does that mean? What do I do now?
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You say:I have been holding this in for a while but I  ike you /my boyfriend said that to  me and now I love him love you  lee
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You can just be yourself and say hi. You can talk about something that is going on at school or a party that may be coming up. If show him interest, you never know he may be just as interested just a little shy.
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My boyfriend is really shy and every time were together we have nothing to talk aBout and we are to shy to talk what do we do?
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I really like this boy his name is Zack. But, I also like a guy name Bradley what do I doo?
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Well if you like him go talk to him and let him choose if he dosnt try to be happy as you can be
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No you say hi try to be funny smile a lot and hug the guy well and don't talk about your fellings a lot
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If you are really shy do not gett your friend to ask him so all you do is say do you li,ke me if he says no walk away and say you r unlukey if he says yes say should we go on a date or somthin... :)
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You say that he was the only guy you ever really really..... Liked and if you lent him money and you told him he didnt have to repay you if he says no to going out you can tell him you would ask for your money back but you still like him and you are nice enough to let him keep it.
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Well I have some words that are really good advice.
IF HE DOES NOT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, don't PUSH HIM BECAUSE HE isn't WORTH IT. Just be yourself hang out and don't make it too obvious that you like him cause the magic is in the moment where he needs to admit he likes you because think about it. If you give him a hint he likes you hes going to feel more eased at telling you he likes you... But if you don't show it then its going to be harder for him and hes not going to like you not showing him you like him. So just lay back relax and if he really likes you he will tell you and you guys will e together ..... Follow my advice I have good experience.

Nicole age 12
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You go over and say  you like him and tell him why  they might respond like this:  I like you too, similar to that or like this:no I don't,maybe like that but don't trust them they could be hiding the fact they totally adore you so just go ahead and tell them chances are they might feel the same way
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It's really hard to tell a boy you like him.. It takes balls. So if you don't want to do that, like me for instance, just get a friend to casually bring you up in a conversation and maybe add in a few awesome things about you.. And then even say that you two would look so cute together and he should ask you out.. Worked for me :)
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I really like this guy but I think he likes my friend. I would get another friend of mine that's close to him to slip it into the conversation but the only problem with that is the only friend of mine thats close to him likes him too. I'm not good at showing my feelings at all. Its hard for me to. I'm also not so good at making friends so befriending him will take at least two years (don't ask, I have trust issues...) any suggestions?
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I really like this boy who goes to my school we have never talked only on msn. My classmate told him that i liked him and my friends say that he likes me back but i dont know if he does. What should i do?
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I like a boy, but none of my friends really talk to him. I am not one of his friends, and we don't seem to have any of the same friends, however, we seem to like the same things. I'm not sure whether he likes me or my friend, but I am prepared to try and win him over. Any suggestions?
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But what if he don't think your cute or pretty or anything what if you told him you like him but he just ignores it because like 6 girls like him and you think he's sweet funny and really cute but....what if he don't talk to you anymore on face-book I talked to him and now he don't talk to me anymore I don't think he even likes me because he just talks to me in school and that it and I think he only talked to me online just so he wont hurt my feelings and makes me feel bad but you..what do I do?
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Well I really like this guy sooooo much. We are kinda friends, we don't talk as much anymore but whenever I'm around him I get all nervous and act stupid. It feels like I can't talk to him without making a fool out of myself. I'm waaayyy to shy to tell him how I feel. What if he doesnt feel the same way and then he tells everyone what you said??
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NOPE SOME OF YALL GOT IT ALL WRONG...this is what you do
1. Make friends with him someway somehow
2. The first time you meet him or talk to him make a good first impression
3. Say hello[ =
4. BOOM I don't know what else to do...LOL jk jk just kiddin I need help too...sad
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As you Friend to go and tell them if the like you or if he will like to go out with you
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That is the worst thing u can do to a boy that will start a lot of drama and if u like him u wouldnt make him go through all that drama trust me the one thing boys hate is drama
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I think who ever is in this kind of problem should tell whoever you like, the truth. Because I just told my crush that I liked him since last year in 6th grade and he actually told me he liked me back since 5th grade!
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Well just play hard to get go up t o him and step on his shoes and wen he turns around be like ooh sorry and then hell know that hello I'm here
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I like someone in my school but  I'm not sure if he likes me back.
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I like this guy that ive liked for the whole school year. Hes not the cutest boy but hes really nice and sweet. I have him in all my classes but whenever I talk to him I get shy also my cousin likes him too. What should I do?
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Well, if you like him too just say you do to and then go from there. If
you don't like him back, say thats sweet or something and let him down
easily.
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All you have to do is tell the boi you like him and wait for him to ask you out.if he doesn`t`t then you ask him.
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The problem with telling the boy that I like him is that he's kind of a player and a flirt so I don't know if he really likes me or if he's juz playing around
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Wel I will say to all girls 2 tel things that r gudd like talk bout who you lyk and what yall goin to do both of yall cn get in trouble or do somthin together and if you guys r close den just say your cute ordat I wsh I had a boyfriend I'm nervous because that happend to me  I did that and now we been datin for 2 years GUUD LUCK:p
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You say casual things like, Who do you support? And if he goes to the same school as you bring up an event that is happening at the school i.e you going to the fair on saturday? People appreciate honesty I'll admit that but you might only like the things you've seen, I'd get to know him first before making any drastic acion. What if he turns out to be a complete and utter jerk?? There will be no turing back,Once you are good friends with this boy and you are alone, haveing funa and just talk, maybe playing a mini game or something bring up the fact if he has a girlfriend, Yes, then Ask questions about her. Like does she go to our school **If he goes to your school** How lomg have you been going out - Remember that yout two are good friends now, it would have been weird if you barely knew each other and you were asking him stuff about his girlfriend, But Yes, You two are good friends and maybe get a friend of yours ar you tell a friend of his and then casually make them slip it out in a convorsation, or Maye if you feel you know him well enough and nothing will break up your friendship, tell him yourself  -  Act in the boys shoes, but you have to know him first, some boys are different          GURD LUCK! Xx
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If you like a boy and need to tell him that you like him, you simply go to him and let him know him what you feel about him. Tell him how much you like him and what he means to you. Talk about all the good things that you like in him, appreciate everything he does. It is very easy to tell a boy that you like him. Once you have conveyed your feelings to the boy then it is up to him what he chooses to do.
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Well what if the boy you want to tell goes out with one of your best friends? What do you actually say so the girl doesny find out you like her boyfriend? Im so comfused ive liked him since i met him i just dont know what to do please help !
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But what if he says no and then tells all his friends and aslo what do i do if he looks at you and you look sat him but then you relise that you no theres no chance even though you no you can feel some kind of connection
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Thats realy nice of u to say that it realy helped ma thank you
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Oh that's easy!!! Just go and tell him.At first he may be shocked,and say that he sees you as a friend,BUT if he ever had feelings for you,he's just PRETENDING that he likes as a friend,trust me!!! ;)  The next days will be akward between you and him.Just don't mention it again-let the days pass,and do what you always do.Then,if you're on the same company,you'll start talk again.DO NOT IGNORE HIM!!! Always talk to him,be friendly,cute,kind,whatever you are,just like when he met you and...START FLIRT WITH HIM!!!! BODY LANGUAGE DARLING!!! :)) I'm pretty sure he'll reciprocate!!! Continue with that whenever you meet...And he maybe finally make his move-the ball is in his court now!!! Good luck!!! :))
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I'm scared to tell the boy tht I like him ... Okay me and him were like bestfriends he came to my house everyday we did everything together , he made me play with his hair and he doesnt let anyone play with hes hair anyways I was tickling his arms and he held my hand ... And then like he walked all the way to my house in the cold just to come see me ... Then when it was snowing he gave me his jacket ... My lil brother he is 8 and he told me tht one day he told my bro he likes me but he don't want to go out with me.... So wht does tht all mean I have liked him since I was 6 and I'm 14 and so is he I don't know wht to do ... Any advice .....????
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If he likes you then you should be honest with him too. And if your best friends then you should definatley be honest and you could always stay friends
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Yo I need HELP I don't know what to say to the boy I like I mean I'm not even sure if he likes me well my cousin is very good friends with him and my cousin says that he likes me... I kinda think so to cause he always smiles at me and on Valentines day for our party at school he gave me a cute little teddy bear I mean whats that suppose to mean all I have to say is that..... : I NEED HELP I don't know what to say to him at all! HELP PLEEEEEAAAAASSSSSSEEEEEE the school year is almost over and he said hes goin to a different school next year and... I JUST WANT TO FIND OUT IF HE LIKES ME so people out there commenting just PPPLLLEEEAAASSSEEEE HELP!
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I Would Go Up To Him And Tell Him How I Feel . As If I Like You Or I Have Been Looking From A Distance And All I've Seen Was Your Smile Or Your Looks .
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You could go up to him and flat out tell him or you can ask someone that the both of you guys know and see if they know anything as far as him liking you too - well GOOD LUCK

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