Supervised visits at best. Why would you want to put your son through that? Find healthy male role models to be a part of his life. And again, any grown man that says he relates better to little girls than to little boys would freak me out a little. Perhaps it's me being overprotective, but my foster parenting courses would agree with me.
Do you trust a father to be a part of your new baby boys life, when he has a history of lashing out at the young boys in the situation that are not biologically his, says that he cannt relate to boys like he can girls....?
You shouldnt trust him alone with your son honestly I mean let him see him but make sure you r thereor a nother responsible adult is there with him never leave them alone untill you can trust him