How Do You Know If A Boy Likes You? I Have A Boy That I Like And I Really Want To Know For Sure If He Likes Me Before I Do Something Stupid?

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Anonymous answered
Heres some signs AND TRUST ME I AM TELLING THE TRUTH:)

1. He will ignore you or be mean to you for about 1 week or so....
2. He will smile at you once, twice, or more
3.he will be looking at you a lot
4. He will be nicer to you than anybody else
5. He will try to impress you (TRUST ME)
thanked the writer.
Panda Bamboo
Panda Bamboo commented
Totally true
Molly Caboose
Molly Caboose commented
I actually think a boy try's to impressss me if that's what u would say he does weird things and FIRST thing he does is look at me.......
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Anonymous answered
I know how you feel~ I'm in 6th grade...here are some signs :

*he is always looking at you with that weird smiling face of his (it's kinda cute ;) )
*he is usually trying to talk to you and leans towards you.
*he usually tries to act..'macho' or 'cool' when your around
*he sometime says rather lame and repeat the same things just to talk to you
*Nervous, sweating, and that weird messed up laugh :P
*when he's done something funny or awesome he'll usually first look at you to see if you're impressed
*Also this is kinda hard but it's worth a try...I think this works, not sure :P : His pupils dilate when he looks at you.

HOPE THIS HELPS!!!! :D
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Anonymous answered
I'm just a 6th grader, but please listen to me. There is a girl that I love right now. So, I made it a bit too obvious and I did stare and smile at her way too often. So, then I was forced to tell her. But, she already knew. So, girls, watch out for starers and smiling boys.
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Anonymous answered
Think about how he acts around you. This is seriously true even if it seems like a joke. I've caught myself doing these things around boys that I like. Does he rub his arms, mess with his hair, lean next to you, stare at you when he thinks you're not looking, or throw reassuring smiles your way every now and then?? If he does 2-3 or more of these things, then he probably likes you for real.
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Anonymous answered
If you want to know if a boy likes you he will:
* Help you with something
* Try to look cool in front of you
* stare at you and turn away when you look at him.
* Talks to you instead of his friends
* lean close to you during class
* look into your eyes when he looks at you
* try to be sexy
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Anonymous answered
If hes staring at you and you look at him and then he looks away then that would be a sign
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Anonymous answered
I think its always hard to tell, because its a well known fact that guys brains are different to girls. There's this guy that I like and he says he likes me a bit too , I went on a walk with him a couple of days ago (because he lives near me) and he acted like he was just my friend I thought he would be a lot flirter - but I always catch myself ignoring the guy, I think it depends on his personality with me, if the guy is popular and confident then I'm usually really shy, but if the guy is shy I usually make signs that I like him. So that could be the same with guys.
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samer najjar answered
Well he will try to talk to you and he will try to ignore you when he has his friends around him so if you want to talk to him try to be alone..

I'm a boy 10 years old
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Anonymous answered
I think it's pretty easy to determine whether someone likes you or not. Just think about what you do in his presence and see the same cues are to be noticed in his behaviour when he's around you. Although people react to different situations in varying ways, yet some things are always there. If he likes you he'll probably show it by his actions even if he's too shy to say it, just as you are. For one he'd never go of an opportunity to be around you and wouldn't let a chance go by if he can extend his help to you in any way. How about asking for help with an assignment and finding out?If he's interested, I'd bet he wouldn't say no to such a chance. Give it a shot, I say. Good luck!
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Anonymous answered
How do you know if a boy likes you? If you want to know if a boy likes you study him see how he acts around you and compare it to the way he acts around other people. If he is a class clown its a whole differnt story and theres no way to know for sure so don't do anything stupid if hes a class clown.also see if he looks at you or messes with you then he definitly likes you but have a friend ask if he does or not if all fails.Katy+Kacy
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Anonymous answered
There is this boy I like and I think if the boy likes you these are the signs:
If you had a dream of the guy kissing you probably that's a sign
Watch his body when he might be
-starring at you when your not looking
-try to lean to you
-touch your private parts and say oops I did that by accident-
-try to touch you
-give you his phone number
-talk to you allot on msn or anything like that

Well if James does at least 3-4 of these things you have a winner!
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I am a girl in sixth grade, and there is a guy in my grade who is always staring at me. He smiles at me, leans in close, and is always figuring out some way to get by me. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. So I asked his best friend. He told me that he does. But then surprised me and said that he liked me. I was surpRISED, BUT ALL THE SAME, EXCITED!! Then, there was a kid who professed his luv for me! And the most popular boy in the school! Likes me!
WHAT DO I DO???!!!
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Anonymous answered
Well if a boy likes you and you like him then you should talk to him more often than just when he is there.
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Anonymous answered
Well you can take the quiz" how to know if a boy likes me?" try going to google and typing that in  I tried it it worked cause then I asked him and he said yes so the quiz does help you can also try "what kind of guy likes me quiz" it will also tell you the truth hope it works fo you :D
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johntavis king answered
See imma guy so I'm going to be straight up with you if you like a guy and don't know if he likes back there is only 1 answer an that is to go for it it takes sacrifice to find the right guy for you he's no just going to fall in your arms and how will he know that you like him if you don't tell him just take it slow with him an show him that you are a good girl and he'll fall your you at least I would anyway not 4 just saying if a girl had enough respect and courage to tell me that she liked me that would make my day because I know somebody cares an I'm only 17 so I don't know much bout love but I can say I would like the girl a lot trust me try it an see
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Panda Bamboo answered

The boy will look at you a lot and he will get super nervous also when he is with his friends and you walk by them they will start starring at you and laughing

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julia smith answered

There is this guy in my class and he always looks at me but I don't now if he likes me. He sometimes tries to talk to me or "show off" but I now he likes my friend or at least that what my friend tells me. But.... His best friend ( she is girl and my friend ) told me he says I`m pretty and funny (bty I am ugly) and I don't now what to tell him or if he really likes me to the point that he wants to date. What do you think?

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You could be bold and ask him..... But no NEVER do that. What I would do is go up and talk to him here and there and eventually.. If.. He likes you, he'll talk more and more. But don't pressure him, because guys hate that.
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Anonymous answered
Don't worry, just ask him up close! If he says he doesn't then, well, you don't need him to have a good time. Plus if you do like him, there is a chance he will fall for you in time. But for now don't worry about him, get on with having fun for the moment!
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I know what your going through all you have to do is maybe ask your brother if his friend is for real if your scared to do that then have on off your friends go up to him and ask would he go out with you but you can't let him see you. I did that with like all the guys I been out with and they all have been really good.
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I have the same problem but I don't know the guy. He is in 6th grade and I am in 5th grade. I think he likes me because I was outside my school and he came up to me and said " I wouldnt want to be in a dark alley with you..." and he walked away. Today he was on the bus and rode by and said "Shawty lick the rapper" I am so confused please help.
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I was in 6 grade before I realized that I like this guy in my class. It was at the end of the year when I was in 6 grade when my friends asked the guy I like out 4 me, but at first he said no then he said yes. I'm not sure if he is going out with me 4 who I am or just because I like him and he didn't want 2 turn me down or hurt my feelings.                      WHAT SHOULD I DO SIGN ANONYMOUS
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Firstly if he always talks to you and sorta hangs around if he suddenly starts talking to you out of no where. Looking at you talking louder when you walk past acting different around you when you 2 r alone then when he is with his friends. He wont tell you who he likes if you ask him and telling you
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He will look at you a lot and if his face turns red and he small then he's in love but if he look away  he hate you
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Well if he does something good to you just say I want to say something special and then fake it and kiss him real quick
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Here's what you do - if he looks at you a lot then he likes you but depends on the here's on his face if he has like a what ? Then no sorry he doesnt but if he has like a hi expression on his face then your the winner . Also if he talks to you a lot and like flirts with you then YES He 4 sure likes you . But he tries to stay away from you the NO sorry .
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Angela Smith answered
Usually If he wants to talk to you a lot.  Then if you like him all you have to do is engage him in conversation and let the relationship fall in place.  Don't rush things though, you're only in 6th grade.  I'm in 8th grade and I'm not fat or ugly or conservative, but I just think it's too early for me to have a boyfriend or to "go out" with a boy.  Mind you I still like some boys like that, and I talk with them and have a great time with them.  In high school some with still be friends but some could transform into boyfriends.  Ask me more questions, I'd be happy to answer.
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If the guy tries to make fun of you in a non hurtful way,then e might like you.but you never really know cause sometimes they don't look at you,they don't talk to you but they actually like you.Anyways,theres this boy in my class,and sometimes I feel like I like but sometimes I don't.my friend likes him.But I don't know if he likes me or not.I don't know if he looks at me,but sometimes it seems like he does.it's looks confusing.HELP!!!
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Its really hard to tell if someone likes you because sometimes, as you said, you don't know if they are kidding or telling the truth..
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Tell your friend to ask him if he likes you if the answer is yes smile and laugh (even though nothing is really funny) also be hot and natural (you can do that right?)
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You should go up to him and ask him what he likes in a girl and see if theres enough of those things in you. If not, just ask him who he likes and see what he says. If he just falls for hot girls and the girls have bossy attitudes, forget him and move on to someone else
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Anonymous answered
Ask him.
Each male is different; and so there can't be any FOR SURE signs.
Ask him.
The worst that can happen is he'll say no.
And honestly; that doesn't leave you any worse off; at least then you know.
And if he says yes, then imagine what an amazing thing that could be.
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Well I have a crush on this boy sense 6th grade and now were in 7th grade he always stares at me a lot but we never talk today I was in gym and him and his friends were falling me and calling my name  and every time I walked father he would come close
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I really like this boy, I'm in the 8th grade. He like ignores me in one of my classes and then talks to me in one class that I have every other day. He stares at me a lot and try to help me out a lot. I don't know I think he likes me but he has a girlfriend who doesnt go to the same school.. But anyway the problem is 8th grade is over in 2 weeks and he is going to another high school but we talk a lot online. What should I do.???
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It all started in  6th grade had a crush on this boy he stared staring at me  but  we never talked  but when I would walk in the hall ways he would bump in to me with his shoulder  I would try to talk but couldn't  then when we got to 7th grade he would stare at me everyday and then he started going out with this girl then in 2 weeks they broke up then when he was going out with her he would stare at me for 1 minute then almost at the end of the year on of his friends called my name and he was there with them
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I guess its good because theres 1 guys who I like nd I think tat he likes me too so I guess I need me nd tat boi to go out
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I feel so bad for you. You should tell him how you feel and see if he still likes you then ask him out (if he still likes you)
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Hi! I have this guy friend we are in college and I have the feeling that he likes me. Well I find that he always stare at me, text me and go out with me, one time I have to go somewhere and I don't know how to go to that place he represent himself to go out with me, then he and his friends have beer sessions that day then he was asked to go with them but he didn't go because he said he will be meeting with me, so I was shocked because of that, he bought me a food, the other month. And I was so confuse right now because I don't know if he likes me or not, or he is doing that because he is my friend or what. HELP I don't want to fall to guy again just by these signs, that I read.
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nettie answered
In the 6th grade that should be the last thing on your mind, you should be trying to make the school books grow on you and you take a liking to them and don't worry about a boy liking you, like yourself, just think if you have to drop out of school in the 6th grade what kind of life would you have...think school and the best to you
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Well I am wondering if this kid in my class likes me. I Am in grade four. I asked his friend and he said ''I think, he didn't tell me though''. I heard he does his ''cool tricks'' in front of the girl he likes. And he DID. And he hugged me in daycare. DOES HE LIKE ME that's the question
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I think this boy I have a crush on likes me. He looks at me a lot,though we never really talk much. Of course I liked him since 4th grade and now we're in 6th. He's always flirting around with this girl named Fay every time I see him. Once I saw her hit him and he bent over,then he looked up at me like "see,you're not the only one who hits me."(I hit him a lot too,and sometimes he never says anything.) Now I'm about ready to kill that Fay girl.Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!1
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There is a boy in my class who keeps beinging by me l8er in the day aka he does anything I ask.
Don't anyone know what else today we had square dancing I was by him, he stared me in the face smiled, he is weird!!!!! Oh my god + he grabed my arm and said this is my girl SN!
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Just take it smooth and ax him out or if you don't want 2 thin just say I'm not in to you
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There really isn't a way to kno! Maybe ask him. Or if he is around you a lot and smiles and you a lot then maybe he does. Who knows!!
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I would like to know if this boy likes me or if hes just using me for the sexual side of things I'm not going out with him but I really do like him

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