I have a crush and I don't know if he likes me. How do I make him like me?


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Honestly you can never make someone like you. No one has complete control over another person's brain that forces them to like particular people. It doesn't work that way. However, you can try to make yourself seem more appealing to this guy and hoping that he will like you.

So what are some things that you should do? Well first off try talking to this guy and getting to know him. Try to find the things that you have in common and talk about those things (but in moderation of course, don't talk about them all the time). And if there are some things that you guys don't have in common, try asking him more about those things as if you are interested in them. It'll show that you are open to new things and that you are interested in getting to know him.

Second of all, try flirting with him. Flirting is different for every person but it general involves teasing, some playful banter, and possible (but not necessary) physical contact of some sort. Everyone does this differently so I can't give tell you exactly how I flirt because my style of flirting may not be suitable for you. This is something that you'll have to figure out mostly on your own. Don't worry about figuring this out on your own because everyone had to do it at some point so I'm sure you can too! However, there are tips online that you look up but keep in mind that these are just tips and suggestions, not the exact "how-to's".

Lastly, whatever you do, don't change who you are just for this guy. Yes, it may make it easier for him to like you, but if he does end up liking you, he wouldn't like you for who you really are and that wouldn't be worth it. What I mean doing something to change yourself, I mean completely changing your interests, your taste/preference for certain things, and/or the type of person you are (cheerful, mellow, bubbly, etc.) in order to impress someone. This is something that you should avoid doing. However, changing some bad habits or occasional weird behavior is nothing wrong and is in fact part of growing up, so if you decide to change some of those things then it's okay because you're not morphing your core personality.

Anyway, I hope these help! And if things don't work out, then hey, it's not your fault! There was nothing more you could've done and it just wasn't meant to be. But if he does end up liking you, then that's awesome! I wish you good luck! :)

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