How can you get a boy to like you in 4th grade?

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I like this boy and I am really scared and I'm also in the fourth grade. Here's an idea. Maybe play with him at recess and become his friend. Then ask if you can go over and do homework with him. Then in like a month you can ask your best friend to ask his best friend if he likes you and if they say no, don't cry. Try looking hot and showing your best side to him. But one of the best ways to get a guy to like you -be yourself!- if he really likes you, he likes you for who your are, not who your trying to be! Maybe try a few weeks later after looking hot with him and if he says he doesn't like you, tell him you like him, then walk away. Give him a couple of days to think about it. He would like you after about 2-4 weeks after you tell him and leaving him alone.
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I like a boy named devonte so does my friend what do we do
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I like a boy named devonte so does my friend what do we do
Theodore Putnam
Theodore Putnam commented
I'm in high school and had the same predicament as you. (Asker)Im a boy btw. My crush made me like her by smiling at me every once and a while, laughing at my jokes, etc. Now we are good friends. If you have any other questions, anybody, then email them to me at [email protected], i will answer them happily. Best of luck everybody.
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Nhi Hong answered
I really like this guy in fourth grade. And he actually got me in trouble for that. How? Because I gave him love notes and he showed it to his mom. Then his mom called the conference teacher. I was really embarrassed when the conference teacher called my teacher in the middle of class!! I had to talk to that teacher for like at least 30 mins! Then I was back to class. Everybody was giggling and laughing at me! So if you're trying to get a boy to like you, don't ever write a love note. That might be evidence to prove that you like him! He could use those notes to embarrass you! Don't end up like me...
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Well, what I would do is stand up to her, if that doesn't work, then try to tell him they are lies. Sorry if my advice does not help
Asia Bethea
Asia Bethea commented
I agree if telling him than you just have to tell him lies about her.
Asia Bethea
Asia Bethea commented
I'm also in fourth grade
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Jack Coleman answered
I'm a fourth grade boy & I think I could help you girls.first don't play hardtoget in fourth grade because he will give up and find another girl. Hang out with him a lot but not too much of he will think you r annoying. When you ask him and if he says yes hug him and on no don't cry because he will say yes and not like you for who you are
Ps I need some ones advice.

Hope this helped
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Anonymous answered
Well first you want to be hard to get
flirt with him sometimes
play games at recess with him
sit by him
laugh at his jokes
support him
talk to him
just don't hang around a lot or he will think your annoying
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Keke Mortana answered
I'm in fourth grade I like this boy, And I like him so much and I think he likes me and I asked him does he like me,He said he does and I asked him does he want to go out,he said yes,And now were going out here what you do                 1)Hang out with him a lot.   2)after a week or so ask him does he like you if not leave him alone 3)If he does like you,Ask him does he want to go out and if yes,Hug him) And thats how I got my First boyfriend follow these directions BYE!
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:1sit behind him9 or stand that doesnt't matter at al,l)  and listen and see what he talks about and if he plays sports watch him play at school.
:2 when his friends aren't around (it doesnt"t matter if they are)ask  him whats up and and start a connversation see whhat you have in common you see anything in common say  really me too  or nut uh really or  really me too. That works
:3 always  dress fashionable that attracs boys  you'll be walking down the hall and  boys will like you a lot but don't brag a bout it peeps will think your a snob.  
;4 last but not least  be your self not sombody else.
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chelsie cruz answered
Well I'm in 5 grade (this is the owners sister :) ) and I went through this last year I really liked a guy he was a little shorter than be but super cute so one day I got my first cell phone and I saw him with his he must of liked me to because he walked up to me and said can I have your number then we started texting and stuff so if you have a phone and he don't ask you for your number take a chance and ask him it really helps then to get his attention play with him a recess that how I got him we would play on my school swings and stuff he would push me and he strted to emotinal for me than also become friends with him and his friends his friends with tell you almost everything you want to know Stanley's friend is named Jerry I knew him and I would be like you think he likes me and he would find out for me so thats my mini lesson in dating someone in 4 grade and btw HE IS MY BOYFRIEND NOW IN 5 GRADE yay so if you follow these rules he will become yours in no time he become my boyfriend at the end of 4 grade and now in the hallway he hugs me and I had my first kiss with him he plays guitar and he sings to me everyday. My Mom lets me go to his house so it's super cool.
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You can't really 'get' a guy to like you, because even how hard you try he still might not have feelings for you. But anyways, here are some tips:
1. Be friendly - make it seem like you have a bubbly personality, and you are funny.
2. Get him to notice you - Make it seem like you aren't a ghost, and have a nice conversation with him. Try not to embarrass yourself. Also, when he makes a joke, laugh at it and then smile at him. Have interactions with him, and make jokes yourself.
3. Cute clothes - Always pick cute outfits to wear, so you don't look like a fool. Maybe sometimes you can curl your hair, or wear a lot of jewelry. Ask for a trip to the mall, if you can, because the stores there often ending up worth it. (If you live close to a Justice store, go there)
4. Once he knows you.. - once you get the impression he knows you, and will be fine with talking to you and asking questions, it's time to really show that you like him. You are a friend of his, and maybe showing a bit more affection will get him into to thinking you can get into something a bit more serious than a friendship. When he walks by, say Hi and smile at him. If he smiles back, you have a chance. If he walks by without saying anything back, no luck.
5. No going SUPER serious - yeah, he probably likes you now, and yeah, kissing seems ideal. But in 4th grade, it too early. You need at least 1 more year before you go super serious like that.
6. The thing about 'going out' - TOO EARLY! 4th Grade is not the time.
Some of this might seem a bit like a bunch of crap, but it's what I heard from others on the internet.
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I like this guy in 4th grade and he cute and everything but I'm scared toa sk him it might hurt our friendship how would I ask a guy out oh and a small tip DO NOT act popular around him/her  people might start rum-rs about you
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Just be your-self

Ask him if you are his friend a true love will never lie. If he says no or even yes sit by him whenever you can, be nice to him, don't always agree to his argument because maybe he will like you and then when your together he might start up things you disagree with thinking you will be on his side and that can end the relationship.

Show your true self play with him at phys.ed or something ---.

Don't flirt with another boy, you can talk to other boys if he gets angry he is not your true love, because he should be able to understand that he is not the only boy in the world you have to talk to.

Talk to him try to give him a hint that you like him not any boy else.
Be clean, don't start wearing super mini skirts to school for his attention because that will bring other boys to you.
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Always be your self. Become friends with him and stay like that for a couple of weeks try to be fun/flirty at the same time, you could probably like do those little playful arm hits or playfully tease him it works all the time but if it don't work for you girl you better step aside and let him be cause if he's not smart enough to relise how cute and funny you are that's his loss.but if you really want to impress him ask him what he likes in a girl and if he asks why just say that a special someone wanted to ask him out and then in the next couple of days do whatever he said he likes in a girl and there you go YOU'LL PROBABLY in the 4TH GRADE! Ohhhhhhh!! I just love it when young love happens!! Good luck and so long!
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Anonymous answered
1. Have a little talk with him
2. Tell him how you fell
3. Go to a secret place and ask him
4. If he says no don't cry because he will fell bad and say yes and he really won't like like you.
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Ashley sheppard answered
I really like this guy in grade for I tryed to hang out with him but we didi rough play and I got to lift him up and I kissed his leg and he didnt notice I lifted him up because he wanted to get on a really high swing I pushed him high and he fell off I felt so bad I thout he was never going to like me any more I said are youokay like a million times and than he said I love you an he kissed me I bursted with happyness so one way is to act like you love him and try to hang out with him and do what he likes to do and try to like what he does talk and see what you have in common I love him
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Well,first you ask the guy you like if he likes any body in his class.Then if he says no,name every girl in your class [including you]. If he likes somebody else, say,'Well,how do you fell about me.' See what he says and then tell your fel lings to him and he will tell his fell lings to you.Give him your house phone number and say,'call me when you get home.'  And do not forget the most inportant 3 rules,  MAKE SURE THERE ARE NO FRIENDS AROUND YALL,TALK PRIVETLY,AND MOST OF ALL...TALK AT RECESS!
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So, cupid has struck and you have fallen head over heels for a guy. But how can you tell if he likes you? He hasn't asked you out yet, so surely he isn’t interested, right? Think again! Sometimes the signs are much less obvious, but can be deciphered if you pay close attention to his actions.

Look for the Signs
The way a guy acts around you can be very telling about the way he actually feels about you. He may act in quite a boisterous way around you, showing off and trying to make you laugh, or he may become coy and nervous when you're with him. If you are in a group and he seems to pay more attention to you than the others, and seems more focused on what you say, then it is probably because he finds you interesting and attractive. Guys tend to become very interested in what you have to say if they like you, often asking you what you have been doing. They also tend to remember little things you have told them in the past.

Another sign is his body language towards you. He will want to be near you, and may even find excuses to touch you and make a lot of eye contact with you. You might notice him staring at you when he thinks you can't see him and will probably look away in embarrassment if you catch his eye. There may also be occasions when the two of you will have lingering eye contact; this is also a sure-fire way of telling how he feels.

If a guy likes you then you might find him making a special effort to get on with your friends or family. Everyone wants their friends to like their partner, so he will want to get on their good side. This is also a good way of getting closer to you. Equally, the way that his friends act around you can give off important signals. Do you walk into a room and notice his group suddenly goes quiet? It’s probably because they are talking about you or are teasing him about how he feels about you.

Not Everyone is the Same
If all or most of these signs are sounding all too familiar, then it’s highly likely that this guy likes you. It’s worth bearing in mind however that not all men are the same. How one person acts when he is interested could be completely different from how another person acts. Remember that the best way to find out if a guy likes you is simply to ask him. If you know for certain that he likes you, then it’s time to pluck up the courage and ask him out for yourself, or at the very least make it obvious to him that you also like him.

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I really like this guy. I say I hate him, but I always think of him. I am so shy so how can I talk to him and get him to like me? I also have advice- Be yourself. When you can get to know him, start to hang out together. Also, be nice to him and his friends. After he knows you and starts to like you, try to tell him how you feel or get a friend to tell him. Pleez help and hope this helps!
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Drummergal answered
His body language , the way he acts when your around , if he looks down at the ground when you smile at each other , if he shows off in front of you and there so much more

I hope this helps you

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bonnie marie answered
-when you glance at him you catch him looking at you
-he will laugh at no matter what you have to say even though it is stupid
-he is trying to impress you when he sees you looking at you (during a sport)
-he will try to talk to you when you are alone
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First you ask them if they like you if you shy get someone you can trust like your best friend to ask them and if they do ask that person that you trust to ask him to go out with you! :-D I'm in 4th grade too!
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Stefanie Gibson answered
I really don't know! I'm in the fourth grade, though, an dI have my eyes on a boy I like. Sometimes, I will sit by him at lunch, give him like a chip if he wants one, and crack jokes about stuff he likes. I also take his side in arguments. THe only problem is that I don't know if he's interested. But, you have to remember to keep it cool, and not to embarrass yourself in front of him.
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Taylor Tate commented
I like a guy but I don't know if he likes me back. He knows I like him but he likes my bff and I don't know if she likes him too. I need to know hoe to get him to like me and quick be for she decides if she likes him.
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Just be yourself or else you will end up with someone who likes you but also doesn't because he doesn't know what you are really like. Seriously though, you do NOT have to worry about this because you got a little while to go. This is how you tell he doesn't like you, you will tell him something and he's not even looking at you? Or when you ask him a question, he doesn't answer, then later he might ask you the same question. He might act mean if he likes you. But most importantly, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!!!!! By the way, I am in 4th grade, too.
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There is a boy in my class I like. I know he likes me because his mum told my mum and she told me. Nearly everyone knows I like this boy. But sometimes he is mean to me. I know that if you want a boy to like you you have to:
1. Hang around with him ALL the time.
2. Make your mum like his mum so you can find things out.
3. Make him cards for special occasions DEFINETELY VALENTINE!!
4. If he starts to like you try to give him a little kiss.
5. If you did everything correctly he will fall in love with you!
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Anonymous answered
Stay with your friends but don't tell them you like him or they might tell him.And if your his best friend don't say anything about you liking him.Good luck and be safe!
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Olivia Pots answered
Be yourself. Be funny. Be his friend. Once he gets to know you, and your really good friends, tell him how you feel. Don't be shy like me. Walk up to him and say, "Hey, can I tell you something?" Then after that tell him how you really feels. Also, try to look cute, or cool. If he hangs out with popular kids, then I would say to dress cool. If he hangs out with just normal friends, I would dress cute.
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Just ask the boy if he likes you and if he says yes then hug him and you can buy sweets for him and help him. If he says no then just say your right and get a new boyfriend
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1. Start having fun with him and play with him closer
2. Be nice to him and he will be nice to you
3. Sit with him at lunch and he will like you
4. Say to him and say i like you then hug him. Its no problem to hug him because you already said i like you
5. Invite him and have a date sometimes
6. At last kiss him in the last day of the school
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Anonymous answered
I like a boy in fourth grade but I don't know if he likes me I mean he looks at me some times,and stares at my pictures and he askes about me sometimes I hope he does like me because I really likes me.

                                        P.s
                        I need some ones idvice. Please help
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Anonymous answered
I think every guy is different some people have different ways of showing their affection. Some guys may want to get your attention by throwing something at you or showing off, some may not tell their friends, some may always want to be around you by following you and best of all some might tell you that they like you
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Jallo Melle answered
You should hang out with him for a little while
and after a while tell him exactly how you fell.
Then if he says no DON'T CRY!!!!! He'll feel bad
and say yes and not like you for you!! But,if he
says yes your relation ship begins there and then
you lead the way to your life!
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I'm also in 4th grade and I have a boyfriend. Here are my directionss:
1. Get talking to him about himsellf then tell him about you.
2. Sit across from him at lunch
3. Do these for a month or so
4. Tell him you like him or ask him out
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Please help me. I have a friend Garrett and weve been friends for 3 years his brother dumped me and peapole keep saying we should go out but PLEASE give me some advice cause im a reack
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I really like this boy in my class but I don't no if he likes me back.some peeps say that he likes one of my friends witch he did, but I don't know if he still does. He knows that I like him. My whole class knows.he hangs arond me and he makes me laugh. I usually give him chips if he wants some but I act like I don't want to. I hang with him at lunch and try to get his attention.
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If you know that guy for a pretty long time you should notice he's acting different. Like he looks at you more often, maybe tries to make eye contact. If he looks into your eyes he truly likes you and if to your body then he's just checking you out. That could mean nothing, many guys compares girls.
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The way I get a boy to like me is that I act all sweet, funny, and stuff. It worked because I already have a boyfriend and he is CUTE! And his parents are really nice but his older brother is mean and he says all the time when I'm playing, "Hey wheres your girlfriends?" But I don't care.

    And thats how I got a boy to like me.
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I like this guy and I don't know if he likes me back he smiles at me a lot but I just want to be myself in front of him in 3 grade he played with me a lot but not anymore in 4 grade he is still smiling
at me but my friend ask him if he likes me and he said no but I and my friend thought he was nervous to say
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Charlie Kerr answered
The best way to impress is to show him you like him.What guy doesn't want to hear that  a girl likes 'em?Tell your friends to nock it off. If they know you like him, and if they are your friends, they will.And be kind to him. Show him you care, and maybe go to a game with him to break the ice.
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Act like a tom boy in front of him girl! Thats what they fall. Thats how I got my guy today!
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Lucy Harsy answered
Hi I am in 4th grade just like you guys, I like this guy named Noah in my class. He seems to always smile at me. Today he asked me to work on comprehension questions together. I said yes, but I always don't know what to say. He didn't smile at me in 3rd grade last year. We like the same things. Only one problem, he has a GIRLFRIEND. Her name is Marissa she is very ugly she is cross eyed and wears glasses. Her voice is so stupid. Sometimes I tell Noah, your girlfriend isn't that pretty and he just says shut up. I am going to ask my friend to ask his best friend if he likes me. If he says yes and my friend tells me he does I will go outside after school and do chalk and say I know you like me and if he denies I will say admit it. Wish me luck!!!
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Well if you take my advice I would wake up get ready for school and look really pretty and then at recces or somethin go straight to him and say I like you but I don't know if you like me but if you don't like me I'm ok with that and if you wana be friends ill like that and then just walk away and then he might have feelings for you because last time I waited for a long time so what I did I said I like you but if don't like me I'm ok with that and if you don't we can be friends if you want to and then I walked.
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Well I like a boy in my class  but I don"t now if he likes me  he carrys my stuff he offers me  all the boy in my art class 1 ask me to kiss him  and all the other classes just be hot let him look in your EYES
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You ask him don't just stand there waiting for the rest of your life take a chance and if he says yes don't just think you got it all take it slow date for 2 months, and you know just go slow.
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Olivia Karl answered
In 4th grade, no offense to anyone here, but you don't have the true feeling of "love" yet, it's to early. You can like a person, and you could like them a lot, but it's not necessarily love. I'm in 9th grade, and I've had a girlfriend for a little over a year. You don't develop a true concept of love until later in your life, and I believe that even at my age it is way to early to love someone, here is the thing; the goal of having someone as your boyfriend or girlfriend is to eventually marry them, right? So when you start so long, do you really think you will last out until your early twenties at least to marry them? Wouldn't you rather have experience with other people instead? Choose carefully because you only have one shot in life, and once it's used your done. Scientifically, your brains are not developed enough to comprehend love. Don't wrap yourself up in love at your age, what people do on TV is very different than real life.    I'm logged in on my sister's account, this is not hers
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Oh my god!...I mean I am a fourth grade girl and I think ill just take wiki hows advice. And for that girl who said that she played around with their tounges a little bit...I mean seriously I don't know about you but your a little pervert. And your going to end up with bad reputation little girl. Heres my advice for you break up with all the little whores your dating and try getting a guy who llikes you for you instead of making out with the next boy who walks in the room. Also try bumping past him alittle and say your sorry then smile and walk away. Then gain a serious relationship (I mean as BEST FRIENDS) Be ckean and put on a good influence on people around you so he knows your not the one to get him introuble. And seriously don't have sex at the age of 9,10,and 11. NOT EVEN UNTIL YOUR ATLEAST 20!
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I'm in 4th grade and I like this boy in 4th grade n I want to tell him I like him but how if I tell him to talk in private then he will know what I want to talk about. I'm afraid to ask him because he looks like the kind of boy that will tell everyone but he is so CUTE he has blond hair and light blue eyes back to the point, how do I ask him? I want to know if he likes someone eles and if he does what if its not me? HELP
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Well anonymous girl you should find out who he likes first.Then when you found out who he likes just try to overpower her. Like try to be more better than her. If that doesn't work find another crush.It's not worth it for you to have a crush that your crush doesn't like you when you tried your best. Its ok to give up.
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I like this boy Noah a lot a lot a lot he is so cute any ways,when we talk he stares at me but only if were talking.My friend Corey(hes a boy do not like him just friends k) gave me advice about how to get him to like me he doesnot know and I told him stuff like how he stares at me and he said hes just being friendly well I don't think so I need help how do I get him to like me!!!!:(
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Just follow him for a long time when he get a little mad of that then stop following him. Then he will notice that he cant live with out u
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Taeyana Thomas commented
I think he do like if he stare at you that mean love is happening he may not say he like you he just shy that you must not love u say u love him
Jack Coleman
Jack Coleman commented
Break the secret in 6th or 7th grade
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Anonymous answered
Just ask him if he can be your girlfriend and if he says no then try to be respectful to him and if he says yes then hug him. Its not a hard thing to do because I did it in 4th grade easily.
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Wow good but you see the boy i like is really not in to me well kind of he dose talk to me and he said to me you are hot dose he like me or saying that to mack me feel better
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
My life is different that's not how is works around here. LOL!
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Anonymous commented
That would be so embarressing if he actually said no to me, he would know I liked him but he wouldn't like me so he'd think I'm still crushing on him and he can tell anyone. After someone saying no, and then you hug him, that makes him think,"ewwww!" I would know...
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Becca answered
You're 10 & in 4th grade.....don't worry about it. Not like you can go out on a date w/o asking your parents & kissing & sex, etc. Is all stuff that shouldnt be rushed. Be a kid, enjoy it, don't rush yourself. Who cares if boys like you? You shouldnt
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Rachel answered
Seriously are you people giving your first and last names and what freaking schools you go 2!!!!!  There are a lot of bad people out here on the internet that want to hurt little 4th graders....please don't give out personal information...it doesn't take much for someone to find you or the little boys you like!!
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maya saccardi commented
Im not that innocent i have anger issues
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Anonymous commented
What r yu talking about i ask a boyy can he go out with me and then she said hell yea so then be4 we went out he was keep hitting me on my butt
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kekie answered
Its all about how he acts around you.  if he acts kinda shy he probably likes you.  don't take it to far and say like you know I kinda like you wait until you know for sure
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I'm in 4th grade at southwest elementary in waterford CT. I like this boy named trevor but I know he doesn't like me. My friend last year said he was talking about me saying I was cute but I didn't believe her. Then the next day Trevor's friend said he liked me but I kept saying he didn't. Now his friend is at a different school. What should I do now?
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Lil' KK commented
O_O :D all the bad people out there can kome to yo school an et yall!!! Don b complainin to me bout' it
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Anonymous answered
I like a boy in my class we been together in the same class since kindergarten. I know he likes me  and I know he likes this other blond girl in. I  remember in  kindergarten  he always wanted a hug from me.
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I don't know but I have this big crush on a football player from warren in gurnee he doesn't know I'm Like in  love with him but I guss become friends cause I'm great friends with him and at school I never talk to him but we text from night till dawn and so my advise is text or try to talk
at school if your like me silent at school maybe shy at school and so just become bff's like me and His name  here but Yeah you should date in 4th grade I want to so yeah hope to live and not to embarrass your self
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Anonymous answered
I need help I really like this boy at camp he is so hat and shy and funny all the thing I like in a boy and he shows some sins that he likes me but not all what dose that mean? And he likes one of my friends but he told me so dose that mean he really trusts me has a friend or something else?
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You know I like a  guy named daniel I liked him since 3rd grade but I can't date till fifth and I in 4th so I am just trying to find out if  he likes  me plz let me know  if you know how to know if he likes you I:
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Anonymous answered
Well...I like this guy but I'm not in the same class as him so how do I sit next to him? How do I play with him wen he plays boy stuff? How do I be friends with him? We started talkin at a disco   witch was fun and he made me laugh and my friend said "get away from me" and then he pretended to punch her and does that mean he likes her? Cause she is pretty and we act like immature people. What does she have that I don't??
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beatrice flake answered
One thing is to be yourself don't act like you just came out of nowere. But don't go up to him and talk at school hours go talk to him at recess or lunch make sure to be yourself right back to me thank you for taking time of to listen to me
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If you like a boy well if you ride the bus when you first get put some make up on ask your friends to cver you so you can put on something cute and then when you get to school look at him with a flirty face and then when one of your friends what r you lookin at say nothing then turn your head now when school is almost over put on back your other clothes
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Anonymous answered
I'm a boy what atracts me is being yourself and don't act all cycopathic... Just be yourself and wear some good clothing. At recces behind a tree ask them to the movies or whatever.don't be all freind crazy trust me ive had a girlfriend and I'm in fourth grade and live in austin tx
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Jane West answered
I'm in Sixth Grade and I had a crush on a guy a year ago and became like Best Friends we started dating then we broke up so just try to become friends and remember your only in Fourth Grade! Don't try to make it serious or it will probably end up HORRIBLE. Try dating in middle school :] cuter guys!
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I liked a boy in my school he was the same age I liked him for years my friend told me he liked me. I didn't believe her. I was freaked out! Besides I liked him and I didn't want things to change. We always got along great. Other days he came to talk to me.(remember pressure isn't fun) I asked him if he liked me and he said yes! I was in school so I didn't hug him but still stay cool!

. Don't flirt I bothers them

. Wait for him to be your good friend

. Don't just think about how cute he is, think about why you like him.

You don't need to dress up they like the way you are

You don't want them to get the wrong impression!

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Only if your in 2d grade or younger love can't help you. But that doesn't mean you have to wait years, just be his friend, best friend, Bffl, and when the moment rises you try hard just get closer bu not to close. You might spill it and he hates u. DON'T go over board or tell anyone, they might spoil it for you.

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Well to find out if a boy likes you, then you look in his pupils and if it expands 45 degrees or more, that means he likes you.

Nikki Ridgerider Profile

This is so cute! 4th grade puppy dog love! No, it's not puppy dog love. It's "real" love, I'm sure of it! Just try talking to him! Become friends with him. Give him some food. I know I looooove food. All teenagers do...but I guess that would be more helpful for middle school wouldn't it? But food is a girls worst enemy...but love. Anyway, don't pay no atternton to that. XD And dat spellin' mitake. An' dat one.

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danielle johnson , ., answered

i like this boy Alex Coulter.

He is funny and sweet. He is from Guatemala, we are both from an Indian tribe.

We're on different tribes though, I can only tell you this for now: 

Be yourself, don't mind gettin your outfit a lil dirty, hang with him some, ask a well trusted friend to find out if he likes you. If he does, get you friends to tell him how you feel if you're too shy - or you can do it yourself (optional).

Next, invite him over if your parents know him, do your homwork and the discuss fun things

Good luck!

your friend,Danielle Johnson

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i think you guys should just chill it will all be okay be yourself if that does not work and you wear school uniforms look cute in them add a little dazzle to it if you wear regular clothes...

Look cute in them I hope it helps if not then the boy is just being stubborn and he really likes you sometimes boys need help asking girls out...

Just hang on mr right is out there ladies and that does not wait too long for him or else you will see yourself alone and you will die alone and that is not how anyone wants to die so we all get nervous about a crush and are scared to ask them out. 

And then they reject you that is very very embarrassing you ask someone out and they say no and you're like really. 

I just asked you out and you say no to embarrass me and you get mad especially if your friends are behind you being nosey and waiting for you to turn around and tell them yay he said yes you guys and them when he say no you turn around all sad looking and they're like "well... WHAT DID HE SAY??" all at the same time and you say he said "no okay I don't want to talk about anymore". 

Or if you have those friends that stand up for you and they go over there and jack him up from his feet to his new shirt that his momma bought him and then you just stare until they come over and tell you that he has something to say to you and they push him and tell him SAY IT! 

And he says "I'm sorry and can we go out" and then you say sure and he says can you let me go now to your friends and they drop him back to his feet more like his bottom because they had him jacked up so long he forgot what touching the ground felt like and you laugh with your friends and ask them.What did they tell him and they tell you and he already running and scared half to death!!

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Im having the same problem. I think he hates me, actually. Be yourself, but not crazy. Dont get into the girl drama. Ignore other mean boys making fun of you.

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Faith The Artist , , answered

Well, I'm that kind of girl who can make almost all the boys in her grade fall in love without even trying.

Oddly, I didn't know that I was following these steps that everyone has posted here. So, I suggest listening to those steps!

Just hope you're not like me. Today a boy's mother started saying how much the boy loves having girlfriends, and he's in love with me... In front of another boy who liked me... It is awkward. :l

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Asia Bethea answered

I'm in fourth grade and I like this boy named Evan and he loves to play hard to get so I started to play hardtoget with him and thats how we became bf and gf. Maybe you should try that.

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Kylie Connor answered

Go Up to the boy and start talking. If he is shy then try to make him laugh sit with him at lunch. 

Be careful not to say anything to upset him. After a month you might be a couple (a bit too young) but you guys might be comfortable to KISS! (again a bit too young).

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I am telling you it is hard but I will tell you my secret to get a boy to like you be a little bit mean to him I did it I ended up with 4 boy friends
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I'm in fourth grade and I want this guy named ... To kiss me and try to get him to ask me to the valentines dance.I'm going to create the ultamite look and look hot beside him.ps I can't say his name.
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I like this guy and I told him. He said he was glad because I'm a good friend and really nice. I invited him over once he said he had more fun than my friend's house when he went over her house. He doesn't have a   crush on me or like like me. What shall I do?
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tina harris answered
Most guys well some of them will just come right out and tell you.they like you.these are the kinds of of guys I like..thats the kind of guy for me.. Just say hay I like you.  All this beating around makes me nerves..hehehe. But I do understand how it is..   Take care.
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sheila jones answered
Awww..baby..your on the wrong path..YOUR MIND SHOULD'NT be on impressing a boy..impress yourself by getting good grades and making your parents proud!!Later in life you will learn..THE GUYS SHOULD TRY TO IMPRESS YOU!!! YOU ARE AND WILL BE WORTH IT..MAKE a lot OF FRIENDS AND JUST ENJOY BEING YOUNG..GOODLUCK with the choices you make in life:-)
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Aly Prata answered
I really need help. I like this boy , and so does my best friend. I don't know if I should tell the boy I like him or my friend I like him. He is soo cute! Plz help!! :'( he always looks at me and smiles, he dosnt talk to me much. He jokes all the time 2 me. Do you think we r good for eachother?
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Get interested in his things he likes. And don't push it, he will hopefully like you. Get his cell and start telling him about your phone and then he'll give you his phone and before you know it he will like you in fourth grade
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I am in 4th grade and what if I want one I'm not going to kiss I just  want a boy to like me
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Well you first need to find out his type and then you find out what kind of stuff he is into and then you start to laugh when he does something funny.
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Well I don't like a boy but I just need advice just incase I have a cruch in fith grade.
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Well I am only 1o years old and I like this guy his name is reece he is the weirdest kid in the grade and I am the weirdest girl.because I act like a boy  like I wear boy every thing like a boy even my hats .so here is some advise .first, talk 2 him and be your self .next, just hang out with him because that is what I done and he asked me out  and I told him I  will think about and on the last day of school I said yes and I actully  stole his pencil from his desk in science .well I like him a lot so if you have boy problems then be your self and don't get annoying .well don't rush etheir well I like him a lot but the bad  thing is .tyhat I don't het to see him tll next year.
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Isabella answered
Here  are a few things to see if your relationship is working to go along with my comment:
Does he ever call you?
Does he laugh at your jokes?
Does he support you?
And if he asks you out and you still love him say yes and ask him if he likes you for who you are. P.S. I'm in forth grade and we were talking about crushes in school and one of his friend said that the one boy I like likes me back a little or possibly A LOT!!!!
                      Also I think you are to young for dating though....;) wait until 6th grade

                               Good Luck my Friends!
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Well you see you do not tell him mack it like you like him so look at him when he says somthing to you mack it a long talk and then he will said do you like me and you say well a little bit can I play with you today hope he will say yes and then in 2-6 weeks say to he I hope you will say yes but can you go out with me? Good luck
 
you see I like this boy in my class called well I go to our lady of the nativity o.l.n in year4 and I really like him and I am goig to do it well I have and hev is my boyfriend
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Well,I'm in fourth grade too.
I like this guy named John. I don't know if he likes me.I read some of these tips but I'm scared to do some of them. I will just google search how to empress a guy. Sorry for no tips.
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My name is annmarie and I like this boy name jacob he likes me I lie him when I look at him his face turns red
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Wow! I really like this guy thats in sixth grade and I asked him out on GMAIL!!!! He hasn't replied yet! Thank goodness! I'm 2 years younger LOL! ♥
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I'm a 5th grader and I really like this guy named Isaac. I walked up to him and said Give Me a Kiss in spanish (Dame un Beso) and then walked away. He really hot,  and I keep wearing my hair different ways to see if he will notice.
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                         I got to Neptune beach elemetary like this kid name michael baskin I have no clue if he likes me back so I told my friend to tell him because she is in his class and I told her to get his cell phonenumber and sure enough I got    
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How tooooo get a boy too like you inn the 4th grade iss to be yourself  and ummmm say things about sports or about how your teacher iss a gives out tooo much homework!!!!!! I have done this befor and itt worked heee asked mee iff ii wanted too goo out with him soo I said yes!!!
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I am in thew fourth grade and I like this boy named justin edwards and to make him like me I touched his arm played with him at his house and told him how I felt
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I think this boy is funny and cute but he likes my anime and yes he told me his name is henning  he's in my class.
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Hey, I'm Marta and I'm in love with this guy but my friends hate him. Help? They hate him but one of them has a crush too I don't  know what to do!
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Ask ur friend if there cool with it and the one that likes him 2 and if shes not have a contest ask him who u like better
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I like this guy in 4ht grade but he hates me I say I don't like him when his friends tease us but I do how can I get him to like me
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Just be yourself if he still dosent like you just play with him he will soon like you
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I like this boy named waner and in 1st he like me but now his a more funny and a other girl like ps my best bud .so in 3rd I stared to kiss him he is touching me
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I like a boy (he is so hot) but I don't know if he like's me I mean he stares at my pictures and he askes about me sometimes but I'm not quiet shure he likes me.
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If you want a guy to like you probably just act like you notice him and stuff like always look at him and he'll think you like him and he's likely to like you back but if that doesnt work and he doesnt notice you, ask one of your friends to tell him that you like him, but you really shouldnt be dating at this young age
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Well I am in 4th grade and I like this boy named Colin Stanfield.I've liked him sense 2nd grade and he what you do you get him to notice you likes find out what sport he likes and give him a gift.I did that and now I am in 4th grade and he stares at me a lot and sits next to me at lunch
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I like a boy in six grade and I'm in 4 grade but when we had sinor disco I got a prize for being the best dancer and he siad to me I was cute I siad to him he was gay he siad I like you I said who told you I like you kylie (my best friend ) and he kissed me on the cheek my face went red
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My advice is just go up to him and tell him you like him and if he dosent like you back then find another guy cause mabey the universe dosent want you two together and mabey you don't have  a spark
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I'm in 4th grade I got my first kiss in 1st grade he said it was so dam awesome so in 2 grade in broke up with him but when I was talking to him he tride to have sex with me cause he toke me down and trid to lay on top of me but I puched him away and he kep calling me sexy every dam day so he that is the story
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We have to tell him that you love him and ask him out he might like you to and I think  he like you I don't know but you should try it and you will have a boyfriend.
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There's a boy named Jimmy, he's a lot older then me..... But I love him! I loved him since the 1TH GRADE! I think he likes me, but I play hard to get, and honestly; I think it Works! :D
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Emely Weng answered
Ok first of all , yes I'm in 4 th grade going into 5 th. Now I'm not calling anybody liars but, no one is officially your bf or gf untill you hit at least middle school or high school. Anyway, yes you might be saying "Who do you think you are?" Well yes, I'm still a kid but still, when your in 4th grade your still a kid.  Now after all that nonsense, I have a crush on a boy in my class. Some other kid once said "You two would make a great couple!" But I know he like someone elce. We ALWAYS hang out together. My point is, if you like someone and you know that they like someone elce but your really good friends, is there a possibility that he might like you later on? Please don't say anything offensive about me because of what I said, but that's what I had to say so.
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Yo I like this boy his name is devin he is very cute but I can't act in front of him
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I'm a 3rd grader, going to 4th in 2 months, and my problem is I'm not the cutest girl in my grade. I have never dated ANYONE and my friend get millions of guys. Anyways, I can't wear anything like him. We have school uniforms which really sucks because I can't do anything about the school policy. I am pretty cute, but my hair is unhealthy, has split ends, is usually tangled, in my face, and messy. I try brushing it but it never works, maybe for a while, but it won't stay. I can't get a haircut, because (duh) I can't drive to the salon! I am the funniest, smartest, nicest girl in my grade, but also one of my flaws: I'm still waiting for my ruler to go higher above my head. I'm very short, and am getting picked on...
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U know what dont mine them u stand up in my mind ur hair is cool. U wiil get a boy trust me.
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Look be yourself it doesn't matter what other people think. Be yourself, it feels good!
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1. You should follow him for a long time
2.when he get mad that you are following him
3.stop following him for a long time
4. Then he will notice that he can't live with out you
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I'm in 4th grade I had my first kiss in 3rd grade I  had so much fun it was like heaven we played with our tounges he said your so dam sexy so we kissed for a half hour now I do it everyday
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You kiss someone in 3th grade!!! Omg you must be the hottes boy/girl in the wolrd
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I want to kiss a guy so bad!the guy i like is sexy,funny,and cute.how did you get him to like u or r u lieing?
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I like this boy in my class named Alex I don't know if he even like me he don't have a girlfriend but he do got a girl all over him and she like this other guy to what do I do please help me I like him
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I don't know. I have a huge crush on this hot guy in my class and he hates me. I am sad.
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Well, I'm afraid to ask my best friend out, but hes really nice and I just don't know what to do
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I don't know I rlly want 2 know. I like this kid but it would be embarrassing 2 tell him that I like him
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I like this boy named Noah he is so cute everybody saids he likes me I love him   just .....
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I like thi guy in my fourth grade class but I don't know if he likes me back what should I do?!
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Arissa Mcgowan commented
flirt look good then he will so fall for you then tell your friend to ask him out for you tell your friend to force him
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flirt look good then he will so fall for you then tell your friend to ask him out for you tell your friend to force him
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I tried all of that and it didn't work. Theres a girl named rachel and she's just trying to compete with me to see who gets the boy by the way he's really hot
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Yall really? Yall r just lil kids! 4th graders don't need 2 be making out or really kissing at all! Much less having sex. I'm in the middle school. And let me give you some advice, wait a few years until you actually start "Going out" with anyone. When you are that young your focus should be on learning your multiplication and crap. Seriously chill.. You will get yourself a bad reputation and it will last all of your years. Believe me ive seen it happen 2 way to many people already. Keep your lil crushes and in a few years you can have your puppy love and actually start dating.
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You kid are wayyyyyyyyy to young to have a bf trust me you are! I in sixth grade and I don't even have a bf so calm down and stay kids trust me you won't want to be a grown up, just stay a kid as long as you can!
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Just go up to him and kiss him then run away

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