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Does Love Really Hurt Everyone?

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Fred Hamill Profile
Fred Hamill answered
Is it better to have loved and Lost?

Love is within the heart, the very core of your being. But not all love is romantic love - the one kind of love that can fade - therefore pain of the heart aches and tears can flow. True love, deeper than just romance, in a relationship ebbs and flows according to the days and experiences in the lives of those who love. True love will always find a way to bring healing to one another whether lovers, friends or family. The greatest pain that loss of love causes is the death of the one loved; yet, the truest love keeps the memory and the joy that love has brought to the one who loves.

Everybody hurts, sometimes


If we are not careful of using this feeling, we could get hurt. It should be applied and given to the right person and should be given not all at once, but piece by piece saving the major pieces for later. If it doesn't work, we will still have the major piece left for ourselves, enough to gather the lost strength in the process.

Healing
What I do, after a relationship is gone, I go to the video store and borrow the most true to life drama there is available that will make me cry until I'm dry. In the process, I could compare and realize that breaking up with that guy (especially if it his fault) is as tiny as a molecular problem compared to those people in the movie had been through. It will calm me down and forget about the break up and eventually speed up the healing process.
AISHA WAJID Profile
AISHA WAJID answered
Hi,

I think the person who loves you truely can never hurt you and also can never leave you. The person who has hurt you was not your true love, infact such person doe'nt deseve your love.Just forget him. When a person gets hurt in love He/she definately learns a lot from that and becomes more mature and careful. But Iam sure that you will sooooon get Someone really special and made only for you.

So just don't loose heart and also not feel bad.The one who has hurt you was never made for you.

Try to spent more time with your friends and family. Watch some good movies but I suggest not to watch tragedy love store because they will make you feel cry. So go for some ligt fun movie.Try not to be alone.

I hope you may get healed veryyyy soon my dear.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
The real love wont hurt. The love is a mutual thing, if you truly love someone, you will be loved in the same way. Unreciprocated love is not true love. True love always make you feel warm, happy, like the sun shining upon you. If someone hurts you, I think the person does not deserve your love, and you should forget it and find your true love. I know its hard, but you need to give yourself a new start!
karin bernal Profile
karin bernal answered
Yes, love has its pain. Some say it is bittersweet. You will experience the pain of love throughout life but you will also experience the great joy it bring you too. I love the saying from Kahlil Gibran - and unfortunately, I am going to have to paraphrase because I can't locate his book "The Prophet" at the moment:

If you choose only love's delights and joy
and choose not to suffer the pain
then you will laugh
but not all your laughter
and cry
but not all your tears
Hilaria Manalo Profile
Hilaria Manalo answered
Hi,
Yes, feeling of Love is wonderful gift from Lord, but it can hurt everyone and sometimes permanently hurt someone.

If we will not be careful of using this feeling, we could get hurt. It should be applied and given to the right person and should be given not all at once but pieces by pieces saving the major piece for later, so if it don't work we still have the major piece left for ourselves enough to gather the lost strenght in the process.

What I do, after a relationship is gone, I go to the vedeo store and borrow the most true to life drama there is available that will make me cry until I'm dry. In the process, I could compare and realize that breaking up with that guy (especially if his fault) is as tiny as a molecure problem than those people in the movie had been through. It will calm me down and forget about the break up and eventually speed up the healing process.
Shamyra Jackson Profile
Shamyra Jackson answered
Love is not supposed to hurt..., but it does. I think the only reason love will hurt is when it is true love..and your heart is in to it. If the love is not real then you wont care because your heart is not in it...Love is blind and  tends to make us choose people that don't love us.
stephanie lokkeberg Profile
It just depends on how you look at it and how you let it affect you.IF it was REAL love the care will always be their deep down somewhere,though may not always show itself.You will always know it and the other person deep down should know too.That is,IF it was true love.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I believe that in some point of everyone's life they a hurt by love to some degree. LOVE is one of our most primal feelings. Whether that love be from a mother, father, sibling or lover. Love is a vast thing and you can be hurt by it in many different ways.
Jessica Profile
Jessica answered
I think true love is mutual.
If it is mutual then it won't hurt unless some tragedy happens.

Even if your definition of love is the same as mine.
It doesn't hurt EVERYONE.
Heather Wilhite Profile
Heather Wilhite answered
Love itself doesn't hurt....but the people in the relationship could hurt you.....emotionally and or physically......and in that case it probably wasn't meant to be
Feifei Hou Profile
Feifei Hou answered
Love hurts. But we grow stronger after being hurt. No pain no gain. Anyway, love deserve it, no matter pain or happiness.
iman afefy Profile
iman afefy answered
Love can hurt in many ways depends on what kind of love it is. Like a mother love towards her children but her child does wrong, thats when a mothers heart starts to break.  Or a friends love toward others but they talk bad about that person and then there hearts start to ache. It just depends on what kind of love you have
pamela johnson Profile
pamela johnson answered
Hello there
yes love can hurt people if you what to have a relationship then go and find it some one it out there for you
Thank you
Monica Comis Profile
Monica Comis answered
Love doesn't and shouldn't hurt because you should always stand tall and show your face once more!
Morgan _____ Profile
Morgan _____ answered
OK love hurts if you really, really care about them but if you don't then you can prob. Don't care. So every one who was really in love it does hurt them very bad.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Love don't really hurt people bt if you in love that ok that person hurt you and say sorry or I love that love
kaprice dewar Profile
kaprice dewar answered
Sometimes because if someone eles liks that person and then you take that person that will hurt there feelings and if someone is shy and you hurt there feelings because you made them embarres.
marien ardila Profile
marien ardila answered
The love doesn`t hurt,if both love others there were not any problem,so I just only know that love doesn`t hurt if you know how to love and if you really love.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
In my case...love does hurt. But this doesn't meant that it will hurt everyone that comes in its way. It depends on who is involved and how feelings are placed in this matter.

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