My Cousin Is Dating My Ex Boyfriend For Almost A Year Already And I Think They Are Talking About Marriage Already. What Should I Do? I Still Really Love Him. But I Cannot Hurt My Cousin's Feelings.

Are you kidding me !!  you are worried about hurting her feelings ... Why would she date your X in the first place !!! That is like a rule with women that some do not follow !! But I would be hurt and mad that they started dating each other when the cousin knows I am sure how  you felt about him. Its hard enough when you know your X has someone new when you still love him but for it to be with your COUSIN thats crazy!!! You will see them a lot together and at family outings that would be really hard and make it hard for you and your cousin to get a long and talk. I wouldn't have waited a year to tell him how you felt about him so I think you should move on and find someone new ! Make sure your cousin knows to keep her hands OFF this one ...

You should talk to your cousin. If you think their relationship is moving to fast tell her that. If she is old enough to get married then shes old enough to understand that she should slow down she'll have her whole life to love him but if she gets married she wont be able to see other people. Oh and I'm actually an eleven year old girl on my dads account but don't worry he said I could. If you are scarred that maybe they aren't right for each other tell her that. If things go wrong I want you to do this.

1.stand next to one side of your bed   2.get on your knees   3.fold your hands   4.talk to god about what ever is going on.

She obviously didnt care to hurt yours..but its a yr later id let it go you coul d tell him an tell your cousin but for what?

If you say you love him and you see that he is happy you have to let him do what makes him happy. Love means letting the person you love be happy. And you say you don't want to hurt your cousin then don't. She did you wrong big time but you just have to forgive.

Well she hurt you but it not right for to be with him after you that wrong but you shouldnt go and try to get him back not even if they arent together it will be a sen