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How To Let Go Of Your Ex?

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Muddassar Memon Profile
Muddassar Memon answered
It is usually hard to end a relationship and it becomes even tougher when the relationship has been on for a long time. People generally find it hard to let go of their ex-boyfriend/girlfriend if the relationship has been ended by the other person.

In this sort of situation it is best to reason out things and try to clear out any misconceptions that have taken place. If still the relationship does not work out it is best to let go and let your partner have the space and freedom that they want. Generally this sort of situation arises when there is lack of time and love and the relation has reached a saturation point.

It is best to let go and get your self involved in other activities like pursuing hobbies, meeting friends, playing sports etc. Try getting your self back into the social circuit and look forward to new things. Always remember that every morning brings in something new and what has happened has happened for the best.
Christi L. Richman Profile
To let go of your ex first off get off your duff and stop feeling sorry for yourself .Also realize you didn't lose anything he lost out letting you go, yes you have feelings for him and you maybe always will,But don't try hanging on to him for your sake cause he will grow to hate you , end it peaceably. Then pick yourself up brush yourself off and rejoin the human race, you don't have to jump into another relationship though ,take time to smell the roses and decide what you want out of life and a relationship then go for it. Don't settle for second best get what you want and can live with happily , not how you can change for someone else but are we compatible ?
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CECILIA DAVIS
CECILIA DAVIS commented
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you cant "be friends".A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend. Dont settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
the only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are.......

even if he has more education or in a better job
do not make him into a quasi-god
he is a man, nothing more nothing less
never borrow someone else's man
if he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending..... compromise is two
way street.

You need time to deal between relationships.... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to complete you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.

Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...You will make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Advice from Angel,

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil

You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the one. They are all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. make the right one

Ladies take care of your own hearts...............
CECILIA DAVIS
CECILIA DAVIS commented
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you cant "be friends".A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Dont stay because you think "it will get better."
You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
the only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are.......

even if he has more education or in a better job
do not make him into a quasi-god
he is a man, nothing more nothing less
never borrow someone else's man
if he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending..... compromise is two
way street.

You need time to deal between relationships.... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to complete you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.

Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...You will make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Advice from Angel,

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil

You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the one. They are all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. make the right one

Ladies take care of your own hearts...............
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I agree that after dating somebody for a long time, its best to not stay friends, it will never work....

Rather loose all contact, I know its hard, I just came out of a 3 year relationship, take my advice, loose all contact, what the eyes doesnt see wont hurt you, avoid the places you know he/she goes to, I dont say live in a box just because of your ex but if you see your ex with somebody else you are just going to be upset again,

You will meet somebody else, even if it takes a long time, I hate being alone, but I dont want to be in a relationship that doesnt work

take care people
carynn kimbrough Profile
You can let go of your ex... by finding a new more interesting person one who is more outgoing and more compatible to you and who loves to have fun.That will take your mind off the person that you are trying to forget.

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