How To Make My Boyfriend Miss Me?

If you want to make your boyfriend miss you so bad that he gets on the phone and begs you to come over and spend time with him, there are several steps you need to take. 

The main move is obviously to turn down the love and spend some time apart, but you need to plan this out correctly, or it could backfire!

How to make your boyfriend miss you in 5 easy steps

Step 1: Leave your mark

Before you even tell him you're going away for a few days/weeks/however long... you need to make sure your 'signature' is well and truly imprinted on his life.

Obviously don't start acting weird and doing things you wouldn't normally do, just make sure there are reminders of you everywhere.

Mark your scent by spraying your perfume on the pillows for example, or leave your favorite sweater somewhere he's likely to find it.

Step 2: Build up your leaving date

Seem excited about spending time away, but don't go on and on about it... leave some 'mystery' as to where you are going or what you'll be getting up to.

Steps 3: How to communicate when you are away

Calling him all the time will make you look desperate (or at least make it seem like you never left), and cutting all communication may start to make him worry. Instead, go for the occasional text message showing that you are SUPER busy, but are still thinking of him.

Step 4: A little help from your friends to make him jealous 

Do you have friends in common? Are they on Facebook (or whatever social network you use)? 

Before you leave, you need to make sure you have plenty of pictures of your friends and their partners kissing.

When you're apart, start uploading and tagging those photos. His newsfeed will start to look like this and his heart will start aching just a little bit.

Step 5: Make plans for your return

Before you head back home to his arms, make sure to call and arrange to do something special. It could be anything from going out for pizza through to spending a weekend alone together, but he'll be left counting the seconds till you're back, trust me!

Bonus: leave a copy of 500 Days of Summer lying around for him to watch.

Maybe you need to spend some quality time apart or take a break for awhile. You also not be so available all the time. If you have a good relationship and he wants to be with you, then he already misses you.

Avoid him for 2 days at least.

Don't call him up too many times...

Kiss him one day and say you are graduating from university next year.

Say you are going away and then send him letters and missed calls, and leave your photo by him and then he will miss you so much.