Why When Girls Flirt With Me Do I Not Feel It Is Genuine?

That's good if you don't want sympathy, cause it makes you more pampered and weak... And if someone flirts with you then make it clear to them that you don't like it... People will behave like that many times, and you are the only one who can stop that... And a flirt cannot be genuine unless and until that person is your friend and you know that she is doing the same... Make your poin clear to all those people who flirts with you...

I think you feel that way because our in society flirting is so casual and common. I assure you that girls feel the same way you described about guys. If you like this girl try not to think negatively and look past the flirting and observe other signs that may show that she is truly interested in you and not just having fun or being sympathetic towards you (which I rarely ever see actually).

Thinking of this from a personal point of view.... I usually didn't flirt with a guy friend unless in some way I liked him, mostly because if he started to like me then I would be in deep water if I were just trying to boost his confidence and then it would just be hurtful and harming the friendship. So the next time she does something try going along with it and see if something becomes of the friendship. So if she leans on you put your arm around her.... Not only is it a way to be there for her but a simple way of letting her know you feel the same way.....

I don't think that she is faking it. If she is showing interest then she is probably being genuine. I say, ask her out to the movies. See what she says, if yes, then she isn't taking pity, or confidence building either, and you can relax about thinking this way. Please let me know how it goes.