How Do You Impress A Boy At The Age Of 13?

At the age of 13 it can be a very scary experience when trying to attract a boy's attention as you probably do not have much, if any, experience with boys. Follow these steps to help you on your quest to attract his attention:

- Yes, it sounds like a cliché, but it is true that being yourself is the best way of impressing a boy. There is no point in trying to dress, or act, in a way you think the boy will like as this is not the real you. As well as having to lie to the boy about what you like (when you really have no interest in it whatsoever), it is also very easy for you to get caught out which could be really embarrassing.

- If he comes over to talk to you at lunch, stay calm! This is the moment most girls would panic but remember that he is probably just as nervous as you, if not more so. Do not think you have to have something really interesting or funny to talk about either. Be natural and say something like this when he approaches, "Hey! How's your day going?" Leave your comment open ended and this will help start a conversation. Once you are talking for a while you can relax and the humor and other interesting stories will just come out naturally.

- Do not do anything illegal or dangerous to attract a boy. If you think the only way a guy will like you is if you take drugs or drink alcohol then he probably is not the right boy for you. Behaving like this may also cause you to get into serious trouble with your parents, your school and even the local authorities.

Well...I'm a guy and a girl is impressive if she has good hygeine and a liitle flirty but mostly if she just talks to you like a normal peson...guys will never like a girl that acts all nevous..oh and you could try hard to get... Like not talk to him for a few days and see if he's wjdering about you...also if he looks you in the eye when he talks usually means he likes you

Take it from a 13 year old. To impress a guy try to talk with him and ask him what he likes and stuff like that. But if he likes things you don't like bite your tongue and stop. Because he would feel 'burned'. Try to even try things that he likes to make yourself better for him. But don't make it too obvious. Try also to ask him about his past. FOR GOD'S SAKE DON'T ASK HIM ABOUT HIS PREVIOUS GIRLFRIENDS.

I am going to give you advice on how to impress a boy. As girls we happen to crush on boys but not all the time like in tv shows does he like you back. So to get his attention first you should always laugh at his jokes even when they are not funny. Second you should show him how nice you can be.So, when he is upset talk to
him ,try to make him feel better give him really good advice. Lastly, you should flirt, but when you do flirt make sure its casual you don't want him to know you like him. So, use these tips I bet you will impress him.

Well the first thing is that you have 2 b your self around him. He should know you exist in class. Smile to him if he looks at you. If he starts talking answer with a smile and NOT in a boring way!! Hope I Helped :)

This is kinda like my sitiuation but I'm 12 n da boy I like is 13. I'm like obsessed wit him or somting because I ca't stop thinkin of him. Every won say's b yourself but say if you're so in love that you can risk not bein yourself for his luv.  N I got this frend she is like the expert because she's gon out wit the coolest boys and her advise is to be the kinda girl that he don't always see. Be somwon that gives him a chance to breath and be a girl he can have fun wit. So my advise is don't try to hard n in de same way be som won different to all de rest

I think that if your are trying to impress this boy that you really like then my first thing is look pretty for the age that you are my second thing is be yourself flirt in a nice funny way be a friend fun to be with but  my third thing is to smell good take a shower with soap and put some purfume if not he will run away for you.my fifth thing is to listen to watever hecis saying no matter how much is boring to you my sixth thing is if he is trying to flirt with you or touch you in desend place it's ok that the number clue that he likes you don't be shy and if your are than he might think that you don't like him

Don't b too afraid..I also lyk a boy in mah class but in other section...I tried this and it really worked.some tricks to play are wen evr you see him jst wave at that direction and wen reaching closer pretend to b waving at someone else...this makes him really cnfuse and it wrks... Then sumtyms jst go and bump at him and say that it ws all my fault or sumtymes you can show attitude as boys lyk gals havin attitude... Don't ever be very sticky to him or else he will think that you r desparate and dying 4 him.one prob I had ws wen I got 2 b a little close 2 him one of my classmate started lykin me and this made him think that I m not intrsted...my classmate even proposed me bt I trned him down so my crush got a hint that I lyk him...you can play many tricks to get closer to him...hope this hlps

For starters be yourself, number one rule!
Yeh flirt but not to obvious, but don't act under confident.
Get to know him then let him get to  know you.
I think its best if he asks you for your number.
Lads like girls who look and smell nice, so don't go orange or wear some manky perfume.
Boys like someone who is caring but don't get too close to their brothers or sisters, (its a turn off.)
boys hate it if you act like a second mum, so don't nag!
But jus giggle have a laugh and let him chase you!

Hiya, I'm 13 and I am currently going out with my crush and I'm going to tell you how I did it.. It was the week before I finished primary school for ever and I decided I would tell my crush I liked him.
First of all I his best friend and he was offering to tell him for me, I said ok.. The next day my crushes best friend told my crush I liked him.
I was a bit shy but I started flirting with him, And he offered we get to know each other more.. So we started to talk and then he asked me if I was going to the local disco on Saturday and I was so I said yea.
Straight away he asked me if I wanted to meet him there :)
So that night we went in and.. We slow danced and then he kissed me <3
He asked me if I wanted to be his gf and I said yea :D
We have been going out for a year now :)
I LOVE YOU ADAM :* xxx

At 13? Hmmm...well I think you should be yourself...but one of the most important is to mind your hygeine. Boys like girls that are clean, smells good, and has good breath. Also wear good clothes but make sure it isn't...to...over-rated ;) like dress appropriately but attractively. Talk to him nicely, laugh, smile, be bubbly, and yeah ;) but make sure he is actually the right guy for you. Don't try too hard. If he shows ABSOLUTELY NO interest find another guy. Most likely he isn't the right one if he doesn't show any interest.

You just try to be yourself..(:
I'm 13 and I like this boy... He's the funny clowning type of dude and he doesn't admit that he likes a person...before.. At tHe beginning at my 7th grade school year he used to have a crush on me but I didn't know anything about it until my friend had told me.. So I admitted that I liked him back when...I found out that I liked him too but before I told him.. Me and him was like best of buddies like brother and sister or best friends... But then when I had admitted that I liked him we suddenly just stopped hanging out and talking and stuff.. So don't make the same mistake as me.. Your just going to have to wait until that guy is ready to prove or show you that he really actually likes you:)

Hi! Plz help me out in this same situation. I am 13 too. In my birthday which was yesterday a boy in my school was just looking at me the whole time. But, when I looked at him he looked away. My best friends were saying that I was looking very beautiful that day... So, can you plz say me that what it is? Do he like me?

Its when you stop caring what people think that you finally get the attention you want. Don't think 'I will flirt now' because it just wont work. If they ignore you then it is their loss. And 13yr old boys are rubbish. Come to think of it all boys are rubbish. Wait til they grow up and then they will see what they missed out on. :)

I'm 13 and I play football (afl) yeah I no it weired that a girl plays football. But this is my 2nd year and I've become good friends with most of them but I have a huge crush on 1 of them and I don't no what to do, because if I ask him out it could be really weired coz we still have to tackle each other and train and it would be weired. And if the team finds out they would kill us...HELP what  do I do

I really like this guy and I'm really shy I don't no how not to when I'm with him and wot do you mean by be yourself?

Hai in my class I have crush with one boy. But whether he acts like he likes me or he really does I don't know . I will feel shy while talking to boys but please tell me a solution exept conversation please

At the age of 13? Be urself, at this age you want to be finding who you are comfortable with. If you try to be some one you'r e not then you wont be comfortable with him and he will be able to tell this.
Be yourself and you'll automaticaly attract the right kind of guy for you, and if this guy isn't attracted, he can't be the one for you.
If this doesnt work, simply find out what he likes, and try and get good at it.

Try to know wht tht guy likes and if he has some friends thn try to communicate with them and once you r in that circle he will talk with you . Don't be too desperate, start with saying hi and thn organize few activities where in you both can actively participate. If you r fun to hang out with he will certainly like your company.

Me and this guy I like are really close friendz and I like him what should I do??
All you girls out there who think your all tht and think you can get tht really hot boy STOP you need to calm down he'll like you 4 who you r if he pays a lot of attion to you he probally noticed you already so you should start out as really good friendz and work your way up to tht bf and gf stage! I wish I could take my own addvice tho *sigh*

Act yourself around him and DO NOT TRY TO BE SOME ONE ELSE.

You don't, life is not some sort of race. The idea is not to have 3 kids before you're 17.

Be yourself. If he can't accept who you are he's not worth it. Plus, you're only 13 so if it turns out he doesn't like you back or he breaks up with you it's NOT the end of the world.

You know don't be shy and just talk to him and don't rush , take it slow to get to know each other. You should talk to him but not make it obvious that you like him .And finely  make sure he is not in a relationship.  <[: D

I am a 13 year old, gender fluid, bisexual girl in 8th grade.I like my girlfriend, who is a few months younger and in 7th grade and we have been d8ing for almost 6 months, but I have been developing a really big crush on one of my good friends. We were at an awards ceremony for semester 1 ( i got honor roll and teachers pet uh i mean choice) and when before i was called up, he looked kind of sad, as he has been lately. A few weeks ago, he was on the verge of tears because he was not going to be allowed to bring a chrome book home from school because his parents would not sign the permission slip. Me and my friend tried to cheer him up, but he asked to be left alone. When we got up to leave, he pulled me aside and asked if he could tell me something important. Naturally, being his friend, i said yes. Reluctantly, he told me that he hated his parents for not letting him do the chrome book things. He also said he disliked them because of how they were always fighting. He talked about his urges to run away and even commit suicide. Now, being concerned for him , i started crying, because one of my friends was really depressed. And she said she was getting"spasm attacks"and cutting herself bc i said i did not want to be her friend anymore bc she called my gf busty for wearing a really pretty dress that was a little big. Anyways, i learned that she doesn´t even cut herself, but makes marks on herself with pencils, which made me really angry bc i know a person, one of my close friends from my old school who tried to take her own life by cutting and that person is in a mental facility currently, she also tried to hang herself and overdose on antidepressants. :(

After begging his parents, they finally signed the permission slip, and he talked to them about how he was feeling about them fighting and how he was hurting. When he hurt, it hit me 1000 times worse. I hated to see him so sad. Well, his parents went to couples therapy and worked out their problems , and Jonathon was happy- go lucky again, which made me happy. We were back to talking about fnaf, boyinaband, living tombstine, mandopony, baasik, blach gryph0n, and gravity falls fanfictions ( i ship bipper ALL THE WAY!!!! No shame!!) ,and i noticed how cute he was. I noticed that he was stealing glances at me,ones that lasted up to a few  minutes at a time when he thought i wasnt looking. I also found myself, well, not exactly staring, at him also.

idk what to do. I dont want to break my gf s heart, but i also don´t want to be too late with Jonathan. I care about both of them so much, and i hate to see Madison hurt but i also really like Jonathan. What do i do??????????

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Well just be urself .if he doesnt accept  that hes not the for you.FYI.some guys are just plain jerks

Oh my god I'm 13 too. I've learned that boys love when you wear their hoodies, when you eat, when you mess up, o and not to be serious all the time. They love sarcasim. I helped

Be calm,relax and act normal,spend time with him,get to know him better.
Wave to him when you see him,be there when he needs you,tell him your his friend!
Don't go too far too fast take it slow,bit by bit!
Trust me!

By someone who is 13 and loves a boy!

Hmmmmmmmmm...
I think all guys around this age and younger are noobs, so unlesss you find a good one, don't waste your time.
But what you really hav to do is get into the sports theyre playing, hang w/ there friends and them more often, find out how to make them laugh.... It also doesn't hurt to find out what they like and don't.
All in all, if you just put a little work into it a nd get them to notice you, you can work in your charm and take them over. Really, it isn't that hard. Boys hav very simple minds...

Learn him that his a teen

Tell him you love him

Figure ot what he likes and talk about that with him

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Okay. So. I'll tell you that it is easier to say "I love you" over texting than over the phone.

Hi I'm 12 and well the guy I like is15 he turns 16 four days before me I have liked him since we were small but never told him he is a really good friend of my brothers I'm afraid that if I tell him he mite reject me plus the only way we comunicate is through facebook what shoul I do...?!!!!!

I like this guy. He talks to me sometimes. Sometimes he'll mess with me (for ex: He'll touch my hair or poke me) and sometimes he will laugh at me when I'm not trying to being funny. But he loves this girl who is mean and not really attracting. I really want to be his friend and I don't know what to say to him, I'm afraid he'll say something insulting or tell everyone. I don't know some1 help me out :(

I need desperate help, theres this guy and I talk to him constantly and him to me, I have not gone a day without talking to him for at least a month but lately hes been putting at the end of texts and conversations on msn I love you loads night or something but hes never said it when we were talking over the phone or something like that so I don't no if its just your a really good friend I love you or it has a deeper meaning please help thanks

Hmm.. Same problem here. Try and act normal DON'T go weird and shy! Relax.

My problem: There is this boy in my classes and I know he's single. People call him a emo but he really isn't.. He just likes muse. Lol.< I do too. I think he likes another kind of emo girl though.. He smiles at me sometimes but we never do talk :( I want to get closer to him. How?

I'm obsessed with a boy from my class, we're both 13, and I take it pretty slow. Actually I'm not nervous. We are pretty relaxed and comfortable with each other. I just think about him all the time! Don't wait, take the first step. It isn't embarrasing, actually. He would probably just get flattered (

I'm in love with a boy when I was in 7th grad .I wanted to know his name n I asked my sister to ask me but before doing that I found out he loves me too . He points at me and shows to his friends one year over bt he never said me nw I'm in 9th grad he still loves me but never tells what should I do to make him propose me please help so if your problem is this so try to find his likes and dislikes or take your male friend help to make him jaolous

I am 13 and I like a guy at my school  but he has a gf and we met one day in french and that was the day of the first school dance soo we slow danced together and now we txt a lot and we are best buds and one day we wer txting and he asked my who I liked and he still doesnt know and I asked him if he didnt have a gf who would he go out with and he said ''I don't know whoever askes me " so you try doing that

Hi. I like this boy in my school. He's in a different class and might not even know me. I really really like him, but he has a crush on another girl. Can some1 plz help me?

According to me help him if he asks you then only be yourself never go start talking first don't look at him

Is he sporty. If he is, try to impress him at a sport he may like. Can you dance. Maybe enter a contest, and do your best to impress him. I know I'd be impressed, I'm 13.

I like a boy who is of my age but I don't know that he likes me or not. We only play badminton together and there is no other opportunity to meet him what shall I do

Just be urself and talk to him a lot more if he ignores you just try something else like asking his friends what he likes and then talk to him about it I'm sure he will listen if its something he likes but don't go too far or he will think you r desperate so don't pretend to be someone your not and if it doesnt work out don't sweat it! Find the right guy for you theres someone out there for everyone so be urself and lastly FLIRT with him but don't get too flirty because like I said you don't want to sound desperate hope I helped.

Hiya I am 13 and I am going out with this guy and I am my self around him but then I think he is a bit frigged! And I don't know what to do. I want the relationship to work out though. Also cause he is older than me people make fun, he really is not that type of guy cause he has not been in lots of relationships before! What shall I do.

My best friend's on-and-off boyfriend (I think) likes me. I really like him too and I am going to a bowling party with her and him... I don't know what to cause I like him but I don't want to hurt her. And also what should I wear to the bowling party to impress him?

Hmm..... Its very hard to impress a boy at the age a 13 because I tried it but I don't know he loved me are not when I wa 13 in school I think you should't wait to tell him because if the time went so it will not come again.....

The easist way to impress a boy you like is to hang out with him and his friends.  When you talk with his friends he'll know you guys can be friends.  After a while kick it up a noanch and go on a date or something!!

By loving him :L Xxx

I'm 13 and I really like this boy
too bad I'm really shy
he sometimes talks to me but only about school stuff
I want to talk to him but I can't find a conversation topic
so yeah I need help

If you are 13 and A 14 year old boy give you nick names like nikki and he defends you and he be touch n you on your arms does that mean hi like you

I impress a boy by trying to be my self and just stay clam and try to get to know what things he likes and listen to him and get to know him more

Mostly man likes young girls. Man likes little shy, little fashion, neat and clean, honest, good listener:-) many more. If you want more give vote.

I m 13 years old and he is my brothers friend and he is smart and I want to flirting with him so what can I do pleas help me

Hey I tell you that he lives near my house his name is atif  I like him very much but I don't know what to do ?

I reallly like this boy,
I'm thirteen, going to be 14, & going into 8th grade.
The boy is 15, going to 10th grade.
We got really close, and then just stopped.
I still like him, but I don't know if he likes me back): Help??
)):

Hey ne1 can help me......this guy knows that I lyk so wt he ignores me.....I lyk him lyk hell.....juz crazy abt. Him....wt shud I do??

I'm a 13 year old boy and to impress a boy you need to be nice, hot and pretty so have nice curly hair, makeup every day and keep your skin nice.

That's how you get 'em!

I'm 13 and I'm in LOVE with this boy. I saw him for the first time on the first day of 6th grade and I instantly liked him. Hes funny athletic cute and really nice. So I secretly liked him for a few months (still didnt know his name) but I was way too shy to talk to him. Then one of his friends (also my friend) was joking around and goes 'you love tyler you love tyler' I was soo confused because I didnt know who he was talking about so I dropped it. The next day I see them talking and his friend goes 'come and meet your lover' . My mouth dropped and I froze. I just finished 7th grade and still in love with him he probably knows I like him but weve never talked and I'm still in LOVE with him. But I'm too shy and can never do anything to catch his eye... PLEASE HELP ME.

Yeaaa... I remember when I layed my eyes on a rly cute boy... I didnt know him but my brother and sister did... After a week or so I met him and we kinda had a lot in common.... Soo then the dance came up, and I wanted to go at first but then I didnt go bc I was to afraid... And thinking that he wasn't going to go, guess what! He did go! And with out me! :( that made me kinda sad... But he went alone I think... I'm going to go this year hoping that he will go... And meet him there... I rly rly like him a lot and I want to go out with him super bad but I don't know if hes taken or not... But I think hes free... ( I'm rly rly shy :P ) but anyways how do I know if he likes me or not? I hope you can help me.... :) thx, byeeeeeeeeeee

Ppl it's waste of time 2 make guys like you!! Because they r just jerks!!but if you still want to no!!listen first you don't need 2 tell the boy you bother about him 2 much or he will give you attitude.always be nice if your a person who can manage acting!!lol!! Than keep talking 2 him a lot. Don't make him think you care ab0ut him so much because than he won't care!!after all this if he still doesn't like you!! You wasted your time on stupid jerk guy like him!! Good luck but trust me it's waste of time!!:)

my friends good luck and if he says no kick him and say you don't deserve me so get a life jerk!:)

I'm 13 my self and I like this boy name che and like he doesnt know I like him , I don't never try to talk to him because I be scared and a bit shy but then he talks to other girls ,we both liked each other in the 6th grade he was super nice to  me and we was like best buddies but I never got a chance to tell him how I really feel bout him I   think bout him all day but he ignores me  I just feel its kinda a waste  of my time to  stress over this 1 boy I like but I just can't let him go, anyways , love you che ;)

Hey I'm 13 to and I really like this boy but I don't know what to do. He knows I fancy him and I know he doesnt fancy me, I have tried so hard to move on but I always keep coming back to him because he is the one that I feel I can act myself around. He is really nice and caring he hasnt known I fancy him for that long and since he found out we have me tup outside of school a few times.I can't stop thinking about him. I really really want to impress him but I don't know how to.  So please help.

Hi, my name is Darien, and I am 13  turning 14 in 8th grd. I have liked this guy adam, my age, since kindergarten, never really talked to him much, till now. Problem is I asked him out over Facebook, and he ignored me and won't chat or nothin', my parents switched my schools when they broke up, so now I like this guy wyatt, and on top of it I saw a guy I liked before I asked any one out named taylor, so now ive asked three guys out A didn't reply, W. I asked in person he said no cause he just broke up with someone, he says he.don't like me, but his friend says he does like me, and T. I'm too scared he'll say no too, I've trieda bunch of tricks , but truth is I've never dated, kissed or really talked much with guys I like except W. I love Adam, like wyatt and think taylors " hot ". So I'm spool confused about what I should do  someone please help, in real need of some advice here!!!:(  thanks:)

Mn I luv diis boiii in ma yr and I'm 13 too. He is in most of my lessons and I sit next to him in 2 of my lessons and I am quite nervous and shy around him and that but hes not. I don't noee hw to tlk to him and what to tlk about. When I give him a friend request on fb he doesnt accept cause he thinks ill keep talking to him. I have his msn though and we tlk sometimes. I really like him hes cute and hes not those type of boys who are gangasta lyk and stuff. Hes descent and a man cute xxx Most girls like him in our yr. Plus hes 13 too. Xx I ly chris

I really like this boy but I don't no if he likes me how can you tell if he likes mee ?