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How Do You Flirt With A Guy On Msn Messenger?

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Right, first off, I'm in this situation too haha, but I'm going to tell you all the things I have learnt so far :)
don't ask him what he is wearing, when I once said this to a boy, I got in a big sticky situation haha, so I wouldn't ask that unless you was reallly close!
Things that have worked for me, are lines like this..
Boy: So you been up to much?
Girl: Yeah, just got in from shopping, saw a nice top that would of suited you really nicely!
Boy: Oh really? I would like to see this top :)
things like that, what will lead a small convosation into a big one, another thing, is you need to be grown up about things he says, but saying aww is always an acception :D, as this makes you sound interested :)
and also, do NOT use emotions like ;) too much, as this will make you sound too interested!
Hope this helped? :)
-georgia
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I thought id answer this question as I met a guy online and now were like in love lol .. So basically when he flirts show you apreciate it by saying something like "aww thats so sweet" or something. Also when you say bye say "byeee x" its cute but not to overboard. To be flirty ask queations like "what are you wearing" lol .. Also if I say brb to him and he askes where did you go I usually say "shower" its flirty but not overboard .. + makes them think of you in the shower lol. When talking don't use words or sentences that kind of stop a convo such as if he askes how are you don't say somehting like "good you?" say more .. Its more intresting and they will talk to more too lol so something like "oh I'm good thanks .. Just got back from shopping lol" I usually say that :P ..  Lol well hope I helped and maybe il add another answer another time :P maybe abit more sexy and flirty one. This is a sweet one for cute couples :)
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Tell him he's really cute, and sweet
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Joke around. Tease him a bit. An example is challenging his manliness. If you know he has a hot body be like- I heard a roomer that you have a nice bod- I think ppl are crazy. Then youll be all no way... If he likes you he might send a pick to prove it!
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Be yourself if he doesnt like you for you hes not the one! Flirt a bit but not over the top! Call him babes and hottie tell him you think he look nice and that he fun but don't ask him what hes wearing ask question you want to hear like How was your Day! Don't act like something your not remember to be your self!
-Marilyn
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Hey! Here's a tip: Act innocent! If you're just starting to flirt with a guy you JUST met than that is the way to go! BUT when you've been flirting for a LONG time act naughty! Be dark and mysterious!!
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If when the first or second thing you say is "please distract me" (homework,stress,etc). You always get interesting/random funny things back. Or even better is when they say "I don't know..what do you want me to say" then you can guide the conversation however you like! ;)
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Wink a lot and do the ':P' face, don't be like 'what are you wereing' just kinda bee like wuu2? I'm getting changed, just out the shower, 'that'll make him horneeeeyyyy
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I really like this boy and hes just tryed weed, don't ask why but I really care for him, some lines that are good are like, your hair looks sexy like tht :P and when you look half decent say to him if your on webcam I might go off this I look so horrible :$ and if he says don't you look fine your in! Comfort him and when theve got problems listen to them but don't give them to much advice, boys don't like that, I also have used that when hes upset or got a problem I say if only you lived next door to me I would come give you and hug, it shows you care but don't tell them your life story and act like theres other boys that like you, it makes him think that you seem really nice and hes lucky to even speak to you also be sexy say brb shower ;) hope this helps girls! Best of luck xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Hello Miss Emo,
The solution to your query is actually wee bit more simpler than you think it is. Guys are hunters, they're usually on the lookout for more action wherever they can find it. You may think you're looking like an idiot when you flirt but you don`t. One solution could be using suggestive hints that are a)subtle in nature , b) have child like innocence. For example *sprinkles pixie dust on you*.. Now it may appear as completely harmless whereas in truth you'd instantly get his attention doing so. I could offer more solutions if I know where you want to take the relationship with the said guy, etc etc.
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I'm in this situation too, I've liked this boy for ages, but haven't talked to him for 2yrs because I moved house, though I've now found him on facebook (got to love the internet!) so I'm going to take a nice picture of myself, I got my hair done to feel more confident, and then use it as my profile pic, so that's the 1st thing he see's hopefully he'll think I'm okay looking!
Think I'm quite ugly tbh but it's worth a try ;P then I'll be like Hey x, 'x' to be a bit flirty but not too much because most girls will use 'x' I'll ask if he's okay, wen he says yes you, I'll be like yes, gota new top today or something, so it's not a dead convo! Ask how his siblings are, how was school? Exams? Etc, just try to be as normal as possible don't want to sound desperate, but you want to give subtle hints that you like him, good luck with it(:
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I don't know like, you have to say things like babe, baby, sexy, and stuff and also, tell him what your wearing but like subtly and also go on webcam and act kind of girly, also be nice to him and always put winks at the end of things ;l
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I'm in this situation as well. Lol And what I found is that you have to be exciting and if your boring he will stop texting you. You have to say stuff like : I'm tanning by the pool or just out of the shower. That will catch his attention. Also question his manlyness cause it will create a pretty good convo. Don't  forget to be girly too.
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Jsut be your self and if the boy don't like that then its his lost even if yu do flirt a lil just don't do some thing you don't want to do, just be normal and he wont hate yu n tht buh yu can flirt a lil just to get his attention every so often.
Hope this helps x x
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Don't be over emotional, be subtle but not so much that its not pretty obvious, have a good laugh and never flirt with a guy that you don't like as this sends bad signs.
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Add emoticons when you can, especially the wink face, but don't go overboard and use emoticons from other websites etc, just stick to the original ones. When you start a topic, see how he responds, if he seems interested, flirt a little, if he doesn't, he might not be the right guy.  If he says something back, respond, so, let's say he says 'I had a really bad day today', you could respond with 'awwwwww, poor you'. If he responds at any point with a 'bye x' or some sort of flirt,, respond with a 'x' back or a compliment etc. Also, when they say 'bye'  maybe say 'goodnight, *persons name*' or 'sweet dreams', but those are examples for night time, instead you could say 'have a great day' or 'don't get yourself hurt', just something to show you care. One more thing, don't copy what he says, so if he starts a conversation with 'hiya', don't say the same, maybe say 'hey' or something different.

Hope this helps!
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Nick Shaw answered
Don't worry about romance, your to young for that. But as far as flirty comment go...well I just come up with stuff in the moment, basically just be a tease. Act cocky and that about it. If you really need help I'm sure you could google some stuff but I find that kinda sad. Anyway good luck!
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Don't flirt too much, cause guys can find it annoying and will know you like them. Be yourself and tease them but don't go to far. Also, don't always start the convo and reply with a paragraph when they write a sentence. Don't look like your too desperate and be really funny ad nice at the same time :)
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Well I'm dealing with it this second
katie : I'm going to go up stairs and get change in to some diff clothes be back in a tic xxx
james : Ok well I'm just in my school clothes and my skin hurry back xxx
katie : I love my skin xx
james : Loll ok see you soon xxxxxxxx

this happed as I'm typing he is still typing now xx put like I'm going to get changed what your wearing and stuff they love it the picture you getting changed xx
take in acount I'm 12 and this guy is not even going out with me he give me a week tops then he will :)
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Always act happy and say things like who do you think is prettier?(yourself or a pretty friend) see what he says
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Just be yourself , don't flirt-flirt he'll think your a slapper start off with the usuall hey and let it go from there:}x
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Tell him you need to pee which will get him thinking about your va-j-j then say: Bk sexy ;) wait for his reply.....if he flirts bk then go on to say.....I would go on webcam but I'm in my underwear and I don't want to give you a boner LOL :p (make sure you put LOL at the end of it so you don't seem cocky)
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You would say Heey babe constantly calling him names but nothing like sweetie stuff like sex beast and that. Don't be too keen but show him your interested
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Emotions show that you care don't talk slang talk full x at end o sentence say babes x
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Well boys are slow finding out if some one boys em. So make it a Little obiass boys. Flirt it and put on yr best pics
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There are several ways that you can flirt with a guy on MSN messenger. You can ask him flirty questions. You can ask him a question such as: What are you wearing right now? No matter how he answers it, tell him that you can envision him wearing whatever he said he was wearing and that you think he looks really cute in your mind's eye. You can also send him virtual kisses and hugs online through MSN Messenger. To send a virtual kiss, type the word "Mua" Then the more a's that you can add to the "Mua", the more passionate the virtual kiss would be. For example, "MUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA" would be a very long, passionate kiss. Then to send a virtual hug, you would type the word "UM" Once again, the more m's you add, the more passionate and long would be the hug. UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM would be a big, tight hug. These are just a few suggestions. Good luck!
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First of all, BE NICE.
Call him cute names like cutie or sweety,
if he asks you how you are don't just say "I'm fine" or "I'm good" try and be a little more creative its much more interesting.
Example.
Boy: "so how are you?"
Girl: "pretty good after giving my eyes a rest from that gorgeous shirt you were wearing :P"
Boy: "hey! I really like that shirt."
and take it from there and try not to be boring he will get sick of talking and stop replying.
~ Robin.
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Show him your boobiess and blow kissy faces
and say your only out of the shower and naked
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You can start the conversation by saying "hey wuu2 bdw I have to you luking sexy or nice in those picz and add winks into it
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Um I'm not to saw myself but ive learnt that if its a girl liking a boi the boi always shows a sighn !!

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