Hi, I think he is telling you the truth, which is a good thing. Some men just keep telling you, what you want to hear. You should take him at his word; he is not ready to commit to a marriage or make any type of permanent commitment. If you are not willing to wait, then you need to end this relationship and move on to someone else. You can not force what you want on him. Take Care!
To commit is a very frightening thing. I've often heard that men have fear of commitment, but I can't say that's true. If you're young, often times guys don't want to be "tied down". They want to "run with the boys" or play the field. Several younger boys look pretty darn good to their peers when they are chick magnets. If he doesn't want to commit, don't force him. There's nothing worse than trying to make something happen when only one person wants it... And then, to get told "I didn't want this, you did" makes the hurt ten times worse.
It's very common that a guy who says 'I love you' does not want to have a commitment. Commitments seem to mean more to men than to wemen becuase men tend to think more (responsiblity, financial issues, etc) If you two really love each other, I think you need to be patient and give him more time. I wish you good luck.
