I know how you feel! My husband has ask me for 11 years the very same question and my answer was always " just because". I knew why I loved him but like you said the words are there but speaking them was the problem. But in may of 2007 my husband, my best friend was diagnosed with terminal cancer!!!!! Now it was even harder for the words to be spoken, but I also knew it was the only question I could give him the answer to, however that still left the problem of speaking the words (even harder now). So for his birthday in July ( yes it took me that long) I made a homemade, kinda preschool card like a heart and wrote in many colors.... I Love You Because... Your my best friend...you never let me down...you've never given up on me...you always know how to comfort me...you are a godly man...you've always protected me...you gave me everything, my kids. My home, my happiness, my knowledge of real true love, you made me strong, you made me a better person. ALL THE THINGS YOU CAN'T SAY YOU CAN WRITE DOWN. By the grace of God my husband is still with us and I hope that your relationship last forever. You don't have to say it but you should tell him. May God bless you and thanks for the question. I was on tonight wondering if I might connect with someone to lift my spirits a little and I thank God for you being a blutter tonight.
