May be he is tensed for the job and only want to focus on job
Should I just consider the relationship over? My boyfriend doesn't really talk to me anymore and when I ask him why he's ignore he'll just claim he's not and just says "sorry I love you" I'll explain more in comments
Dear Dance Like a Gypsy,
I would definitely NOT consider the relationship over, more likely you are seeing stress from the job loss. Huge blow to self-esteem, especially in our culture that emphasizes male independence.
I like what Arthur Wright has told you very much, but perhaps be careful about any ultimatum right now, adding to his distress...if you give ultimatum, you must really, really mean it.
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One more thing...you are seeing now how this fellow handles stress, so may want to keep that in mind for the long run.
You can't have a relationship with no communication. If your boyfriend isn't interested in your feelings and trying to work this out ... Then it's already over.
If you not only don't converse, or spend time together .. What makes you think there 'is' a relationship? He has already 'left the building'.
For right now, you are on the back burner. It should only be temporary until he finds a new job as guys hate losing a job as they tend to feel inadequate to their families and GFs/wives so be patient and don't pressure him too much or he will leave you and not from loving you but the macho ego inside him. Try supporting him and ask if there is anything you can do to help and things should start changing quickly. Good luck
The loss of a job can be devastating to a man's feelings of masculinity.
He may be feeling incapable of acting "manly" in terms of a relationship with you. And I'm not talking just about sexual intimacy if you are so involved---I'm talking about all types of relationship intimacy.
Reassuring him about his value and importance to you may help, but he's probably in "crisis" mode and is just trying to "survive."
Homefully, it's a short term thing and you and he can get through this.