Why Would My Aunt Do This?


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nettie Profile
nettie answered
I don't have a clue and I'm wondering if she has a clue as she does not respond to your question,but that is something to think about,no harm intended but all adults don't seem to have a full truck load of bricks,we all can go back and find something and wonder about it...good luck
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nettie commented
You are still among us so why not try therapy and you don't even have to tell anyone you are going to therapy,hope you find yourself...good luck
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Drummergal answered
It sounds like you were living out ( her  ) fantasy "  not yours " and that was truly unfair to you , and is a form of abuse .
I am so sorry she was so mentally off balance and please know it wasn't your fault at all . Put this blame where it belongs , on her .

Great luck to you

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J commented
Because of her, i often find myself wondering if maybe i was meant to be a girl. Even today, at the age of 22, i have been told (especially by my own peers, that i am too pretty to be a boy. I wonder if maybe their right, and then i ask myself if I'd be happier if...if i were to openly accept myself as a female. The answer scares me, for the emotions are all twisted and confusing. What should i do?
Jacquelyn Mathis Profile
Don't think that you are at fault with this. It was her that did this to you, and it was for one of two reasons, she wanted a girl, or she was jealous that your mom had a boy, and was trying to make a mockery of your mother. I think you might want to talk to he about this again, but do it in a manner that she doesn't feel threatened by you asking. Hope this helps, good luck to you.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Maybe she wanted a girl? Try asking again
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J commented
Why would she want me to be a girl, she already had two nieces she was looking after, and she never did the same to my brother...why only me?
Lisa Marie Halsey Muniz Profile
If that is true, maybe she wanted you to be a girl.  Maybe she longed for a girl & was wishing you were a girl.  But that is wrong to dress you up & send you to school dressed up as a girl when you are a boy.  I find that to be a bit strange.  If she wont answer you why she did that in the first place, sounds like she has some serious mental issues.  I would question her mental capabilitity, & hope she isnt watching any other kids these days til you are sure of her mental capability.
Toast Master Profile
Toast Master answered
Do you have any pictures?
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Jacquelyn Mathis
Jacquelyn Mathis commented
Now come on toast, you gotta think about this, how would you like it if your mother did this to you? I don't think you would, please be a little nicer to people.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
maybe your aunt was nuts was times that hard that she could not buy
boy clothes for you she really owes you an answer i hope that did not
mess with mind know that you are older
Larry Lashley Profile
Larry Lashley answered
Same as the role of a parent...to steer you in the role she thought best although it may not have taken in your interests, feelings, etc.. At the time.

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