Why Does My Boyfriend Get Angry When I Accuse Him Of Cheating?


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Lucy Burroughs Profile
Lucy Burroughs answered
It's perfectly understandable for your boyfriend to get angry if you accuse him of cheating. How would you feel if he did the same to you? By accusing him of cheating, you're implying the following:

  • That you don't trust him
  • That you don't believe him
  • That you doubt his integrity and fidelity
  • That you don't think he really cares for you as much as he says he does

Nobody likes being accused of things that they haven't done, and even if your boyfriend is cheating on you, he's not likely to admit it just because you've asked him.

So What Should I Do? To be honest, I think you probably owe your boyfriend an apology. It isn't nice to accuse him of cheating. A solid relationship is built on trust, and if you can't trust him, then it'll never work out.
What makes you think he's cheating on you? Address that, rather than throwing accusations around. You're not going to resolve anything by accusing him of cheating - if he is, he won't admit it, and if he isn't, you'll only damage your relationship.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
If he accused you of cheating, wouldn't you get mad at him? He might not have cheated on you.
Beth Jones Profile
Beth Jones answered
Because it's more than likely that he is not cheating, and so being accused of doing so is always going to make him mad. Guys don't like it when girls think that they know that all guys cheat. Not all guys are alike - so give him a break.
micah johnson Profile
micah johnson answered
Because you are accusing him of cheating ...DUH

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