Well feeling like this is extremely common is love. When you love someone a lot and you don't like anybody talking to them. You see love is a very beautiful feeling, it makes you laugh at times, it also makes you cry and something you also feel angry. This is what love is all about. It is the feeling when you don't want anybody to touch or talk about something or someone you love. You feel as if they should only and only talk to you and no one else.
Well this is another stage of love. You have the person you love and he loves you in return too. But still you don't like the idea of him/her talking to other people. It is generally due to the fact that as people are scared of losing someone close to their hearts and someone they love so much. Will in such cases it is very obvious to feel like this. So just relax its normal to feel like this, this shows that you love him/her. But make sure this doesn't effect your relation because at times this can also prove to be a reason for a breakup.
I feel this way all the time b/c my boyfriend is very handsome so naturally I get jealous b/c I know my girlfriends and other women notice that he is handsome. But... You have to not act on this... Trust although it is hard thing to do is necessary in a successful relationship and no one wants to feel like they are being controlled. So just grin and bare it but keep both eyes open.
I have the same problem. ONe of my friends is always talking to my boyfriend EVERYDAY. It gets so annoying but I don't want to come off as insecure because I know he loves me and he would never cheat on me so I have to trust him. Its so hard sometimes to trust him but if I want to the relationship to last then I have to.
Jealousy is insecurity. Insecurity is childishness. If you don't want to be called childish, you have to mature in any ways. You have to learn how to trust yourself before you can trust somebody else. When you trust yourself when your girlfriend is talking to your boyfriend, you will not feel threaten. You will not care whatever they are talking about,because you know you can find somebody else if your boyfriend is taken from you , that if he is, then he doesn't care for you, and my friend, you will not have a hard time accepting that if it happen if you are trusting in yourself. Trust him and trust yourself. If he sees you are confident about yourself , he will be afraid to leave you and let other man take over,it is very hard to find a woman that is not insecure. So be secure and stop getting jealous.
Let me just say this: The last time I ve seen TRUST in their friends and boyfriends , it ended up with a FRIEND and a BOYFRIEND either going behind the back or in bed with each other ...so you know what girl its not insecurity ...Its love and keep your man away from anyone ....he doesn't need your friends he has his boys to talk to ... Tell me what can he possibly talk to them about since he has you and his boys ??? Exactly ...
Maybe it's jealousy. You really shouldn't hold on too much.
I'm right with you my boyfriend talks to one of my girls friend and they have inside jokes and everything.. The worst part about it is I introduced them to each other the hard thing is he sometimes mentions how pretty she is.. Hes a dick but I think I might love him