My Boyfriend Is Too Shy To Talk To Me. What Does That Mean?

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josh deng answered
Maybe I think it is because he loves you so much that he is afraid of making mistakes. You can try to be casual to let him feel easy. He maybe will talk to you more than before.
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Ernest Curcio
Ernest Curcio commented
Steff your too cute not to talk to. Is he Goth? If not, how the heck did you two meet and how have you been communicating to each other all this time????
Richard Lam
Richard Lam commented
Everyone makes mistakes right what mistake can a boy make? :D
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Anonymous answered
My boyfriend is veryy shy too. And so am I. So when I'm around him my friends are with me so they help us with talking about stuff. And we talk all the time on webcam and texting, Hes juss nervous and thinks hes going to say something wrong. Hope that helped.

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katie line answered
Well maybe he really likes you and is afraid to talk to you because he doesnt want to make a fool out of himself
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Anonymous answered
I have the same problem. My friends tell me that it's because he loves me SO MUCH. And he is just too nervous because he really likes me.
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brianne badiola answered
He's shy super shy because your super hot to him (thats how my boyfriend is) so hes's super shy round you thats y
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Anonymous answered
My bf doesnt tlk to me because hes shy and scared tht he'll screw up, but I love him anyways :)
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Anonymous answered
The days befor my bf asked me out he texted me and taked to all the time and now that we are  dating  alll that stoped.. What do I do
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Anonymous answered
Oh my god thats happening to me too, like we have been dating for almost 5 months and he still never talks to me, my friend goes to his house and he tells me that my bf always wants to talk to me but my bf is scared that I might be uncomfortable talking about things.
But my bf communicates with me by a site, btw as him why, I asked him and he said sorry for not talking to me, but he still doesnt
he broke his collor bone and arm a few days ago too, I want to say I'm sorry for what happened BUT I'm to scared!!
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Anonymous
Anonymous commented
My boyfriend is the same way! He texts me all the time but doest talk 2 me in public. I think you should talk to him ( text email or even in person) you shouldnt be scared and if u say something to him i think he will really appreciate it! I hope this helped
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Anonymous answered
At first in my relationship my boyfriend was REALLY shy. He barely talked to me. I was so scared that he didnt like me. But after a while we warmed to each other. We still have some weird moments were we don't know what to talk about. But he still talks to one of his ex's...my friend....it does bother me...but I know he loves me. So stick with it and hopefully he will warm up to you.
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Char Sparrow answered
My bf the same! : ( and we've been goin out for 8 months and I'm 12 xx but I always hang around with him and also my bestfriend fancies him so its really akward x lol but he loves me and I know that ; ) he tells me I'm fit sexy and we do kiss and hug a lot! But also when we get talking its calming because hes the 1 person I know I can tell everything to (yn) and he wont laugh, shrug or tell anyone I love him more than my family and everybody else in the world!!! Xx hes mine 4eva (L) so don't worry its normal because my bf gets told by all his friends to dump me and he wont even with all that presure I know it would upset me :'(
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Winter answered
Maybe he is nervous about what you like, and he may talk to his ex's because he knows them more. If its more than an occasional hi with the ex girlfriends, then you should be worried.
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Anonymous answered
I don't really know what to suggest to you because I am12 years of age and it is hard for me because my mother don't understand me and they don't listen I am going through this same problem my boy friend and I weren't talking and yesterday I dumped him because I was talking to his friend and he was telling his friend's sister he don't care about me an I still love him I don't want to tell you to lie to him but you can spy on him without him knowing I have to go now bye I will talk to you tomorrow

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