No, it has nothing to do with you! Some guys can have sex with a girl/wife and then a little bit later when she is asleep get that urge to start stroking it. Girls, get over that thought of them not being attracted to you. It is just something that is there and we got to touch it. Before the internet is was magazines and video tapes.
There can be adverse affects if you (the female) are not contributing to their sexual desires. Sometimes you girls expect us to initiate everything as well as take care of you and then climb up on top. If you are not willing to step up and initiate sometimes or grab your man's manhood every once in a while, he might get bored with your came old routine. But remember that, yea some of you out there might think it is cheating, but that is a million times different if he goes out and actually cheats on you. I have never heard of someone giving themselves an STD from masturbation? Sexual intimacy with someone else is the first step in loosing your lover. Yes, I know it works both ways. Peace Out!
There can be adverse affects if you (the female) are not contributing to their sexual desires. Sometimes you girls expect us to initiate everything as well as take care of you and then climb up on top. If you are not willing to step up and initiate sometimes or grab your man's manhood every once in a while, he might get bored with your came old routine. But remember that, yea some of you out there might think it is cheating, but that is a million times different if he goes out and actually cheats on you. I have never heard of someone giving themselves an STD from masturbation? Sexual intimacy with someone else is the first step in loosing your lover. Yes, I know it works both ways. Peace Out!
