How Do You Make Out With A Guy? How Do You Move Your Tongue And How Long Do You Make Out? Please Help Me!

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How to make out with a guy is a common concern- and, especially if you feel inexperienced, having that passionate first kiss can sometimes seem like a daunting experience. Perhaps this is the sort of conversation that you could have with the guy involved, but keep in mind that all guys will want things to be done differently and if they are listened to, one will give information that will suit them but may not suit others.

The main thing to aim for is to feel relaxed, if you feel tense- chances are this will reflect in your kissing. Just start gradually, mouths should be open, and the tongues put together.  Move it round in little circles and see what happens.  Once this has been done try to assess what he is doing and if it is different to what was expected try to do the same as him.  Don’t get too hung up on it and it will be fine.

There is not really a right and wrong way but what is best for both people.  common advice is that it will just come naturally and you will know what to do at the time and this is right.  As long as the person tries to relax and doesn’t spend all the time thinking if it is being done right or not.

One tip would be to keep a check on the saliva.  If there seems to be too much back off a bit and wait until both mouths dry up a bit.  The couple can end up with chapped chins and that is not a good look for anyone.  Also remember to breathe - he may be put off if a partner keeps on passing out on him.

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Well I am going to answer everyones question. But first I'm going to tell you the story of my first kiss. It was with this guy I wasnt too sure I liked and all our friends were pressuring us to kiss. I told them it would be awkward in front of all of them so me and him left the room. He asked me why I was so nervous and I told him I had never made out before. And I know it sounds like an awkward situation but it wasnt at all. He just told me to try. So we kissed and no, we didnt start with one kiss, we started making out. I wasnt too sure what to do with my tongue but something inside me told me I should move it from the right to the left. So I instantly did that. Yes it came natural to me but don't EXPECT IT TO BE NATURAL TO YOU! Then I remembered a trick my friend told me. Try and write out the alphabet out with your tongue in his mouth. Guys really like this and it provides variation so it doesnt get boring. When you run out of letters, START AGAIN! So here is my advice to you. 1. Don't be scared to tell him it is your first time. 2. Be sure to open and close your mouth. It should be about half the speed of how fast you chew. If you still arent sure, follow his lead. 3. Spell the alphabet with your tongue. It sounds really funny, but guys LOVE it. 4.   Try and move your head from side to side after every 2 minutes. 5. Have fun and try new things.
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Lol ive kissed a guy before but nevr made out nd thanks for the advice but how do you know a guy LOVES it when u spell the alphabet with ur tounge in his mouth? Oh nd i have a spacer in my mouth,its like in the roof of my mouth nd theres medal things conected to it going to my back teeth, 1 on each side so 2 nd its small but u can tell its there. Is that gonna affect the kiss when making out? Ikits a weird question but idk if hell be confused or id...grossed out? HELP! Anyone!
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Rpbyn Dymond commented
Thanks Anonymouse! You really helped me get thru my first actual makeoout session! You have really good advice abou the hole abc's thing. It really worked! Ans ym boyfriend was like are u sure u've never made out with anyone before.
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Okay everyone calm down a for a second. I see there is a lot if first timers ere panikibg but there is nothing to worry about. Here is some tips:
1. **make sure the guy actually likes and that he's not the type of guy who is only in it for the fun. This is key!!! I know lots of guys who are only in it for the fun. They will say something nice about you and ten ask later if you want to make out. That is usually the guy who wants the fun so beware.
2. Brush your teeth really well and Eat a mint or nice tasting gum before you make out- trust me it helps
3. No offence but 11-14 year old shouldn't be making out in the first place. Kissing is one thing but not full course making out. Save it for when your older and more educated.
4. Let the guy lead and follow his movements( and if your truly comfortable with him you can tease him a bit)
5. Close your eyes right before your lips touch. It will make it akward having them open
6. Make sure you guys are in a quiet place where you are not going to be disturbed. It might lead to akwardness after
7. RELAX!! If your tense he will pick on it and the make out will not go so good
8. Make sure your lips are moist enough because if they not your and his lips might get stuck together
9. Clear your thought of all other distractions and concentrate.
10. Wrap your arms around his neck or slide your fingers thru the hair at the back of his head.   
11. If you feel uncomfortable and want to stop, send him signals like slowing down , and go back to kissing on lips for a couple of seconds. Hopefully he will respect your signals
12.  If the guy is enjoying it so much and he is pushing  to have sex and you don't want to ( which I highly reccommend not to for first timers. Wait til your older and when the time is right and you will know when it is) make sure your body launguage is clear that you don't want to like not going with his lead toward sex ect
13. Making out comes natural just think positive and you will do fine
14. After font go running to your BFFs and tell everyone you made out because it might lead to bad rumors and akwardness.
Hope this helped 
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Alicia Vittitoe answered
Ok I've had some difficulties with this before, but you'll get the hang of it. All you have to do is just kiss a few times(2-3 at the most) then you "lick your lips" while you're kissing him that last time. This will give the the idea that you want to make out. Once he goes along with it, GENTLY stick your tongue in his mouth. It'll help a little to relax and have fun. Try something like gently pushing his tongue up from the bottom, then he'll take the lead. Occasionally move your tongue, but let him do most of the work. If you don't know what to do with your hands, follow his lead. If he likes holding your head or face, place your hands on his chest or around his waist. If he likes holding your waist, put your hands around his neck or in his hair. If he grabs your hands, just let him! Just be sure to avoid stiffness, and it would help to drop hints before you kiss too. For instance, if he says something flirty, bend your head down a little and let your hair fall into your face a bit. Then crease your lips a little, and look straight into his eyes. He will eventually pick up on the fact that you want to kiss. If you follow these simple tips, I'm sure it'll be memorable. I hope I've been some help! (:
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I was nervous to do it my first time too, but once you start doing it its not that bad.
Just basically go with the flow. Make sure your breath doesnt stink(; also make sure you go slow and not too fast. Stay in your space and don't lean in too far or else your partner will have to keep going back and thats not good. Make sure your eyes are closed. You can't really mess up it kinda just happens, usually if your partner leans in they will turn their head slightly and if they don't its okay just make sure you tilt your head a little bit. Its best to wrap your arms around the person, it shows more affection and your partner will know that you are into the kiss. Don't think about it when your doing it, just do it, you wont mess up. Well thats basically all.
~ you will be okay (:
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Okay everyone is saying the guy starts first, but i don't know if my boyfriend wants to make out yet! We've been dating for two and a half months, and i want my first make out to be with him! I know he hasn't made out before but i just really want to, please help me in trying to leave him little hints that i want make out!
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Its not tht hard to make out with sum 1!!!
If your a grl, to turn a guy on...
1.) just give him atleast 2 little pecks on the lips
2.) scoot close to him and kiss him 1 last time openin your mouth slightly
3.) rub your tongue against his lips GENTLY!!!
4.) do this until he glides his tongue into your mouth (guyz do it slowly!)
5.) pull away slowly leaving him pulling you closer!
It wrks trust mee!!!  :)

if your a guy...
1st and most important don't do anything too extreem!
2.) rub your fingers gently agross her cheek OR rub them gently through her hair
3.) slowly get reely close to her until your lips just touch
4.) talk to her very softly saying things you know she wants to hear like I love you or you look great today... Stuff like tht!
5.) slowly go in for a kiss and wait for her lead... Don't do anything you know she wont like!

I know for a fact this wrks good luck and just chill... Ull be fine1  ;)
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Well I'm 13 and in grade 9 (I skipped a grade) and my boyfriend is 14 in grade 9 also, He made out before but only once. So this one night I was texting him and he asked me if I ever made out before and I said no so he said We should try it sometime. And right afterschool I was going over to his house and he asked me if I wanted to try to make out... When we were walking I stopped and kissed him but I got shy and stopped and we started walking again. But when we got to his place, we went into his room and started making out there where no one could see. My point is that it's acctually really easy, just follow that alphabet thing and make sure he does most of the work. Another thing is that let him know you want to and make sure your alone the first time. I also have a stupid spacer with a plastic thingy at the roof of my mouth and those metal bars that go to my back teeth on both sides, what I did was let him know (The metal bars are sharp and I sometimes cut my tognue) that I had the spacer and he thought it was cool and it all worked out good for me. But another thing is that do it with someone that you can trust not to tell everyone if you make a mistake like biting his tongue or coughing in the middle of the kiss, which my friend did her first time, Lmao. So yeah, Hope I helped Chickies! I LOVE YOU all! Peace :P
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I've made out a few times before, but they've all been bad experiences! All the guys I've made out with have been bad kissers, and it was too sloppy and I ended up with spit all over my face. I've never felt "sparks" or "butterflies" with any of them. Because of that, I'm kind of scared of making out now... Since I've been disgusted in the past.
But my advice to you girls is to not be afraid of making the first move... Sure, it's more romantic if the guy does, but it's 2O1O! You can start the makeout too you know! Just start by flirting a bit, & teasing him.. Then stare at him into the eyes deeply, and put your hands around his neck. Lean in and give him a few small pecks, then some open mouthed kisses. Don't start out with tongue right away. Once you're both comfortable with eachother, either slide your tongue in his mouth, or wait for him to do so. Don't shove your tongue down too far and choke him though! Put it in about halfway, and try writing the alphabet with your tongue. Don't forget about your hands.. Try caressing his face with your fingertips, or running them through his hair. The little things can make making out even better. Once you want to stop kissing, just pull away slightly, then kiss him once more passionately. Then, rest your head on his shoulder, or just pull him in for a hug. Hope this helped!
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Ok, so people get all freaked out over their first kiss right? And you now know that once thats over with it is so easy and it just comes naturally, right? Well making out is the same! Start out with a short kiss then lean in again and sorta touch your toung to their lips if they open their mouth a little more slide your tongue in a little farthur and what do you know, your making out! Also it helps if you copy what your partner does with their mouth.  If your a girl, put your hands around the guy's neck or in his hair.  If your a guy, put your hands on her hips or around her waist or on her back but don't get too pushy! If you think that you are going a bit to far don't be afraid to ask!!! If you trust your partner it helps and make shure that they want to make out too!!!  Oh and make shure that you are in a place where you are not going to be interrupted cause it can get pretty awkward if you do!!! Alone is best until you're comfortable with being around people!!!  I seriously hope that I helped. My last peice of advice for you is this:  Make shure that you put some emotion behind it cause it's no fun making out with a brick wall! And don't be tense! Your partner can tell if you are!!! Good luck! :) :) :) !!!
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This is really gunna help with my first time so thanks
Sydney McDonald
Sydney McDonald commented
What about teeth?!?!??!?
They always hit his!
Why?!
How do i make it stop?!
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I'm 12 and me and my bf after datin for not even a day we made out so don't be afraid it's not that bad unless ur bf is kinda bad which mine is but stil it's feels soo good I guess idk how to explain it
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Must be a first timer, huh? Well, go with the flow. Kissing comes natural...Give him a little tongue a little bit at a time..A kiss should be sensual and gentle...Not all sloppy and messy....Tease him a little by kissing his lips (without the tongue at first) kiss him sensually and gently, then gaze into his eyes right before you put your tongue into his mouth...Then when you slide your tongue in is mouth, slide it in slowly and everything else will fall into place. Hope my advice was some help to you!
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Kayla Not telling u!!!!!!
OK my bf and i have been going out for 4 to 5 months and he wants to make out. He did it with his last gf and i have NO clue how to. We have kissed already but im scared to use touge and every. Idk how to move it. I love my bf and he loves me but i need help on how to make out PLZ!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
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My bf hasn't made out with me yet. I'M SO NERVOUS! My last make out was horrible, he tried tongue and I wasn't ready for it so i pulled away with his spit in my mouth! EW! So I'm scared to accidentally do that with my new bf!! How do I start the tongue? Where do they usually like it? How long should it be? I really want to do this, but I'm scared that he may not be or that I'll mess up!
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I dont know what to do! HELP! I see ppl on TV make out French style and it looks fun but so complicated! I don't know what to do! I haven't even made out yet my bf is trying to do it French style! HELP!
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Okay so you want o make out with a guy what teenage girl doesnt ? So  there are a few was you can tell when he is ready or wants to if you are looking at him and he is looking back, you lick your top lip softly and if he doesnt it back move closer then give him a few little touches like play with his hand rub his knee I tiny bit or else he will think that you are into somthing else . Then you want him to have to work for it or else he will think he can push you over soo what you do it tease him give him a few peks on the lips of course ( 2 or 3 ) then give him a sweet, sexy and dangoures smile then lean in and givehim another kiss but when you are leaning in lick his lips lightily and then open your mouth and if or when he opens him lick his lips again and put your tounge in a little bit and if he does the same star by playing with his toung or softly massaging it with yours and then when you are kissing rub the back of his neck or play with his hair and when you are done give him the same smile and there you go he will think you have been doing this forever
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Hey you guys!! Well awhile back me and my boyfriend had been dating for like 3 weeks and were really into each other. We live like 5 min away from each other so he started walking to my house and I met him half way. Well he knew I had never had my first kiss before and ( I really wanted it to be with him) soo I was looking away from him and his arm was around my waist and he said " Soo do you want me to be your first kiss?" And,,,, I said " yeah I guess so" and next thing I knew he tilted towards me and we were having our first kiss together as a couple! And ofcourse my first kiss. Then when we got done I said " that was weird cause I wasn't ready." So he said " Do you want to retry?" and I said yes haha. And we did and he stuck his tongue in my mouth and we started making out I guess lol. Even though I was flippin nervous it all came naturally!!(: So I hope I helped some of you people out there! C you!!!
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HMM,, (: My "first kiss", turned into a make out,
It stated out with him asking me if he could kiss me
I answered with an "I don't know, can you?"
Although I was thinking "Yes! Yes you CAN kiss me!!"
I thought it was going to be a nice, sweet, kiss, I was wrong,
He started to stick in his tongue, I wasn't sure if I was ready for that, so I stopped kissing him.
Then he pulled me back in for another kiss, I went for it, every now and then I would pull back. . . . Talk to him, then he would pull me in again. I liked it. I can't even remember what I did with my tongue. I do remember me putting my hand on his face, just laying it there, and then we were holding hands, then my hand was just placed gently on his knee. But, there was this time, where he accidently   licked the bottom of my tiny nose as I was pulling away, I just giggled, then so did he. Just be yourself, ohh and I read in a magazine to make circles with your tongue on the roof of his mouth. Because it's a place that's never touched, so it makes it even more magical, I couldn't do it because I have a small tongue:(
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First of all, kissing comes natual. The first time I ever madeout with a guy I didn't know a thing and it just...came with it. Second of all, have your lips follow his if your a beginner. Don't use tounge for a bit untill you guys really get the hang of it, THEN try. Just movie it it and out and I lick the roof of their mouths, I know that sounds gross but guys think it's sexy. I love making out and it just comes naturally. Just relax, have fun, and make love (JK).

Btw brush the guys bottom lip lightly with your toungenwhile making out. It's tickles them and the guys love it. ;)
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Ok. I had this exact same problem ! I had kissed before but never an actual long kiss. I was reallly nervous because I thought I would just screw everything out if a guy tried to make out with me. I even went on these websites for tips ! Ahah. So, one day my boyfriend (now ex ) kissed me and started making out with me. I had no clue what to do but I just went with it. People say that it just comes natural, and I thought that that was a load of crap, but guys, its actually true ! I don't know, you just don't even have to think about it. But my tips are not to use too mucch tongue, because then its just awkwardd. And you can make out for as long as you want unless its not boring :P trust me, I had the exact same issue and everything was finee.
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Making out is no big deal ii promisee !(: I'm 14 & I have a 17 yr old bf , when we first made ou he was goin hardcore lol ! What I do is wait for him to put his tongue in my mouth and guys like it when you suck their tongue . So thats what me and him do ! Ii just open your mouth and start kissin if you wait long enough he will make the move! DO NOT SHOVE YOUR TONGUE DOWN HIS THROAT ! Lol then we he sticks his tongue in your mouth suck on it ! As you release it kiss him gently that is for the girls who want their guys HORNY (: Girls that don't , do not suck their tongue gently kiss and move your tongue as he moves his ii promise it works ! Ii hope I gave you good advice
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Arissa Rose answered
To make out, you don't have to think of it as this big production where you molest one another. If you are in it for the love and passion I suggest you read on...if not sorry...I have never "made out" with anyone although I do feel very passionatly and strongly about my boyfriend....Here are my thoughts...

If you are in a position where you have him where you want him (next to you-beside you-easily "accessible" for a kiss) then start looking at his lips. Only a few seconds every once and a while while you talk (if you talk) if not...

"Break the touch barrier" I know that these things about kissing always tell you that its good to do and helps...IT REALLY DOES HELP!...getting comfortable with one another and touching one another will bring you closer, and more likely he will want to kiss you.

If you are on a full-thread-makeout-lap-thing...then sexy is key...touching his neck, ears, ect...

"Body language"   YES...THIS REALLY WORKS!.....move your body with him...manuvering yourself with him-onto him, ect...

If you are standing: Hugs are always a good start...js...Wrap your arms around him and look at him (give him a sexy stare.....lots of love and compassion)

KISS...=)..."tilt your head...    Lean in...   Lock lips... "    come on...you've been to hundreds of other websites with the same crap...   (WikiHow also works very well for you panickers out there)  www.wikihow.com/Kiss :website:  

Touching him while kissing...is a major turn on...
Lip coordination: Kiss his bottom lip with your head tilted to one side (works well) and vice versa, let go and change sides and go to the upper lip..ect...

Open mouthed kiss (French kiss) while kissing and coordinating your lips and movements gently ever so slightly, let your tongue slide across his lower lip, he should get the hint (if not go back to kissing)
Back to making out...its pretty much everything here combined into your own personal customized kiss...
I really hope I help...thanks and good luck!!!! =)
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Wow everyone needs to calm down ! Making out is no big deal . Alright, me & my boyfriend just started dating like 5 days ago . & we have liked eachother & have been talking for months . We've been hanging out a lot before we dated, but never kissed . I have madeout before but we just thought we shouldn't do it because we weren't dating . Anyways, the other day he asked me out at an amusement park & we made out that day . All you do is first kiss him a few times to get used to him . Then when you/you both are ready either you or him will open your mouth & slip one of your tongue's in ! It's really not that hard . You just move it in different directions . I personally move it diagonally & then side to side . & if you want to, you can spell the alphabet ! I hope I helped at least someone : )
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Okay look I had my first kiss like an hour ago,nd it helps if you want to kiss or make out to give him clues or to tell him in a fun,flirty,sexy way.my story is that I layed his head on my lap nd I looked a him staight in the eyes then to his lips.ITS REALLY IMPORTANT TO BREAK THE TOUCH BARRIER!then he got up nd I layed my head on his shoulder nd I kissed his shoulder,then his neck,then his cheek.but more like close to his mouth,like on the edge.nd I got the same advice from a friend to move your tounge to write the alphabet!remember,lower case!a,b,c,d,e,f,g,h,I,j,k,l,m,n,o,p.then start all over.and if you want to see if hes enjoying it hang on to his hair,not too tight,and scoot your head back a little.or listen to his breathing!if hes breathing hard,he loves it!and after your done do a sigh with a little happy squeal mixed with a smile.he'll think its adorable!well,hope I helped!oh nd don't be afraid to tell him how he did.honesty is the best pollicy in a relationship
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My first kiss, was crazy intense and kind of embarassing.. We were sitting on my couch, no one was home and he pulled me close, he kissed me gently ONCE and I had my tougure down his throat! It was soo embarassing because I ended up biteing his tounge and he pulled a way and looked at me funny and I told him it was my first time and he respected it.. Guy's love being girls first kisses so don't be afraid to tell them you've never done this before, he tought me a few tricks and now I'm the best kisser around lol the first step is: Don't be scared, they will know when your panicked and will stop because they think they are crossing a line. The second trick is don't use to much tounge, thats the last thing you want is to gag him. The third is make it gental, put emotion behind it. And the last one is maybe try writing your abc's on his tounge, it feels good for your partner because your mixing up your stroaks, so your tounge hit's different spots on your partners.. Don't be nervous, I hoped this helped!
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zoe forquer answered
Okay, So ill tell you my story about first kiss. & first make out. (both were standing up btw, if that makes a difference) but what I learned is that you can't go out looking for someone to kiss. You have to let them come to you...
FIRST KISS.
His name was riley, & he was two years older then me. His younger brother was my age, and that made things every awkward because his brother, trey, & I had a thing. And at the same time I had a thing with another boy named dillon.. (don't judge) so trey liked me, & dillon & I were 'talking'. So I live in a small town & in this small town we would have a town game of 'cops & robbers' so riley & I his together. Behind a tree.... He didnt know he was my first, but he was, and he just asked me if he could kiss me, & he wouldnt stop. So I just bent in and gave him what he wanted. And I was not prepared, my teeth werent brushed for atleast 12 hours. My breath was bad & my lips were chapped. But as we kissed. I closed my eyes a split second be for our lips touched. As our lips touched, I just pressed my lips together & he started to suck my lips. So I pulled away & we kissed 5 times after it.
MAKEOUT.
I was with Dillon, & the other couple, Cory & Amanda, (btw, its awkward to make out in front of other people because they watch, & even worse with people around for first time makeouts) so we were all walked around our small town & Dillon stopped me & cory & amanda walked a head of us. & yes this was standing up in the middle of a street at 10:15 at night. But this was my first time & I so didnt see it coming & it came 100% naturally. Promise :) but anyway. He stopped me & hugged me, then he swung me around and pulled me in for it. Our lips touch & he put his tounge in my mouth. It was one of the greatest moment ever because it was with the guy I really really liked & he was a good... GREAT kisser. & he was older so he knew more moves then I did. So as we kissed, we moved our tounges & just went back and forth & took breathes for air, :) haha, we made out for like 5 minutes. It was a while ikik. But still it was a great moment,
SO I PROMISE YOU: Let it come naturally & you will have absolutely no problem! (:
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Anonymous answered
First timers eh? Ok when kissing your girlfriend or boyfriend start off as just a little kiss as it leads on to a makeout--if your partner opens their mouth,gently slide your tongue in their mouth--don't shove it down their throat or anything just barely...TIPS ARE SHOWN BELOW:
1)always have great breath
2)don't breathe through your mouth! Breathe through your nose
3) be gentle not too sloppy
4)don't be slobbery--that isn't nice :/
5)also--expirement,find out what  your partner like [yhu know they like it when theyre not the 1st to break away]
thanx for your time and I reely hope this helps!
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Anonymous answered
It honestly does come naturally. My first makeout with with this guy that said he liked me. I liked him and we were at the park. We kissed and he slid his tongue in my mouth. We madeout for about a minute. Just massage eachothers tonue and RELAX. Now weve benn 2gether since then and that was almost a year ago. Weve madeout a lot since then and hes really good at it :) just sart with a kiss open your mouth a little slide your tongue in and massage his. Play with it. Hope this helps!
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Alright, I understand everyone's problem with making out. Ive done it myself and ive heard from many of my friends and trust me, it's pretty easy. Start off by kissing a few times (like 4 or 5) then open your mouth a little wider then you would while kissing. As you continue your boyfriend will get the picture that its ready to make out. Stick your tounge in his mouth and play along with it (he will do the same) when finished just kiss once more. The most perfect make out in my life, have fun (:
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Oh my god i took your advice and it works amazing and now we make out all the tims thank you soooooo much
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Miranda Harris answered
I'm 14 and my boyfriend has madeout with PLENTY of girls, and I barely even kiss him!! Two nights ago I was on youtube trying to figure out how to make out and it was NO help!!! So when me and my boyfriend were at the movies, we were kissing and he put his tongue in my mouth and I bit it! Baaaad mistake! He knows that was my first time, so then I tried again, and its not something that someone can explain, it just sorta happens! Now when we are together he ALWAYS wants to make out so I could be better! But advice, don't use your teeth!!
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Hii, the funny thing about that is that my boyfriend and i kiss, but he never really takes control i have to START the leaning and than yeah..... But he wants to make out and instead of being unonomous and wild.... He asked me. WTF it was so lame, so i was on youtube the other day looking at things to, so true not very helpful ^_^
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Well making out can be very scary and nervracing, make sure to have mints or minty gum because you definately don't want to have bad breathe when you are switching spit!
What you do first is Start by kissing, then you stick you're tongue into you're partners mouth YUMMY!!:)
Once all that starts happening move you're tongue with you're partners, usually if you are the girl you let the boy lead:P
Once that happens continue for as long as you decide to.. I say The longer the better!

When you make out you might want to go a quite comfortable place where not to many people are because some people think it is awkward like my friends:p

HAVE FUN SWITCHING SPIT!!!! And make sure you really like the person you're making out with because you don't want to do something if you don't like the person:P

Hope I helped and GOOD LUCK!!
Bonnee Channce!!;)
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You first start off by slowly kissing them.
Then after one kiss you let your lips press against his slowly, and then kiss him a few more times (3-5).
You then open your mouth and then move your lips back together.
After a little bit of doing that, slowly stick your tongue in his mouth and move it around inside of his mouth.
Don't keep your tongue in his mouth for too long, it begins to get awkward.
When the kissing gets more intense if he grabs your hips, gently slide your fingers through his hair.
Let him pull you closer, things will get more exciting.
Making out on top of each other is way better.
Believe me(;
Be careful to not let things get too far.
Especially if it's your first boyfriend, or you are not ready.
Kissing is fun, but make sure your breath smells good!
Or it is not very enjoyable for the other person.
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First of all you start with just a peck on the lips. Then you start kissing and little longer every time. As soon as you think your ready open your mouth. Then place your tongue in his/her mouth and slowly circle the tip of their tongue with the tip of your tongue.Then get more physical (only if you want to... One step at a time.) by putting your tongue fully in their mouth and go round their mouth (like a washing machine but very slowly.)
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Ok I'm a guy and making out is actually very easy. As many people said just be natural. All you have to do is tilt your head and gently press your lips against his. Then he will open his mouth and you should do the same. When he puts his tongue in your mouth play with it and put your tongue in his mouth. After you do this a little it will all come natural and ull see how easy it is. If your still nervous remember that he's probably just as nervous as you and remember that most guys are very easy to please.
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Well first you should know how important it is to not just follow the crowd. I'm not trying to be your mom or anything, but I'm only 23 and I have 3 children. Not that making out is how you become pregnant but it can lead to other things that you are not ready for. I started being sexual way too young and there are a lot of things I've done that I regret.

I just don't want you to go too fast or get in over your head and live your life filled with regret. Just please don't do anything you truly don't want to do, just to fit in. It won't be worth it. If you truly are ready to kiss a guy or "make-out" then it will just come to you when you are ready. I can't really explain, you'll just kind of know what to do. Just please start out slow. There's nothing wrong with just kissing someone you truly like and stopping there. When you are ready to take it to the next level, your body will tell you what to do.
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Alright well my first time making out was amazing . Sometimes, if you're a girl you have to take a bit of control esp. If your guy is shy. So basically you start by teasing him; like rubbing his arms and chest and giving him pecks on the check and lips. When you're ready, open your mouth a bit to show him you want to go further. If he doesnt do anything after a few seconds, move your toungue out to touch his lips .. If he doesnt let you in, just kiss him some more until he's comfortable. If he still doesnt let you make out with him, ask him if you pushed too far .. Most guys are just really shy and don't want to tell you .. Anyways what I'm trying to say, is pretty much do it your own way. Be creative! Just ask him if hes ready .. And make sure you don't push too hard esp with your hands and tongue!
Anyways, hope I helped! :)
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Ive pretty much got the same problem. I started to make out with my boyfriend (my first time, not his) and I got so nervous.. And I laughed. It was horrible.. Now were joking around saying that he is going to work on my kissing and yea. Everyone makes fun of me now, but he doesn't care, the thing is, I shouldn't have been nervous but at least he still kisses me and stuff! What got it started though, was I put my forehead against his and then I kissed him once. Just a kiss. Then, it just kinda happened. You'll be ok though don't worry about it!
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My boyfriend has already made out and he just thinks i did also but i haven't and he thinks that i'll be able to make out with him with no problem but i am scared that i'll do something wrong and i don't know if i'll be a good kisser or not. I am so scared but hopefully things go okay if we do make out.. But can someone tell me how i should like move my tongue in his mouth and how i do that while kissing? PLEASEE!
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I'm nervous for mine. He's "experienced" so he knows what he's doing...I on the other hand...not so much! My last one went horrible I pulled away as he was trying to get me closer! I hope with my new bf that wont happen again...or the other way around...
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Easy, relax and act like you have been waiting for this moment forever .  Running your fingers through his hair or holding his neck or lower back are all optional but highly suggested.  Move your tongue in gentle motions slowly around the inside of his mouth.  No slurping, no poking, no licking his face off.  Got it?  Make out until he pulls away or until the urge to make-out is lessin-ing.  If you are just looking for a quick make-out, 20-25 seconds is average.
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Ok well you no if a guy wnts to make out because when you kiss him his tongue is pressed against your lips and justt open your mouth and it comes naturally justt close your eyes and let his tounge go in your mouth first then move your tounge rite next to his and move it with his. Don't move quickly tho don't go rite for tounge I made tht mistake before it was on my bus and me and this guy just started makin out and I really liked him so I got nervous and kinda just wnt to fast and thn everyone started makin fun of me but it was more like playful teasing but anyways hope I helped!
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Okay I'll tell you my first time. First off make sure before you kiss that your teeth and tougue are brushed that way youre all smooth and stuff. Then pop in some minty gum. Chew it and please do him a favor and spit the gum out before you start kissing. Well  ill tell you about my first time kissing a guy. We were at school. We had been going out for two days and in front of everyone, he just grabs me and puts his lips toward mine. I couldnt deny it so I just went with it. Truthfully my first kiss was just like any other kiss and I only remember because my teacher was right next to us! Oh well I still love him tho and even tho we arnt together anymore, he was the best kisser ever! But basically it comes naturally so you really don't have to worry a bit. Because trust me I didnt know a thing about kissing and he told me that my kisses were the best. Just shake it off and let it come to you:]
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All guys are different, so for me to tell you what I like, your boyfriend my not like. How long have you been together, and do you feel comfortable talking to him. If so, hes the one to ask. I'm sure he wont mind telling you what pleases him, and on the other hand, tell him what you like, and experiment.
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Okay guys stop freaking out!! Its not hard here let me explain..alright so the guy will lick his lips (well you both have 2) thats when you sorta know but he'll like get closer then you'll just start I personally had to tell my bf to stop using tongue because he's like obsessed with it but some guys do a lot of tongue! And it gets really slobbery so what out ahha
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Well, I've made out with a lot of guys. And truthfully its not that hard.. All you really have to do is kiss him a few times with your mouth open a bit, then tease him a bit. Then he will get the idea.. Then just slip your tongue in there. Making Out is amazing. Butt It can lead to sex if you aren't careful. Hope I made.
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Seriously every1 calm down! Makeing out is so easy. You just move your tongue on/with your g.f / b.f . But make sure you are abs. Ready to makendut because if not then its going to be a horrible experience! P.s have a yummy tangy candy right before you think its going to happen it will really make you partner never want to take there tongue out of your mouth! (: Good luck!
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Alright, so I know this may sound a little strange. But my best friend has this extremly hot brother, (2 years olderr) we knew each other for a really long time. We trust each other so much. And we both like each other. Well he texted me asking if I would make out with him and I really want too.. But I'm not sure exactly how!? I never done it before and it would be his second time. HELP!
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Okay first you open mouth kiss, then once you really get into it then your partner (guy ] will slightly move his tongue in your mouth . And then you start moving your tongue and there you go . Oh yeah .. (if you don't know where to move your tongue then I guess just move it side to side ] and wait at least till 20 sec.  Oh yeah and breathe through your nose . NOT your mouth . Then it'll just go with the flow . And come natural it will like come natural . Don't be nervous either because the more your nervous then you'll just mess up . Then you'll look retarded . Oh yeah and umm ... Right before, you should brush,floss, and use mouth wash . Or get a breath mint . Or I highly suggest you use gum though . Well sory if my advice didnt help youu :'( well good luckk (:
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Okay you shouldn't really be kissing at 11=\  you shouldn't really be kissing til like at least 14 I think=) so enjoy your childhood with out all the trouble of love and everything=)
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Well when I made out with my boyfriend it was kinda natural well we had just finished play rehearsals and everyone left so he kissed me and I kissed him back in the middle of the stage then we went back stage and we were against a wall making out but then my dad (hes the headmaster of my school) with really important people came I didnt notice them until my dad went "annie" then we stopped and I went "oh I can explain" so he just said "home now" so I went home and mum was all understanding and then it was my prom my boyfriend had booked us a hotel room for after prom and then my dad gae me the "sex talk" on the way to my prom so didnt think he trusted me so I just walked off and then my boyfriends ex girlfriend was there and told me that he was in the shower in her room so I went home cry to find out that he wasnt she was just annoyed with me!!!!!
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Okay, so I'm 14 and there's a guy I like that's about 17. We just met about a month ago but we both like each other. We've only talked before and we made plans to hang out in a couple of days. We're going to the movies and even though I don't know him that well I want to makeout with him, or at least kiss him. I don't know if he wants to kiss me too though. I've only kissed a guy before and it was two years ago but I told this guy that I have experience. I don't know if he has experience but I think so. Also I've never madeout so I'm nervous. And I have braces and he doesn't so I'm afraid that he won't like making out with me because it might be different with braces. I hear the whole thing comes naturally but I'm nervous about whether or not I want to! Well I know I want to but I don't know if he'll want to. The whole thing is just nerve-wracking. And I appreciate help!
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Welll I havent made out with someone yet but my boyfriend plans to make out with me on saturday and he doesnt want to makeout with me if I don't want to . And I want to make out with him and havent before he said he wil show me and things will be fine I'm scared shitless here. I have just spent the past lil while reading all these posts tht everyone has posted and I found all of it VERY helpful in telling me how to makeout and what to do . It has made me less nervous. Anyways bassically making out starts with a kiss then works it way up the guy makes the first move and  then the tounge comes in and  it starts slowly and you don't want to go to fast and  if the chick spells the ABC's in the dudes mouth then it makes it a better make out . I hope this helped. A lil because I kno all the things I read helped me (:
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Well I'm 13 and a kissed a guy before and it's pretty easy. But the second time we kissed I missed his chin!! So try to be aware of every move you make... Don't just go for it like a crazy person. But yes the kissin part comes natraully. Also make sure your body I really close to his... That's the key to making out , it makes you feel more comfterble with him. I'm still curios about the moving your mouth part and the tongue.... A guy txted me and said he wanted to hook up.... And I don't know how!!  He always says things like I want to see some tongue action and I do want to hook up with him because I like him. We aren't getting serious though because I know he likes someone else.... But I want to hook up with him anyway because everyone tells me it's fun and I want to try to meet with him asap!! PLEASE HELP ME!!
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Okay calm down every1!!!!! It's okay! It will all happen to y'all sooner or later so why not make it sooner? You just kiss him a few times then like on your third kiss make it last longer. About 5 seconds then he will probably get the picture and touch his young yo your lips. If he doesn't you touch your tounge to his. If he opens his mouth a little bit stick your tounge in a little bit (you do the same if he licks your lips). Then you try to make circles on the roof of his mouth. If you can't reach, just massage his tounge with yours. The thing is to do to him what you would want him to do with you. If you don't want to tell him. If he really likes you he will respect it. If you need more help 337-377-1132 is my number. I hope I helped!!!! I'm 12 btw.
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Aahh my first makeout was AWESOME ;) lol.. I was at his house, and he said 'hey lets watch a movie' so I was like okay wtv, and so he pickd the most romantic one he owned, lmao. Anway we went upstairs and we both sat on his bed. As the film went on we moved closer towards each other, till we were snuggled up. We were both pretty nervous as we were both 1st timers rite? Anyway, then he leaned in to just kiss normaly and (I know this sounds whorish lol) I was getin impatient so I slided my tongue in2 his and then we both just got the knack of it really quickly :) some tips though... 1. Make sure your breath isn't smelly lol 2. Don't go around in circles with your tongue lol 2. Take it slow 3. Don't show that your nervous 4. Keep your eyes closed lmaoo 5. Try not to bite him xD
I hope that my experience and advice helped :D x
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Well, I haven't done this before but from the things I've read. ..The guy starts it. Ten you go along with what he is doing. The way he moves his tongue, you move yours like that too. And to make it even better, more sensual I guess, grab on to the back of his head( but, not hard because you want it to feel natural, and not like you're trying to hold him down.)
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Well ok I will tell you I made out with my bf for the first time last night...and I was nervous but what you do is you kiss but add the tongue....just lil by lil and just when you feel him/her kinda pulling away then thats when you ll stop....sorry if I was no help
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Well basically you just put your tongue in his mouth then you move it with his. Don't go crazy the first time. Don't put too much spit in his mouth. Only put your tongue in a little bit. Not to much though. Then just move your tongue along with his. Like I said don't go real crazy the first time.. Then when hes done hell stop. But before you kiss eat a mint. Or eat a jolly rancher. Or to be creative you cud chew gum and have him get it out with his mouth. Well hope I helped1
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To start off start kissing him then back away for a few minutes then start kissing him again then you gently slide your tongue in and then pull it out so then he gets the idea then if hes already made out before then he'll take off from there but if not then then keep kissing him then add the tongue in again then im sure he will start soo. Then just go with the flow....after awhile it will come easy to you and you will know what to do and youll do it your way lol....
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Ok simple as this. If you only want to make out and go no further, then start with about 3 little pecks. After that hold your lips to his and let him decide when to start actually making out. If you want to go further, skip the pecks and just get to the making out. But make sure he wants the same because theres nothing more embarrassing than wanting something different and doing the complete opposite movements.
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It comes natural. Don't worry so much start out by kissing him once then see were things go.
My boyfriend and I both happen to have short tongues but we do ok so I'm sure you'll do fine.
And as far as your hands.. Play with his hair...or run your finger down his spine.. GOOD LUCK!
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Ok so I have read only a few of the comments...but it seems like a lot of you have talked about making out w/ your bf/gf, and wen its going to be. If you r going out with someone like that (who likes to talk about kissing and plans when to make out), its probably best that you back away. Making out just comes natural, don't plan it. ALSO, if your bf/gf really likes you, they wont care if you tell them that you have never made out, tell them the truth. If you two are going to make out, then you should be comfortable enough to tell them that sort of stuff. AND finally, when you do makeout, like other people have mentioned, spell out the alphabet on their tongue. Hope this helps ;)
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Hey (:  Trust me! You have 100% NOTHING to worry about.  It really does come naturally !  Its crazy how it does haha
just fallow the guy and everything will be perfect.  IF he really does like yuu , he wont care the way you kiss.  It will just all fall into place (:
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Ok ive never made out with a guy but ive done little pecks. This guy is coming to my house tomorrow (we rnt dating but we both like each other a lot) and he text ed me saying he wants to makeout with me. I'm really nervous because I don't really kno what to do besides stick your tongue in and follow the guys. I just don't get that tho. And how can you tell if your a good kisser or not??help me!!
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Before my first kiss I was so scared. He was trying to make me laugh and I was against a wall and he leaned with his hands against the wall by my head and I kept laughing and I was so nervous I would slowly sink to the ground. Then finally we kissed and people didnt believe we kissed so we kissed multiple times then it started raining. Then like finally a week later I finally made out with him. It was great :)  then the second time I kissed a guy it was with tongue and I never expected it at all I thought it was going to be a peck but it wasnt and that made me have butterflies all day and that kiss was all I could think of it was the best kiss ever :)
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Well I started dating this guy 4 days ago and he gave me my first kiss immediately after he asked me out, so he's moving quick. & last night he tried to make out with me in front of 3 of my friends and I have NO IDEA what to do! & it doesn't "come naturally"! I feel so dumb! He knows I've never made out, but still.
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My first real "make out" with tongue and stuff, well, my lip got caught in my boyfriends braces. Yeah, not a pretty picture. I started to bleed like crazy...Embarrassing, but since it was both of ours first time, he didn't mind much. He stared to laugh, and I did too. Then he took my hand and led me to the sink to clean me up. Romantic, right?!?
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Okay I spent so long looking up 'how to kiss' and 'how to make-out' and the moment finally came tonight where I made-out with one of my guy friends. I knew it was going to happen and I was freaking before hand but when the moment came it was really natural and easy. All the thoughts that were running through my head stopped and it was one of the easiest thing that I have ever done. I really hope this helps someone :)
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Ok so ive made out before with my boyfriend and he taught me but I think it was wrong..but I don't know. Now I'm going out with a guy thats older than me and he wants to make out and I'm nervous. Ive been with him for only a few days but have known each other for about a year..I know that people keep saying this advice but I don't know if it will just come to me..
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Its simply I was kinda the same way ive never made out with a Boi before and I started dating this 17 year old guy and me and him were walking one day and he stopped and turned me around in front of him and he kissed me and then he started makeout with me it was aw-cured but he didnt no that was my 1st time and he couldnt tell either lol so basically what I'm trying to say is don't force it it'll happen naturally and when it starts you'll no what to do

HOPE THIS HELPS
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Oh my god I LOVE my bf so much...we make out all the time. Its simple, just kiss a few times then add your tongue by putting it on his lips slowly. To make the guy want you even more you can tease him; kiss him passionately them suddenly pull away. Look into his eyes seductively and give him your cutest ssmile then walk away. When I do this to my bf he'll grab my waist and turn me around and kiss me, he'll hold me tight so its inescapable and kiss me till I'm dizzy. It makes him crazy for you and you will no doubt get a bit horny. !!! Luv and hope I helped
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My first time was awkward. He was hitting on me the whole night and when he got me alone  he grabbed me by the waist and leaned in.  I didn't know he was about the make a move so I hugged him. I felt like a total loser! If the guy has made out before let him lead, don't give too much or too little tounge, and don't do anything that would embarrass you. Learn from my mistake. When a guy is pulling you in don't ASSUME HES HUGGING YOU!
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Its really wierd when you kiss a guy at first you kinda just lean in the you start it fells wierd but just go along with it. After the kiss you to will never look at each other  the same way. I kno this doesn't help at all. But its what happend to me. Ps. Make sure you really like the guy you kiss
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So this guy asked me to make out with him, & were not even dating. I told him yes. So later that day, which was today we were with friends; & we just kinda walked the oposite direction from everyone.,, We looked into each others eyes and got closer and we just started making out. All these other answers say that it just comes naturally, and they are all completley right. You may be thinking to your self that it wont come naturally to you, well I felt the same way. But it really just does. Its so easy and fun, I'm ready to do it again. Plus I'm just 13, and this is my first time ever making out with a guy too.& he knew that, and didnt even care. But just go with the flow, its super easy! Well I hope this helped some of you!(:
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Hi guyss, I see many of you haven't had your first makeout yet, or even your first kiss. But, no worries! It's easy, nothing to get all worked up about. I was my first time too, but it all comes naturally. I'm 13 turning 14 and my boyfriends 14. We've been dating a few months now, and he kissed me right away, I'm pretty sure it was like the fourth day we were dating. Now he tells me everyday, MANY times a day that I'm the best thing thats happened to him, and how much he loves me. Hes the best thing thats ever happened to me, we have a great relationsip
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Well first you should slide your tounge in alittle bit and softly massage his tounge then wen his tounge comes in like play with his tounge with yours. Let your tounge be relaxed my boyfriend has never kissed a girl either haha. I'm a loser cause I had to go online on how to make out lol yea and I'm his first girlfriend so I'm kinda nervouse my whole life I thought of never going to make out with someone cause its kinda awkward for me so a lot of guys get angry when we play spin the bottle yea and I'm only 12 so yea...
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Kso, I'm 13 and at my school its a big thing to have made out, all my friends have and I'm like the only one who hasn't exept everyone thinks* I have.. I dated this guy and he thought** I've mad out, and I stil like him and he likes me. And I want to makeout with him, but I'm super nervous ,where do lips go? D:
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When you make out normally a guy puts his tongue in your mouth and moves it from side to side then you grab him closer to you and before you know it your making out.
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I'm a first timer and I have no clue but pretty much what everyone else said should have helped...its sure going to help me...lol
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Ok well I'm 13 and I'v already made out with a guy. Its not that scary. I mean it was at first the first time is did it but then it s regular. Don't move your toungue tooo much or it will b akward.
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Okay. First. Make sure the guy rele likes you. The good guys want to wait so it can be special. The fake guys want to Makeout w/ you rite away. Second. You start kissingg him a lil beforee. Then get closerr. Then before you know it your tongues are together and so are your mouthss. Move around a bitt in his mouth but don't go to hard or fastt. Keep it sloww. Theenn. Wen he starts to back out take your tongue oout & kiss him (peck) oncee rite after. If your comfortable w/ him itll be fine. Ive done it a couple of times w/ the same guyy. So I am a little nervouss about doing it w/ someonee elsee. But I know basically how to do itt. So ill just follow his leadd. There you go. Haha.
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Okay Okay, Now i get the whole where to put your hands, and how you have too feel it.But lets say he starts to put his tongue in my mouth do i leave my tongue in my mouth and play with his or do i put my tongue in his mouth and go from ther.? Ugh Im soo nervuss.!!!
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To make out some one or to win trust is not a matter of one day, people do trust after repeatedly watching your behavior and response in different situations, specifically the situations which concern them. It is a basic nature of humans that they do not trust anyone very easily, especially when it comes to something which they have rarely likes money, affection, acquisitions etc. So wining a trust is different in different cases.

In my opinion it is necessary to prove yourself sincere enough to win his/her trust. Along with being sincere it is necessary to be caring to someone. Another important thing is your availability at the moment of need, for anyone in life there are different times, some are good and some are bad. However at several times we need someone or we want to count on someone since we are all living in a social system where we depend on each other for all our needs and survival so it is very evident that we depend on each other and our expectations are also understandable. In such scenario if you have to interact with different people development of good relationship is necessary in our social system these contacts are built either due to the blood relations or due to our friendship or relations of love.
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I Need Help. Okay. Ive made out with a guy before but I was like 6 and that was my actual first kiss. And like I started trusting my boyfriends enough for just a peck. And like we were talking about it like yesterday. And I told him I havent done it for a while. But like we went to the movies and at the end he kissed me. But when I got home I was like is that the kisss you wanted. He said ive had better. But it makes me feel bad. But we've been dating for 2 weeks. And I love him to death and I am ready to trust him. So like Do I just walk up to him and like after he kisses me do I just hold till he sticks his tongue in or like what do I do. Ughh I don't want to mess thiss up!! Please help.! Oh yeah and I'm only 14 and hes 13!
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Hahah alright guys. Heres my first kiss story: So I was texting this guy I REALLLYYYY like. And after a little while through the conversation he asks me what I'm doing and I say 'nothing, I am SO bored' and he said 'well you should come over.' and withinin 30 minutes I was sitting in his room watching youtube videos. His sister was there with her friends and then they had to leave. So he goes downstairs and says goodbye. And while hes gone, I get a text from him. It says: "hey. I didnt want anything to be akward or anything, but I wanted to know if you liked anyone or was talking to anyone' and I texted back 'no.' and he said 'so you don't like anyone' me: 'oh I do'. Him: Who?' me: 'I think you should figure that out'. So 5 minutes later he asks me when I  had  to leave. And I replyed 15 minutes. 5 short minutes later I see him inch closer and closer to me. And then he leans in and kisses me. (:(: Thats my story(:
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Ok! I felt like an idiot to when I was learning about that kind of stuff but thank god I had an older sister to help me out.. Making out with a guy is tongue kissing. In case you don't know what tongue kissing is, it is when you give a guy/girl a kiss on the mouth but you open your mouth and his tongue plays with your tongue while your kissing.. That's what making out is.. Good luck!
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If your shy, wait for him to make the first move, or give him kinda tell tale signs. Sit close to him, hold his hand etc. When it comes to making out just let it happen naturally, kissing does seem daunting sometimes but if you just relax and let it flow then it'll be fine.
As for making out, put your arms around his neck, around his waste, squeeze his arm or his bum (lol), run your hands through his hair...just do what feels right. If your not confident enough with this then just take it slow and when you feel the need to make out then it'll happen..often when you want to go further you tend to forget about this and just go with it, letting your actions take over!
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Ha its just natural believe me. You will just put your mouths together start ot kiss and its natural I promise you that its not that hard. You can make out for however long you guys are comfortable usually it doesnt go any longer than a minute most are only thirty seconds.
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So it's my first time. And I'm panicking! I'm hanging with my boyfriend today. And we've been together for long time but haven't made out. I'm an idiot and told him I have made out with a guy before. But I haven't he'll be my first. I'm bi-sexual so I've made out with one of my ex girlfriends. People tell me making out with a guy is way different then a girl. Because girls know what girls want. Guys just want some pleasure.
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Ok well I have never made out before and my boyfriend said he will teach me. He told me that the guy usually grabs the girls waist and the girl puts her hands on his chest. Then you start kissing. First slowly then once you get into it it speeds up and gets really fun.
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Okay..My boyfriend always says m hot and good in bed..the mantra is touching him behind his head,playing with his hair,kissing his earlobes,sliding my hand from his neck to his ab line,kissing his nipples,and the best and important part is looking deep into his eyes..N telling him that you love him.
While making out flirtation is necessary even if you have been with him for hundred years..
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HELP!!!! Ok so I've never made out with a guy before. And the guy that wants to make out with me never has either. And he was like well I want you to make the first move cause I don't want to make you do something you don't want to do. And I'm a very shy person and I'm just like What am I supposed to do? Please Help Me!!
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I need help I really ike this boy named jay I dated him 4   2 years and I really want 2 kiss him before school starts HELP!
                And is it good to make out at the age 12 plz HELP!
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Well I've made out with a few people. And what I know is that there is no exact way to make out. Basically you just kiss each other with your mouth closed at first while hugging them and then you get your tongue out and lick their lips. Then they will open their mouth and you almost wrestle with your tongues. Just close your eyes and pin their tongue down with yours and just another two tips. 1) brush your teeth really well! 2) try tickling the roof of their mouth with your tongue. It gives them pleasure.
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I don't really have an answer , its my first time too .
Like , it was 8:30 at night and I was at the park with my bf .
And he did this thing 'just push me against the wall & kiss me'.
Well m he pushed me against the bridge and kissed me .
But I think he was trying to start to makeout , only cause I went in to give him
a hug after , and he was still trying to kiss me .
I'm only 14 and its going to be my first time.
Yeah well, guess when it was  ?? TODAY !!! (:
HELP ?! What do I do with my tongue ?
I'm so lost && scared .
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I'm 13 and I made out with someone for the first time when I was 12. Just go with the flow and go slowly. And about the whole how long do you go for, basically it you feel him starting to pull away stop. Then, if it looks like he didn't want to stop just start again. There no harm in that! You can always have a little break every now and then. Xx
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HELP!!! I have this huge party this weekend and the guy I really like is going to be there. I've never kissed anyone before but him and all his friends have made out with someone multiple times and basically all of my girl friends have kissed someone too. I really don't want to mess up because I'm afraid of everyone talking about me being a really bad kisser.
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Some of you people have been going out with your boyfriends for months. And YES he wants to snog you. He wants to do more than snog you, your the ones in the way being timid. Just make out with him, he probably doesnt care if  your good or not, he's just happy he's getting some.
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Just go with the flow! Uhhh it has to feel natural to you. Just kiss and slowly move into your kiss and just slowly add your tongue in with the kiss. But if you make out with someone you can taste there mouth :P so like make sure you mouth is not gross!
And for the first time make is easy and cute and not messy and gross
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I'm 12, and I'm a 1st timer too! But about 3 weeks ago-- when we first made out; it was about 11:48pm in a car and we were just warming up since it was so cold outside. I couldn't really see anything but I noticed that out lips were touching and pretty soon we were actually kissing. Just slightly open up your mouth and slip your tongue into his mouth; not to much though. Start gentle though! Making out should come naturally to you-- and you should never be pressured to do so if you feel uncomfortable about it!
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Ok, start with a cute smile, or say something seducing to him, then, slowly lean in and lightly kiss his lips. Once you feel comfortable with that, slowly move your tongue in and out of his mouth. Let him do this to you as well. The best thing to do while making out is to let him touch you, and let yourself touch him. If you are making out with a guy, either keep your arms on his shoulders, or run your fingers through his hair softly. If you are making out with a girl, place your hands down her shirt slightly, on her butt, or on her hips
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Making out is super easy. My first time was with a guy have liked forever and it just mostly comes naturally. Just make sure one of you has you head tilted and it is pretty easy if you just follow the guys lead. Making out is really fun and don't het too nervous if you don't know how to do it. Just relax. And also sure your breath don't stink because making out with a person with bad breath is just sickening. And when you put you tongue in his mouth do it slowly and only a lil of it. Well hope I helped!!!!!
-Courtney
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Alright guys, its a very thrilling experience but don't be afraid, its simple as it seems, let the guy lead and give little tongue so its not all messy, its not fun to be wiping your mouth constantly. Also, go slow and use your hands, hold his or her neck maybe play with his hair, hug him/her or put your hands on their waist. And don't get upset even if the other is a jerk and says your not good just say "teach me" they will think its cute and help you out. But none the less I'm sure youll do fine :] good luck and happy kissing!
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Plz help me I havent made out with him yet but I want to and actually I don't really need help with that part just help me with the part that I'm like 4 inches taller than him so I don't want to bend down or him to have to go on his toes so plz help me with that I can figure out the kiss on my own
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Okay I'm al most fifteen and my bf is 17, we have made out but I'm just sitting beside him or standing beside him with my arms stiff like a statue, what do I do with my hands? Cause he is getting annoyed I think cause I stand there like a wall.....
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Ok. #1, in my opinion, if you're any younger than 13, you shouldnt be making out. #2 if its your first time, then when you feel his tongue trying to get in, open your mouth! Not all the way, but enough for there to be room. Kiss a couple times, open your mouth a little wider each time, and gradually stick your tongue out a little more. Try to gently touch the tip of his tongue a few times, and then slowly rubbing your tongue on his,.. Any angle. Don't force it, go slow. Your first time should be sweet and loving, not frantic and stressed. Theres really no way to mess up. The more you do it, the more comfortable you are. Hope I helped
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I'm 13 and this 16 year old wants to make out with me but he thinks its not my first time because we had a conversation and I was too embarrassed to say I hadn't made out before he wants to make out with me tomorrow what do I do?!
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Well I have a problem I haven't made out with anyone yet period. I ask all my friends and they said basically what all you guys said, about it coming natural and all. Although the guy I am talking to has a lip ring & now I am thinking. How in the world am I going to make out with him with that. Plus, it being my first time. I know I am going to do something wrong and turn out horrible. So what exactly do I do with this kissing stuff?
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Well I haven't had my first kiss yet but I'm terrified about it because I don't no what will happen I just want to know what do you do with the Tonge because I want to kiss my boyfriend but I don't no how to link the Tonge but I can't wait till I kiss him. You can only kiss someone if you are ready and you do no what to do. Thank you for useing your time to read this.

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Kissing a guy or making out with a guy for the first time might not be that easy....my advice would be just kiss him/her What I do is start kissing then slowly put my tongue in their mouth and just keep slowly moving it in and out then stop and kiss him for a bit...then start putting your tongue in their mouth ...And ill be sure they will like it ;)

''Hope you take my advise because it really works"
And your first kiss will be your first kiss you will never forget :)
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Ok ..so my first makeout was with this guy who was four years older than me ...and it came really naturally. You just start kissing and then you follow the guys lead. When you start making out don't think too much about it just go with the flow. And put your arms either around his neck in his hair or on his chest. Be adventurous . And don't stress too much about it. Just do it
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I know I sound like everyone else, but you shouldn't be kissing at 11. You need to enjoy being a kid and focus on more adult/young adult matters when you're older. Before you know it you'll be the proper age to engage in "tongue kissing." Life goes on fast and if you don't savor childhood, one of these days, you're going to wish you did. Growing up is not fun. Just try to make the right decisions.
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Okay so to make out with a guy
just jam your tongue in his mouth while you are jacking him off.
It will give him great pleasure!
He will think you're the best kisser ever... I WOULDNT lie to you!!!!
In my opinion, in a nut shell you MUST practice with your girlfriends before you get it down pack.mine were very honest with me and what I needed to change.
Do the abc's in there mouthh too!
Hope my tips work for you!
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First I would suggest getting to know your crush first. Then if you don't feel comfortable about what he says about himself don't kiss him yet. Then after a couple days when you know him better and you feel they like you just move alittle closer to them. Then if he looks at you and stares into your eyes and he makes the first move follow his lead. Hope I helped!!!!!!
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First of all don't stress about it that just sixes you out and how you move your tong just follow your partners and how long it doesnt matter just when you are ready to stop take your Tong out slowley and finnish with a soft sweet kiss and then you will do fine
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Ok, well just move your tongue inside, and let your tongues touch. Make it gentle and very very sensual. When you want the kiss to end nibble his bottom lip gently. But during the kiss make sure that you move consantley otherwise the kiss is dull and only a peck. Touch his chest it will feel more natural and just let your tongue do the work, when your about to kiss open your mouth but don't stick your tongue out, just once its inside let the tongue do everything it'll be very natural:)
plus is very sensual and feels amazing
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Ok, well just move your tongue inside, and let your tongues touch. Make it gentle and very very sensual. When you want the kiss to end nibble his bottom lip gently. But during the kiss make sure that you move consantley otherwise the kiss is dull and only a peck. Touch his chest it will feel more natural and just let your tongue do the work, when your about to kiss open your mouth but don't stick your tongue out, just once its inside let the tongue do everything it'll be very natural:)
plus is very sensual and feels amazing
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Okay I really need help this one friend of mine keeps wanting me to make out with my boyfriend and I want to and he wants to do it too but the problem is that I have never madeout with any one before ps I'm only 12. Please help me please
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Wait. Your FRIEND wants you to make out? And your only 12. Um, my advice, don't take her advice. Im 12 too, and i want to make out with a guy, but i somehow know that it might go too far. Im also not sure he likes me. Im freaking out! I feel kinda sorry 4 u, so dont take ur bf or ur friend's advice wait until your ready. Its up to you. They shouldn't be making you do something that you are uncomfortable with or are not ready for. Good luck!
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Im 12 too. I knw my boyfriend wants to make out but the problem is idk wut to do! Hes 14 and i knw he has made out with other ppl...just idk how to do it. Last night i was at his house and he kissd me and i knew he wanted to makeout but instead my best friend saved me and said hey can u pass me tht plate. Shes a life savior!!! But i knw he still wants too and i kinda do too im just scared i will do somthing wrong. Its ok. If you dont want too make out dont!! You are your own person. Good luck!
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Just a few days ago my boyfriend and I were lying on the ground staring into each others eyes like we do. ( we have been dating for like 4 months) I have been waiting a long time for us to french kiss and I didn't see it coming and he just kissed me! The worst part was his mouth was open and mine was closed!!! So it was an epic fail!!!! I didnt see him coming so I couldnt prepare!! But it was his first time but I'm going to try to make it up to him tommorow. Lolz
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My boyfriend and I were at a party and we were playing Hide-and-Seek in the dark we were alone and we started kissing them he slid his tounge in my mouth! :) A few weeks later we were hanging  out at his house in his room and we started making out!! :) It came to me naturally but it might not to you!!
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My boyfriend and I were at a party and we were playing Hide-and-Seek in the dark we were alone and we started kissing them he slid his tounge in my mouth! :) A few weeks later we were hanging  out at his house in his room and we started making out!! :) It came to me naturally but it might not to you!!
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Soo I'm a fish and I don't know I don't really have a tongue, I just have gills and my boyfriend is a shrimp and he just has these long tentacle things coming outta his mouth and tickles me with them and I'm afraid of eating him because hes so small.....what should I do???!!!!
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I remember this one time that me and mt boyfriend tried to make out and we kissed and I was too scared to let his toungue in my mouth lol. Then he said for me to not be afraid and to just take his lead and it worked out perfectly...that was about a year ago and I have have 3 boyfriends since...they all say I'm good at making out just because I followed my ex's lead before!
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Okayy so I really liked this guy, and he asked me out. Of course I said yes, but little did I know that he liked to make out. And I never made out before so I was scared. And I even told him. So every time he'd try to make out with me and get nervous and laugh and back down. It happened like 3 times within the time we were together. And then he broke up with me and told people it was because I couldnt kiss. So advice: Just try, nothings worse than having your heart broken because you never tried.
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Well we've been going out for about three weeks now and ive kissed him but I haven't made out with I'm.I want to but I'm scared cause ive never made out with anyone..help please!!!! (this is not my question. But someone elses I don't know how to respond but I want to help, so plz help me.
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Ok when you make out with a guy its usurally best to laying or sitting down. When I would make out I would be on to of my boyfriend and kissing him and touching him all over. You constantly keep your lips on body but mostly his lips and his face. You want him to be doing the same thing and you also french kiss too. Hope I helped!
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Wait I'm so confused half you guys said to put your tounge in & out & half said to leave it in & massage his or whatever, what do I do I've never made out before but my bf wants 2. I want 2 2 but am so clueless it's not funny. (plz help)
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Soo I have a couple of things NOT to do from experience: The first time I kissed a guy I was REALLy nervous and I had my mouth completely shut, so make sure to keep your mouth relaxed. I havent made out with anyone but think I'm going to try... To all of the people worrying about what to do with your tongue, the answer is anything! You can go back and forth, follow the other person, spell out the alphabet. There isn't really a wrong thing to do when making out..
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Okay I'm 13 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a 1 and a 1/2 I love him and all and we're really close we've kissed plenty of times and I know he wants to make out and I want to too but I've never done it before and I know he has (he's even done it with my bestfriend) like we've tried see we were at the movies one time and he kissed me then tried to make out with me he put his tounge in my mouth and I pulled away as fast as I could and now its really awkward with us on the whole making out thing what do I do?? HELP!!!
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Well me and my girlfriend havent made out yet but I have before and its pretty easy once you get the idea, make sure its romantic and not in some crappy area, start a conversation and make it last, eventually when your sitting down just look into their eyes(I'm a guy so I'm telling it from my point of view) kiss them on the lips> if you want to french kiss when your mouths are together slide your tounge in and let magic do its making :)
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Tannis Mitchell answered
I no this is going to seem harsh, but,
YOUR FRIGGEN 11. GO PLAY WITH YOUR BARBIE DOLL AND GO OUTSIDE AND ENJOY LIFE!!! Seriously, what are kids doing these days.
Just wait till your 14, or mature enough please. Kissing isn't the most important thing in your life, right? Just wait till that special someone. Not just any boy you see insight :/
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Ok well I'm going to 8th grade and theres this guy that has never kissed anyone before I was his first girl he held hands with before 2 or 3 years ago so he said he wants to makeout with me.. Ive made out with pl ently of guys before but how do I get him more comforable with it what do I do when I see him and how do I approach him cause hes nervous and I want him ti make him feel more comfortable
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Eek I don't if this has been answered yet cause I gave up read theses responces, but what do you do when you're done making out? Is it akward? Haha like do you look away or start a convo or just look into his eyes all flirty. Thats the only thing I'm nervous for now lol
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Honestly I can't help you because I'm in the same situation. But I will tell you what my friend told me. Let him make the first move, then once you start a good pattern to use if you are really that nervous and don't know what to do is, left right up and then back to left. She said never go down cause then you feel that weird thing of skin under the toung. If that helps you any I'm glad. But personally I have no idea if it works cause I have never done it myself. Good luck. And if anyone would mind giving me some better advise I would greatly apreciate it. I'm 14 and have no idea what to do. And is truth or dare a good idea? Help if you can. THANX!
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Ergh I hate making out, I've had the worst experiences, my first time was sloppy and wet, gross! Like the guys lips were like swallowing my face. And today my boyfriend thought I wanted tongue and he started opening his mouth all wide while kissing and I started laughing , whoops, it was just wierd, is it supposed to be like that??
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Uhh okay, so I have no idea what to do. I'm 17, and havent ever madeout with anyone. I've kissed 5 or 6 boys and a few girls. But I've never been in a long relationship or anything. But I like this guy right now, and he likes me and we're hanging out soon. He's madeout and I havent, and he's a year younger than me. What if he tries kissing me?! I'm so nervous. Please help.
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Me and my boyfriend are going to make out soon, we both havnt yet and I  am TREMEDOUSLY scared. I talked to my best friend who has and she said you just kiss him with tounge, that was not enough advice, so I asked my 8th grade friend and she said you just kiss him first, then you kiss him again and open your mouth a little and it will come natuarlly. I don't know what to do I have read like literally all of these comments and I am deperate! Please help! Another thing is, I reallllyyy like my boyfrined and we have gone out before, except this time its more seirious, I'm 12 and so is he and we are goin to a party soon and I think we might makeout there. One thing is , he is very shy , and my ex was very outgoing, like me, I just can not picture me makeing out with the shy guy, but he seems up to it! When ever he texts me he can't wait to make out, I have this feeeling in my stomach and I don't know what to do! Sometime I feeel like I really wana do it at that time, and other times I don't, its on and off!  Pleasee help!
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I really like this guy he is so HOTT!!! His name is Preston and I just LUV him but I'm not sure he likes me or not. There is this thing that goes on my family that we dream something and soon it comes true like my mom dreamt of a tornado and the next day there was one and so almost everyday I dream about him...I only see him @ basketball practice and games and sometimes at my friends house...our schools are SO small that we have to join with two other schools...Preston is so nice and sweet.I just want to be ready if he kisses me at practice but hopefully at a game outside at night but I just want to be ready
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So I'm totally in love with this guy, he's three years older than me, and he is so sweet, were goin to the movies in a couple days and I'm a lil freaked out,,, what if he wants to make out? Like I want to but I'm nervous,,, I just want to know how to move my tounge... Help me please
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Okay, so me and this guy are talking.
We do have a history, but we've never kissed before.
These tips are really helpful, but we are planning on
making out in the movies. What if we get interupted by
the workers,? Or what if my friend laughs at me or something.
What if he doesn't like it.
I meen, I know he really likes me.
And I really like him.
So.. Just can somebody HELP!
Tips would be nicee.
Please(:
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Yeah, I'm scared. It's my first timee soon and I know for sure that my boyfriend has already done it plenty of times. Like, when it comes to the tounge, do you just stay like that? You know what I mean? Like do you take your tounge out and like open your mouth and kiss still? I'm so scared D:
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The first time I ever made out with a guy, I was also really nervous. We kissed about a million times before but I didnt really know how to make out with him. One night I was with him and it just happened. I still didnt really know what to do. It was both of our first times. We both just followed eachothers lead and everything went fine. Try not to be nervous and everything should come natural. Esspecially if your partner is more experienced than you, just follow their lead.
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Well I was dating this guy and he wanted to make out and it was both our first time. So he went in for a kiss and we kissed like 4 times and then I opened my mouth a little bit and he stuck his tounge in my mouth and it felt soo good and then I just followed his tounge and basically copied what he was doing. Well anyways once you open your mouth you just know how to makeout it comes naturally to you. Then he put his hands on my hips and I put my hand around his head and it was intense. Well I hope I helped.:)
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Ok so I meet this really hot guy at a base ball game and he started flirting with me and smiling and then we started texting and well I'm wicked shy when it comes to hot guys and when he frist kissed me I kissed back but I have never mad out befor and I'm wicked shy help me what do I do
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Shawna William answered
Okay well I'm not worried about my first kiss / make out
I just want to know If I should cause I've been friends with this guy for awhile, like seven years and now I havent seen him in a year now and now he's coming to my house.... He's already said he loves me.. I'mm not going to have sex but still I'm compterable with him and yeah but I don't know, would it make me a whore?
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Maya answered
Wait for the right moment.

Let him make the first move. But if you're brave enough, then go for it.

How to make out:

Don't worry. It comes naturally. I was extremley scared when I made out for the first time with one of my boyfriends (which now of course is an ex bf). But in the end, I was like, whoaaa. It's a new experiance.

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I am 13 and I still havnt madeout, all of my friends have, I am in a relationship with a dude from my school, we kiss everydaay, but its like goodbye kisses, I want to makeout and kiss more but I am like SUPER shy! I want to so bad, got any advice????? :)
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I'm like flipping out. This guy I really like asked me to go to the mall with him and another girl and boy and I'm pretty sure he wants to make out. And I'm like ahh cause hes like yeah ik how and ik he has dated lots of girls and has lots of experience but.. Not me! Ughhh I don't know what to do.. Help, what if I'm not a good kisser? Will he know? Will he care???
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Haii I'm 14 and just had my first makeout session a few days ago. It was freakin awesome!!!! Haha it was me & my boyfriends first time. It was awesome. It wasn't too sloppy. Perfect. Dang! Haha I was nervous but after the first time I just smiled and looked into his eyes then we kept making out. We've been together 4 two weeks..:.anyway good luck for the first time. I'm no expert but I did it! It's not that bad! Don't make a big deal about it. I just whispered into his ear "I want to makeout" then we did..:it was too easy and perfect! -Aleecia
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Ughh, all my friends have had there makeout, so I said I got mine too, when I was staying at my cousins house for a week in the summer.  Then they found out and there trying to hook me up with this really hot guy, and I'm almost positive hes madeout, when I,m sitting here and I havent even kissed anyone! I mean really ? What the heck I'm pathetic, I will be a freshman next year, and I know girls in My grade this year who already lost there virginity, not like I want to ! But I do want to kiss, help pleasee, when kissing, does one pair of lips go in the center and one on thw outside, or one on top of the other ? Help me please !
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Well the first time I made out with a lad was the other month,
I am 13 and it was awefull
I wasnt even going out with him
but he went in for it so I just followed
just relax or you will mess up
just move your mouth along with him and your tounge aswell
he told me I was good for a first timer so ide just relax and take it as it comes
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Okayy guys, all I have to say is: The time will come and when it does... ULL KNOWW!! Usually the guy hugs you and while your hugging, either you or he backs up and hes looking at your lips, then, you kiss. But if he wants more, just kiss him over and over again. If your ready to make out, open your mouth a little but if you don't just back up and get out of his hold. Its fine, just tell him that your not fully ready to use tongue just yet.
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Okay so iv'e been going out with this guy for about a week, But I realllly like him and he realllly likes me,so we kissed on like the second day we hung out at his house. He didn't try to make out, but I think he wants too so...I don't know what to do. I use to have a boyfriend a year ago that I went out with for like a half a year and he tried making out and I got really scared and didn't. Same with the one after that. And so I guess its point less  to have a relationship if you don't make out?
So help me! I'm SO NERVOUS, how do I move my tounge and how do I make it natural when I know ive freaked out before,help! He wants to tommorow!!!!
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Hey ummm i think that maby you should just wait for the right time to make out with him i mean you dont want to make out with him and then when you guys are over say to your self i wish i never madeout with him, like i did i gave this guy that i thoght i was going to be together with for along time my first kiss and first dance and i say to my self everyday i wish i never did that .so just take your time and if he put presher on you then that means he dosent truly like/love you
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Ok.....you don't do what everyone says about the abcs and crap because if you do the you are thinking about it to hard.  Not much thought should be put into it.  Its kind of an art like playing world of warcraft.  For my fellow geeks think of the tongues as lightsabers.  You are going to want to stick it in as far as it can go making sure to involve plenty of slyva. Head movement is good and so is moving your hands up and down the body as it hightens touch receptors in the lips and makes the kiss more pleasurable. Generally I am the one that starts it and she follows.
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Okaai.. Me and my boyfriend where talking about making out, and he told me he wanted to try it.. (and I kinda wanted to try it to;)) so, I'm seeing him in two days. But the last time we tryed to make out.. I got drool all over hes chin. I'm scared that might happen again.. I'm my boyfriemds first girlfriend, so he dosent know how to kiss much either :/
-13 year old that needs help with kissing.
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Brittney Burton answered
Go as long as he wants to. If you need help read twilight
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Ok... What if u get uncomfortable and he wants to keep going? Do u just stop? But than he ll think ur not that into him....now these are the tought questions
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Okay. So I'm going to be honest. I've made out with a lot of guys. A lot of them were terrible, but most of them were great.

Okay, the first thing you should do is just kiss his lips. No tongue just lips.  After a few seconds pull away and look at his eyes. Then go in for another. Repeat this step two-three times. (Every kiss should get longer.) Going in for the fourth kiss. Kinda push your lips against his. Open up your mouth a little bit and lick his lips. It drives my boyfriend crazy! He usually would get the idea that you want to make out.  He then puts his tongue in your mouth. It should then come to you! Well good luck. Oh. If you aren't ready. Don't do it! Have fun!

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Okaiii so I was at this gayy dance and my friend was forcingg me to make out with some guy so I felt bad cause he kept staring at me (WEIRDO) but anyways we started making out thenn like 2 months later my friend was gunna make out with him but she didnt know that he was gunna use his tongue so they opened theres mouths then he tried putting his tongue in her mouth and she spat all over his facee LMFAOO!!!!!
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I'm a first timer. My boyfriend was just like you want to make out? I said I don't know. But we started by just kissing and decided to be comfortable with that before anything else
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You make out by sticking your tongue in a guys mouth wow simple as that
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Haha true. I dont see what the problem is.
Guys. Kiss him, just a peck if your nervous. Keep going opening your mouth a little wider every time, he will take the hint and slide in his tongue (if he doesnt slide your tongue in). If you are unexperienced then let him take the lead and just copy what he does. Spelling the alphabet with your tongue is a good trick for beginners and dont worry about being a bad kisser, there is no such thing.
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Ok, I'm 12 and my boyfriend (almost 14) and I want to make out...he's made out with 2 other girls, but I'm a first-timer, and I highly doubt it ALL comes naturally...so HELP me PLEASE!?!?!
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U r 12 u should not be makeing out with someone when your that yong
u can have a bf but makeing out keep that to the older kids like your borther
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Well just follow his lead.. If hes actually made out with a girl before then he'll know.. But tell him, guys like it when you are honest.. And you're not too young .. My cousin was 10 when when she first made out with a guy and she told him that it was her first time and he said just follow his lead and it'll be alright ... Hope i helped ! :)
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I'm 13 and I've been dating a guy for 7 months and I want to mae out but he doesnt know I want to. Well I don't even know how and how to tell him I want to. And out anniversary is coming up...please help me!1
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Heey well I'm thirt-teen to annd I have been daying this guy for about one year and thrre months nd we just made out like this month. We both wanted to but never did. Then one day we were kissing and I felt his mouth moving and I just went with the flow. I was really scared because it was my 1st time as for him. And let me tell you once you get going and get past the 1st time. You'll love it. But just keeo dropping hints to him that you do, but let him make the move & go wih the flow.
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Okay so I have never made out before and my boyfriend thinks I have so he is expecting me to have experience.. I really need help in order to not be like a nasty dog
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Put your lips on his lips and just move them around on his lips. Theres not really a certain way to do it
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All I know is that whatever Guest say is good info so scroll down a little bit and see what she says,
she can help you big time!
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Can u help me
Im really liking this guy nd im hoping we're gonna hook up soon,but just the other day he made out with this girl at school and i have never made out with anyone i've never even had my first kiss! But if we hook up i dont want him to want to make out nd i wont know how to! Help?!
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RELAX!!!! It comes naturally. You can give the signal by quickly glancing at his lips then back up to his eyes. Just be calm and it will be great
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I'm in the 7th grade and my boyfriend wants to make...I don't know if he has ever done it before but I have no idea how...it will be my first time...Help please!!!
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Samme!! Im in grade 7 im 12 and my boyfreinds in grade 6 and 11 and he wants to make out BADLY with me at a dance coming soona nd my fridns keep saying "move ur tongue slowly" and imm sooo scred cuz he asked me to make out on the computer at the dance and i said YES!! And its gonna be my first time he says he knows how but I DONT!!! I dunno if he has and im REALLY scareedd!!! HELP ME PLEASEE!!the dance is next friday!!! ARRGJH!!!!
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I don't know how to move my tongue? I don't want to mess up like what if I give him to much tongue? I'm so confused I'm 15 and he is 14 and he had made out before so I don't want to mess up I never made out with anyone before.
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I know how to make out but I have no idea how to stop without it being awkward. Help?
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I'm scared I have kissed a guy but never put my tongue any Weir so you guys should post a video on how to do it
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Well you lick your fingers and just stick them in her ear. Then it should come out and be natural.
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Well this guy who's a year older wants to make out with me, hes 13 and I'm 12. I think hes really hot and he thinks I'm really hot too. He seems nice, funny, and just like a good guy. I don't think he just wants to kiss/make out but I think he wants to be like a best friend. We havent gone out yet but we text, call, and facebook chat. He has made out with a lot of girls but I havent.   So that makes me nervous, but like a first kiss (which was a peck for me) its just GO WITH THE FLOW. Any tips?
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Hey what about teeth?
How come my teeth hit his sometimes?
Thats not suppose to happen!
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This is going to be my first time ever making out with a guy and the guy that I'm going to make out with has had PLENTY of make outs and he thinks ive made out with someone before I'm so nervous!!!!help!!!
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Don't GIVE INTO PEER PRESSURE!!! Don't you learn anything in school.....just cause all of your friends have or cause the guy wants to doesnt mean you have to make your own decisions :D
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First you lean in to him the you gently kiss him if he likes it move your Tong in and gentle move it if he like that start kissing like there is no tomorrow!
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:O You shouldn't be kissing at 11. I know you don't want to hear that, but it's not a good start.
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I have read all this advice and it has helped me feel much more confident, thank you all so much!
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Well heres the thing how would you do it when your Guy / boyfriend already has experiences ? ... Its scary ...but he also Said he will do it when ever I'm ready :D (:
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You just put your hand on his waste line and kiss but don't forget to move your but to massage their but you make out as long as you can hold your breath
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When he puts his tongue in your mouth are you supposed to let him just move it around or like wrap your tongue with his and like yeah. It sounds odd, but I don't want to mess up.
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WOW SO EASY! I'm 18 and did it for the first time with my ex now. I just kissed him and then opened my mouth and slid my tongue into his and we played back ans forth.
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The guy leads. All you have to do is follow!!! Simple :D hope its useful
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Adding to what I said before. Good luck and you will know when to do it. It is so right and you will know when. So yah, bye.
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I asked this question once. Truly no one can help you..just close your eyes and all willl come natural you don't need anyone to tell you...you have nothing to be worried about...
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You want to hold on to there head and you just go with the flow...everything will fall into place as it happeneds
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I need help my bf wants to make out with me and I have never made out and he has neve made out 2 he thinks I have and I don't know what to tell him
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Well, if he grabs your waist, grab his head and start kissing him. If uve been going out 4 a while you could french him (not recomended 4 beginners). And tell him you luv him
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Start out by kissing slowly and be gentel too then open your mouth a little the star using
your tounge...in my opinion its better for him to lead so its much easier for you to follow..
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Aiiight, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months and we want to make out and all that crap. And we've had soo many chances but I always freak out and I don't do it. No joke. Haha, well I'm just afraid I'm going to mess it up and he wont do it with me again. Bleh/:
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I know how you feel, I want to so bad but I'm scared ill be bad, I have no idea how to and some of my friends want to but I'm scared because I'm afraid ill be like horrible n look like a freak ! I need help !!!
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Alright, well, today I was at the mall with my two best friends and when we walked in we saw these two pretty hot guys, and I'm like, 'oh dang, guys, look at them!' so we just forget about them really, then like an hour later it turns out that my friend knew one of the guys. She was like his best friend practically. So I was all surprised and stuff. We all started talking, we had lunch together, and we all were like getting really close and stuff. When it came time for one of the guys to leave, both of them did. Later on, it was just me and my one friend katie, and we run into the guy that I thought was pretty hot, I was starting to like him a lot. So me, him, and katie were all like walking around, and he was definitely flirting with me, and I thought it was really cute (; so we went upstairs in macy's, where like all the beds and couches are and stuff. When we were up there, he's like, 'hey domi, pick a couch'. Haha, I started laughing. So I picked our couch and we sat down and he put his arm around me, and he asked me if I wanted to make out. I had no clue what to say, so I just made up a lame excuse saying that I had just met him and I didn't want to put on a bad first impression. He understood and stuff, but he still wanted a kiss. I gave him one, and he asked for more, then I gave him one more. Then, about like 30 minutes later, his dad called and was there to pick him up. Therefore, he had to go! I was so mad. I wanted him to stay forever, I was loving this. So when he left, he kissed me again. He kissed me 3 times the whole time we were hanging out! I loved it :) it was my first kiss, so when he left me and my friend katie were like freaking out. But now, he wants to hang out just me and him, but this time, he wants to make out. I don't know how! I've never made out with anyone before! I am a nervous wreck! I have some kind of feeling that I am going to mess up or something. When I kissed him, he told me that he has a feeling I'm a good kisser, so maybe he's right. Maybe I will be a good kisser :) but who knows, only time will tell, right? Just someone should give me some advice on how to makeout. And when your done making out, how do you stop without making it seem like really freaking awkward?
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Well, the first time I was going to make out it was at friends house, he fell asleep and so did I. That night I was at his house I had basketball practice, and I guess he woke up and I just made him reach for my lips.. Then it just comes to you naturally, and if you want to top the kiss of, at the very ending, bite his bottom lip just a little bit.. Not to hard tho. Well, now that I have a boyfriend (going to have soon) I'm really nervous to make out with him because I don't wana be a bad kisser. And on top of that this is going to be my third time making out and yet I'm still really nervous.. You just got to trust yourself, and if you boyfriend says anything about your kissing, that mean he was just trying to get to see how far you would go..
P.s make sure you aren't sloppy because it can become a really big mess.. : ) hopefully I helped you..
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I've had my fair share in experience with this. Don't worry too much about the kiss, focus a little more on the approach, unless he/she is your partner then there is nothing to worry about. I for one always approach him, whether its at a club with a casual person or with my partner.
Start by just kissing the lips, your instincts will tell you to put your tongue in his mouth, but even if he/she does first try to resist and tease him. Then when you feel you can't anymore or when you feel he has had enough start with the tongue. This part will come naturally. At some point or another you will realize that you don't have much to do with your hands, I would recommend around the neck if you are a beginner. Other options are grab him by the hair, guys love that, and its my favorite position. You can also put your hands in his front pockets (if his pants are loose its better) or in his back pockets, but this is once you've gained some sort of trust in each other. The rest is just up to nature. Hope I helped!! :)
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Alright, so FIRST, pick a spot where you're alone. I prefer to be laying down cause my boyfriend is about nine inches taller than me, and my neck hurts when I have to stand up and make out for a long time. Sooooo our first time making out with each other, I was laying on his bed, lights were off, movie was on, yeah yeah, and we were laying on our sides, his arms around me, and leaned up to kiss him once, then twice, then slowly part your lips and gently slide your tongue against his lips and voila! I think the whole do the alphabet thing is wayyyy too long, throw a little tongue in for five seconds, slowly close your mouth, NO TEETH, and suck on his bottom lip as you pull away, then go back in with your mouth open. Alternate between who's on top of each other. He likes when I rub my fingers through his hair. Also if you get tired, move down and kiss his neck to give you both a chance to rest.
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Okay well I just met this guy and hes Hot! I met him at a football game and it was getting pretty boring so me my friend, my friends boyfriend, the Hot guy and the hot guys friend all went to the hot guys house, we were just chillin in his back yard when all the sudden I find out this Hot kids neighbor is this kid who I'm like madly in love with lol and I was completly nerveous soo I had a cigarette, it calms my nerves and it was a strong ciggerete so I ended up laying on the ground completly buzzed and all the sudden the hot guy was laying right next to me and we just started making out, it was kind of my first time because I don't know why but my first make out didnt really count it was like 3 seconds long, but anyways back to the story, I'm nerveous as can be but he takes the lead, and all I have to do is massage his tongue with mine, I guess what I'm trying to say is let the guy take the lead, if your not a whore you prolly wont know what to do so if hes "more Experienced" let him do the work and you just follow (:
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Thats awesome advice.... But the one thing is is that my boyfriend kisses me but dosnt take control and i like a man who can be brave and be the man in the relationship
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Well basically-first you get in a comfortable persision and then you tilt our head the other way from what the boy is tilting his head you get closer open your mouth and then yu will fill the boys lips touching yurs then all of a sudden the boy might put his tongue in your mouth and all you have to do is go round his tongue like a washing machine but very slowley if this is yur first go well I suggest you tell himm that this is only a practise you will get use to it more often then you just go round and round and if you want to move your lips slightly coming over his the that is fine but just make sure you feel comfotable,
 
  1 tip I am 12 and I am a gurl and my boyfriend really wants to mix me so I said I will but I did it when I was in year3 so I am really sscared I mite do it wrong so I will take it step at a time
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Okay well its my first time too and I'm on here looking for advice....
But I'm really nervous too. If he really likes or loves you he wont judge and he will most likely think ALL your kisses are great ones if hes really into you. Guys are easier to please then girls. They just do what feels good and what feels right. So my guess is you should do the same. He will probably kiss your neck too so be ready for that ;) my date is on monday and he is coming to my house.... So at least I'm in a comfortable enviorment! Practice makes perfect so thats what your hand is for! Haha :) good luck.
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Im going to my bf house on monday and its gonna be my first time making out with him and idk what im supposed to do
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Ah I have a New boyfriend and I havent seen him ina while and we just started dating and we where hanging by the pool and he was like kiss me I was so nervous because hes way more experienced than me and we started making out don't go to much with the tongue move your tongue with his and go with the flow
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BE BRAVE!! 1st: You need to figure out where to put your hands...OPTIONS: Around his neck...resting on his shoulders...on his ass...or if things are more intense then run your fingers thru hos hair.
2nd: Light kissing..let HIM make the first move to actually make out. When you feel is tongue on your lips open your mouth. Then use your tongue and write your name in his mouth. (like move your tongue to make the letters of you name you know?)

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Okay well I have already kissed my boyfriend twice well made-out..the first time was on our school playground and kinda strange but the second time was at the movies.the we were at the movies he said ''kiss me'' and I asked ''why?'' being stupid..then he says ''please'' and it just happened it was amazing!But I need help When were together I want to be all over him but I don't really know how to do that so help me please.And how do I flirt with him? Thanks. (:
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Well me and my bf are going to make out tomorrow at his place and I don't know what to do.we only been going out for 14 days. But we been friends forever, and I'm really scared if I do to wrong things he would break up with me and we might not be friends anymore.plz help me!!!!!

P.s I'm 14
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I was scared to make out with my bf so I told him and he said he would take it slow n easy n if I got to like scared when doing it like I make a little noise n then just kiss him ( with no tongues ) n just cuddle =] =] x
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Okay so ive been dating a guys for one month now and whenever I see him after school all he does is hug me or kiss me. I want him to make out with me but we both havent had a first makeout. I'm pretty sure he wont make the first move so my question is how in the world do I make a first move or atleast some hints for him to understand I want to make out.?
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Ok so I have had my first kiss before, and many other kisses ;) but last night on halloween this guy that really like me tried to makeout with me and it was a total fail!! I leaned back and said I can't do this and now I don't kno what to do because I may, or may not like him he says he still likes me but hes a terrible kisser. He still really wants to makeout with me but I don't know how to make out someone please help! How do I start it with a normal kiss or above the lips? H E L P M E P L E A S E ! Thank you :)
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When you're making out, it should come natural. I say to not put to much tongue in his mouh and it depends on how long you make out. It depends on the vibe you both are having. Also move your tongue with his, whatever motion he's doing, you do. Hope I helped a little!...
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Basically, all you have to do is kiss him a couple of times. If its your first like peck kiss, don't go to making out. But anyways, kiss him a couple of times, and just gently slip your toungue into his mouth. Guys like it when you take control a little bit. But if your not that confident let him lead. Even if your not the greatest, if hes really into you he wont even notice. Make sure your breath is fresh too (:
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First I would suggest getting to know your crush first. Then if you don't feel comfortable about what he says about himself don't kiss him yet. Then after a couple days when you know him better and you feel they like you just move alittle closer to them. Then if he looks at you and stares into your eyes and he makes the first move follow his lead. Hope I helped!!!!!!
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K two things.
1) my bf is really tall and even when we make out on the couch I feel like I'm just kissing his lower lipp...help
2) I don't even knoww when to put my tongue in I just need help, cause when you kiss your mouth opens and his tongue comes in but I don't no when to use mine..
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First you flirt with him/her and then you gaze into his/her eyes then you tilt your head you start off with a kiss then you'll notice he opens his mouth lil by lil then you put you tongue in and you twist your tongue with his and if your a girl you put your hands around his neck and if your a guy you put your hands on her waist or if you love them then you put your hands on there but and push them up and you can also put your hands in there shorts,pants,jeans,skirt and a skort so you can touch there but good luck (hope he likes it and doese it for several hours
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Hey everyone! I got the part where we draw and wrestle gently with our Tongues... But eat r my lips doing? And am I supposed to open nd close my mouth?!
Help me! I'm meeting him today! And it's been wayyy too loong! I just have to make out with my boy:( :(
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I'm a first timer too, so don't worry about it. Me and my boy friend are thinking bout making out we don't want people to think were square so were thinking about it. I'm nervous as crazy and he says he madeout before but I don't know if thats true because I told him I have and so yea oh god I'm really nervous... Wish me luck! Btw I have absolute no clue how you move your tougne and you just stop when ever your bf or gf stops. I think ... Lol byebye hopefully everything works out!!
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Trust me: Everything will work out. It usually comes naturally. Dont say "lets make out" cause it makes it worse. After he makes his move and puts his tongue in your mouth, just play with his tongue, but not too much. It needs to be magical. Gradually play with it more. It will have to happen by itself, so dont plan it in front of him. I love making out cause it just happens!! Lol c ya l8r!!!:)
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I don't know if your gunna find this as any help but I'm telling the truth. If you read instructions on how to makeout before youve had your first makeout its just gunna confuse you.   Find out by your self just lean in and kiss the boy will lead , then you should look up " tricks " for your next time . Everyone kisses different so they way we explaine it will confuse you.... So here are my steps.. Lean kiss and let the boy lead, follow everything he does, but not at the same time he does it... Right after is the time to do that :D then after your first time look up tricks and youll eventually get better and better ... Hope it helped :P
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There was this guy that really liked me and I wasint sure if I liked him or not.then one night he kissed me I didint kiss him and he was like all over the place...ha so I pushed him away!And now this one guy wants to make out with me...I like him I guess.but it would be awkward because how do you make out?!?!?!?!ohhh =((((
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I'm 17 and I've kissed a boy but never made out. I can't belive I;m reading this with 11 year old girls. But yeah I'm ganna have my first make out on saturday and I'm soo excited casue this guy is perfect and I feel like hes perfect :) I really hope I don't mess up tho casue if I do ill die !
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Me and my boyfriend both want to make out but I'm scared. I'm not sure wut to do!! I know like the advice ppl give me but what if I mess up. The other day my bf kissd me and I almost fell on him!! I tripped. It was so embaressing but we both laughed and he hugged me. We have kissd many time but never made out. I'm so scared!! Also all my friends and my older sister already think we have made out...(long story) but I'm scared. I want to make out with him I'm just really worried!
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Ok well I'm ready to makeout with my boyfriend and hes madeout once before with this really pretty girl and I'm nervouse because I madeout once but only to try it with my friend we were in 4th grade and we wanted to see what it felt like so I kissed him then he put his tounge in my mouthe then I played with it a little but its scary because a lot of played guys like played things and my friend tols me that she saw a picture of them making out and it made me pissed because hes lied to me and said hes never did before and that pissed me off but I can't be mad at him because I love him but I don't know I want to makeout with him so bad but I don't know I'm kinda nervous because I really like him!!!!!
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Ok well im ready to makeout with my boyfriend and hes madeout once before with this really pretty girl and im nervouse cuz i madeout once but only to try it with my friend we were in 4th grade and we wanted to see what it felt like so i kissed him then he put his tounge in my mouthe then i played with it a little but its scary cuz alot of guys like diffren things and my friend tols me that she saw a picture of them making out and it made me pissed cuz hes lied to me and said hes never did
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Okay so, one time after school iwas hanging out with my boyfriend and are friends, then he took my hand right in the middleof a conversation and lead me over to this tree covered area and I knew what he wanted. To make out! I was scared because I had never before. So when it hapened we just kinda did it. I moved my tounge around. And he loved it but the stupid thing was I couldnt breath. After making out I was huffing and puffing silently it killed me.
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Making out is easy. Its really imtimidating if you have never done it and its "planned".
Planned make outs are usally the most awkward because you both know you want to do it, but you don't know when. Let things happen naturally.

STEPS;;
start with your basic kiss.
A normal kiss (for me) usally goes about 5-7 seconds without making out-
if it goes longer than that, then you know he wants to makeoutt.
>>ORRALSO< their is no "required" time for a makeout, if you like it and he likes it, go as long as you please. Its fun, flirty,and it feels good.

Hope this helped! (:
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I'm an experienced 14 year old girl.lol
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Ahh I'm 14 and I kissed this boy at a dance, he tried to get some tounge in there I didnt know what to do, so I backed away. Now I reallllllaayyy want to make out with my bf, and I don't think he knows how. Soooo how can I take the lead? Adn be good at it? Lol! Pleasasaea fgaoiehgaoghaskdjgh help meeee.
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I havnt rlly made out myself:( I have come rlly close tho:) today we were in the lunch  line all the way in the back, he kissed me and I turned around to leave and he pulled me back and slobbered all over my mouth,and I could totaly feel his tounge on my lips! I opened my mouth slightly and I didnt get any tounge in my mouth. I had this weird look on my face! I was tottaly freked, it was def. A suprise, now I don't think he will ever makeout withh me again! Wht should I say to him, and how should I stop tht from happening again? Any help???? :)
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Well em...I don't know if this helps but.....I know my boyfriends likes a bit of "touch and feel" but that's him I don't know your boyfriend or what he likes...but most fellas are the same when that's concerned.
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Well.... I like this guy and he asked me "how far would you go in my car" and I'm like "it depends on the mood" so hopefully, if we do end up making out, ill be prepared. Thanks everyone.
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I really fancy this guy and we have gone out before but this will be out first time to the movies together and
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Theresa Russell answered
None of these answers make sense! I'm 10 and even I KNOW that if you trusted your boyfriend enough for him to understand if you mess up a makeout you wouldnt have to ask strangers on here!
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Well okay. Ive always wanted to. But my friends did this. Make sure you or the boy has a piece of gum in his mouth. Then what you want to do is try to fine it with your tougue. And trust me it works!!
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Its easy do watever he does its pretty much just massaging your parteners tongue
going on youtube and watching how to makeout instructional video might be helpful.
Oh and don't open your mouth too wide or too small
hope I helped ! :)
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alyssa hale answered
I have a new boyfreind now and I want to makeout with him but he is so shy! I can barely get him to kiss me normally! How should I convince him to makeout with me and not seem so desprate!
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Hey so...the key to having a successful make out with a guy is to....gooo wit da flooo
just do what he is doing...wow that sounds wierd.

JUST MAKE SURE TO KEEP your EYES SHUT! Its wierd to have ppl stare at you
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Ohk I have made out wiff mehh boyfriend and we have beenhh datin for like 2 months most guys  are supposed to make the movess but I had to or we wood have neva even done it butt I don't mata who does it jst always member if yur gnna do it make SHURRR YU REALLY LIKE HIMM OR YU WOOD JST BEEHHHH USEIN HIM AND IMA 12 =]
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Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks now...we've gone out before and broken up, we never really stopped liking each other so we're going out again, I've kissed him before and all of a sudden he asked me if I would ever make out with him...I told him that I would and that I have made out with other guys before...(but I havent)...well its going to be his first time making out too and he wants me 2 teach him how because he thinks that I know how....what should I do??? I mean I know how 2 make out but I've never done it before...we're never alone but we have 2 classes 2gether at school...one is english and the other gym...we could do it after school but I don't know how to start...by the way we're both 12 and his birthday is coming up in a couple of months...
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Okay, so theres this guy I really like. And he likes me. Which is good. But he thinks ive made out with someone before cause I didnt want it to be all awkward with him making out with all these other girls before and me never made out... So I told him that I did once but the guys mom walked in so we didnt so it long. And then he asked if I had kissed someone and I said yahh my ex and so he asked my ex if I was a good kisser and he said yahh. So he came back to me and asked me to kiss him, but we were sitting in class... So I told him that if he wanted to kiss that he should kiss me and he agreed so he was leaning in and we were about to kiss but the bell rung so we couldnt. We havent yet and its been like a month. We might go to a party in december and make out then because I wont see him that year cause he'll be home schooled but he doesnt want to wait that long... What should I do?! I don't even know how to make out... And he wants to. But I don't want to give him up. HELP!
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You need to just let it happen & let him take control. Thats exactly what i did, & now im an effin pro! Hahaha but anyway. Here a tip & trick. Fresh breath ofcourse & while your making out, but move your tounge with his. & then you spell the alphabet out with your tongue. Just dont be nervous. Thats the worse thing that could happen.
Btw. DO NOT USE TEETH!
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Ok I'm 11 dating a 14 year old and he wants to make out with me but I never made out with any one before and I'm really nervous cause he said hes done it like more than 50 times
( and hes not a virgin ) and I never did make out with any one and I don't want to make a fool out of my self and I just met him like 2 days ago and we already kissed now he wants to make out. Please help me and thank you if you do help me
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I've never had a Boyfriend before but I know that 14 year old boys are stupid and always think about sex. If I were you I'd wait for a while and see how everything goes. Make sure you don't get into anything bad >_< At this age neither you or him are ready for sex. Talk to your parents if your not to scared or talk to your friends. Just take it slowly and be careful with him.
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Wow u need to have ur first kiss dude I'm 12 and and I'm not a virgin soo get a move onit and I'm srry u should only do it wen r ready and it's easy ur first kiss and it's harder if ur bf is a bad kisser which mine is but it's ok!!
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Ok i am 11 too but my boyfriend is 11 and we have been going out for 7 months now. I think that we should have our first kiss by now but my boyfriend said that we should wait awhile. What should i do wait or just plant one on him?
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When it was my first time we started feeling on each other then we started making out and feeling it up and then it went too far and next thing I knew my pants were off and my bra was too.  I lost my virginity that night!  So be careful!!! Don't let a guy take advantage of you.  I was drunk!!! So don't get drunk either!! But we are still together.... That was about 4 years ago and I am 21 so.....  Hope this helped!!!!
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Hey ok ppl don't get all freaked out ova your first kiss or makeout sesion. Hey just go wit da flow. Ok lyk if he lyks to kiss wit toung try to copy  hym but not all da way. And if he doesnt lyk toung just kiss oh and if you get the urge to bit or sux on his lip don't bad move  right there kk well I hope ive helpeda lot of ppl I actualy came to this site for answers too  so haha well lyk I said hope I helped
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I am a first timer but I get it. It should come natural and when the time is right. Okay, thanks.
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Me too!! I was a first timer then but it was surprisingly easy!!! At first, i didn't know how to do it but what i did was i just followed my bf and then that was it!! Actually, i didn't put my tongue into his mouth, it was him who did it..and i just followed..
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samual answers answered
You're 11, stick with coloring books and crayons. I have an 11 yr old daughter and thats way too young. Wait till you're 17
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Take some one you love a lot start kissing all over the place then take that pie put it in the oven       there you have SEX!!!!!!
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What does a free be making out mean? This guy has a girlfriend and he was like asking if she gave a free be to him would I do it to him.. And I'm confused what does free be Mean?!??
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Will you ask him out and on date one kiss hem date 2 then make out thats what I did it works
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Nadya Bean answered
Just like go with the flow. I mean we all think that like theres a whole technique and I guess there is but I think that once you do it youll kno...
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Laura Johnson answered
I have this guy at school and I know he likes me. He really wants to kiss me from the signs and the movements he has shown me. He has been off and on with his girlfriend for 4 years. I am an eighth grader and I am so nervous. He asked me out and said we would have to keep it on the down low because he was afraid of getting shit from the guys at school. I was so pissed. But know I have really gotten to know him and I really want to make out with him. I am in this class called garage band and there is my dance room next to it. I think we are going to make out tomorrow and I am so scared!!!!!! Wish me luck!!!!
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Well my boyfriend always tells me that its so tempting to make out with me & we have been going out for a year and a half on & off. I have never made out with anyone since the fifth gradeeeee. Haha so any tips?
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This guy like fancy's me and I fancy him, I know hes going make out with me soon but I'm really nervous. Ive never done it before. I just need to know what way does your tongue go. And are your lips at the same level as the other persons or is one higher than they're lip.
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This is your obvious first time and thats fine. Here are some tips I have for you. First start kissing him probably 4 little pecks then a longgggggggggg kiss. After the long kiss look into his eyes and smile. Then you go in again and slowly put your tounge into his mouth and move it with his. Keep pulling it in and out. When your finished kiss 6 more times and then your done. By the way while your kissing hold your partner closer if your a guy put your hands around his neck and if your a girl put your hands on her but she likes that a lot
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Ok so I'm the kind of girl that likes opti ions I like being with different guys and my ex and bff told me I kiss like a porn star ahah I don't no if this is good or bad but whatever he says I'm good. Anyways I hang out with all guys there all kind of friends with benifits with me. Ive made out with like everyone and there al pretty much players and I'm kinda like a girl player. But if you have a certain style of making out then you can't be good for everyone. Esspecially if the other person is used to a differrent kind of making out. Anyways just try your best and hopefully you'll get those guys coming back for more ;)
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KK Rak answered
Umm I don't know!!!! Go to youtube.com I am positive there is going to be something about your question that's posted!
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I have made out once with a guy who was like a year older then me. It was both of our first times and our two friends that were there were making out so they pressured us. He had braces but I didn't. And he kept like rubbing my thigh which freaked me out. And he just kissed me and shoved his tongue down my throat! And I had my eyes open still! And I had no idea what to do! I fell back laughing on my bed and told him to stop!(we were just sitting next to each other) I was so grossed out!!!!He literally stuck his tongue out and then shoved it in my mouth! I haven't made out since! That was a whole year ago! I wasn't ready and I was like scarred for life from that and I don't know when I will be ever able to again. So my advice is, NEVER let your friends or your guy pressure you into it when your not ready!
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I'm 13 and ive kissed guys bf of times and had like 30 bf. I had da same prob. So I took lessons from my friends. One time I even had sex with em

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